Sunday, October 31, 2010

Best Love Stories Ever

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Every great romantic classic has brilliant characters, an amazing plot and best of all, super hot on-screen chemistry. If you want to delve deeper into the romance section than The Notebook and Titanic (both great movies), check out these timeless films.

These 9 love stories are sure to make you stay home with some takeout and your friends, or that special guy, and settle in for a movie night.



This one's a no-brainer; the title says it all. Wealthy Harvard Law student Oliver Barrett IV (RYAN ONEAL) and music student Jennifer Cavalleri (ALI MACGRAW) don't have a lot in common, but that doesn't stop them from entering a relationship against his father's will, and then losing his inheritance to get married. Then tragedy strikes.



This quirky TARANTINO film tells the story of Clarence and Alabama (CHRISTIAN SLATER and PATRICIA ARQUETTE), a young couple who falls in love and gets married, only to kill her pimp, accidentally pull off a heist and get into trouble with some gangsters who are hot on their trail.



JULIA ROBERTS stars in the role that made her famous as Vivian Ward, a beautiful young Hollywood prostitute who is hired by rich, ruthless businessman Edward (RICHARD GERE) to spend the night. A night turns into a week, and soon they are learning much more about each other than they had bargained for. This modern Cinderella story was an instant classic and every chick wanted to become a hooker after seeing it.



Bonnie Parker (FAYE DUNAWAY) is a bored, young small-town girl who needs a change. Clyde Barrow (WARREN BEATTY) is a charming young drifter who is recently out of prison. Together, the two fall in love and begin a crime spree that extends from Oklahoma to Texas, becoming celebrities along the way. People are proud to help them; but the police are out to kill them.



JULIE DELPY and ETHAN HAWKE star in this 1995 film about two young travelers who cross paths on a European train ride and end up spending a romantic night in Vienna, knowing that by sunlight they will separate and may never see each other again. In the next film, they do reunite and spend an unforgettable day together in Paris - but will two days be enough to base their love on?



Rick Blaine (HUMPHREY BOGART) runs Rick's Cafe, a popular nightspot in early World War II Morocco, where many Americans fled during the war. When his old flame Ilsa (INGRID BERGMAN) arrives, he is very bitter towards her, as she ran out on him in Paris. But when he hears her reason, all is forgotten - except their love for each other.



CLAIRE DANES and LEONARDO DICAPRIO star in this modern remake of" and "a classic love story where members of two feuding families fall hopelessly in love. This version takes place in the modern suburb of Verona, where gun-toting family members end up on the morning news. Original Shakespearean language dialogue is used throughout, which makes this twisted version worth watching.



It is the summer of 1963 and "Baby" (JENNIFER GREY), a privileged, young daddy's girl who's about to start college, falls for Johnny (PATRICK SWAYZE), the camp's dreamy, bad boy dance instructor. He teaches her a dance piece, they perform together, and the rest is history. "Nobody puts Baby in a corner."



This infamous Godard/Truffaut movie stars JEAN-PAUL BELMONDO as Michel Poiccard, a reckless thief who impulsively steals a car and murders a policeman. Mere minutes later, he is pursuing Patricia Franchini (JEAN SEBERG), a young American girl who is studying in Paris. Poiccard's plan is to get some cash and leave Paris for Italy, where the police won't find him. Little does he know they are hot on his trail.


This list of best love stories ever offers something for everyone: action, adventure, crime, comedy and always an amazing love story. However, there are so many other great romance movies we didn't mention. Feel free to add some of your own in the comments section.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Rosa Nouchette Carey - Lover Or Friend
Joseph Matthews - Break Out Of The Friends Zone
Carl Stumpf - Success Stories

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Do Short Men Stand A Chance

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You were always the small guy of the bunch: the one who was chosen last in the basketball line-up; the one who was afraid he wouldn't get a date for the high school prom.

But just because your pants are shorter and you need to look up to most of those around you, it doesn't mean that you should also have short expectations when it comes to dating and life.

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Besides, what do I mean by short? Anyone is short next to Shaquille O'Neal, Conan O'Brien and the leggy Gisele Bundchen , so they are no indication of the norm. Regular height for a man ranges between 5'8" and 5'11", while "short" for men, according to clothing sizes, ranges from 5'4" to 5'7". Now even if you don't reach the average height, there's no reason to feel insecure or lacking in any way. Height is overrated and not something that women place high on their list of priorities.

Even the heights of the "shorter" Al Pacino , Tom Cruise , Bono , Jason Priestly, Prince, and businessman Jack Welch have nothing to do with their power or presence.

But in our prejudiced society, where certain norms and expectations rule, we all want to be part of the crowd, and even meet or exceed standards. Even Louis the 14th wore 5-inch high-heel shoes, which helped popularize the shoes no man today can grasp.

The King's shoes became popular for women, to say the least, and today females slip on everything from the stiletto and the platform to the pump.

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I rounded up a group of girlfriends in order to determine whether a man's height is really that important; you may or may not be surprised with the results.

While Janine said, "as long as a man has a personality, his height doesn't matter," Stacey quipped, "it's what a man does with his height that really counts."

Gina placed intelligence and a wicked sense of style very high on her list of prerequisites, and Iris agreed with Janine in stating that a personality is of prime importance -- in terms of "confidence, sense of humor, wit, and a killer smile."

Let's not be nave though; Steffi said that she always dreamed of "a tall, dark man to whisk her away," as did Andrea, who responded that she only dates men who stand taller than 6 feet. Okay, these two women are 5'11".

You've surely heard this before, but women look for the following in a man:

* intelligence
* ambition
* genuine kindness and caring
* witty sense of humor
* sense of style
* confidence
* good looks

Let it be known that this checklist is not in order of importance, and you don't need to be born with good looks in order to look good. That's where the gift of grooming and fashion come into play.

What you can do to get the girls Show off your other traits
When talking to a woman you've just met, show her your sense of humor and charm. Don't remain focused on your height, or whomever you're talking to will also concentrate on whatever you don't like about yourself.

Show her your standout personality by being attentive, cracking a joke or two, flirting, and being the gentleman that you are. A trick is to be friendly to others you meet (especially when the object of your affection is around), and she'll see that you're naturally a nice guy who's friendly to everyone because you're comfortable in your own skin. And if your personality shines through and your appearance is great to boot, she'll be looking up to you all night, as will all the other men.

Be confident

Confidence is of prime importance when talking to a woman or anyone for that matter.

If you're feeling sorry for yourself and blaming your lack of dates on your miserable height, women will believe this too. Nothing turns women off more than a man who's insecure and unhappy with himself, but if you're confident, she'll forget about your height altogether. The trick is to be confident without being arrogant -- you can feel like you're great, but don't act like you're on a throne and deserve a royal salute.

Go after shorter women

If you feel that taller women may not give you the time of day, and you don't want to be reminded of your height whenever you're walking side-by-side -- even when she's not in heels -- just go for women that are your height or a bit shorter.

There are plenty of gorgeous, petite women, so it's up to you to approach them. I don't even consider this to be lowering your standards since going for women who are not model-height isn't exactly scraping the bottom of the barrel; but hey, if your dream girl is a woman who makes Elle MacPherson look like a dwarf, you may just have to aim a little lower.

Definite don'ts:

Don't bulk up

You can go to the gym and get in shape, but don't overcompensate for your height by making up for it in width. You don't want to look like one of those men who have huge arms and wear tight T-shirts to show of their bulging biceps, so that people won't notice their height. This will only make you look stubby and stumpy -- and men, remember that proportion is key.

Don't feel sorry for yourself

Even if you feel that all your problems are due to your lack of height, this negative attitude will only make things worse in your life. It's tempting to make like George Costanza and be miserable, but your self-pity will only make you look smaller in others' eyes.

Measure your success

While you may like to compare yourself to your tall buddies, you'll have to accept that your height isn't something you can change, at least not until men's heels return to mainstream.

This means that you'll have to make everything else about yourself grand -- your intelligence, sense of humor, personality, confidence, charisma, and style. And if this seems like a tall order to fill, just think of it as your rise to the top.

by Heidi Muller

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Kristine Hallbom - Psychology Of Money Prosperity Abundance
David Deangelo - Double Your Dating Attraction Is Not A Choice

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The First Date

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It was their first date, and she'd shown the patience of a saint as he babbled on and on about his hobbies, his pet peeves, his driving techniques, and even the standards he used to choose his barber.

Finally, he came up for air and said, "But enough about me. Let's talk about you."

She breathed a sigh of relief.

He went on, "What do you think about me?"

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Philip Redhead - Best Places For First Dates
Dating Insider - Getting The First Date

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Married Looking Women For Couples Dating

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Gone so various "Matrimonial MEN LOOKING FOR WOMEN" in dating world the best moment to do is to show up on a few online relationship websites. All Canadians campaign stage and normal connections and using online relationship to grasp this is becoming significant sprinkle.

Yes, online relationship to meet singles is becoming seen as part of a mid for initial connections and involving with local singles in dating world or the world. Sometimes members manner a few profiles to develop their probability of meeting person. The chief profiles a person has the upper your probability are of meeting person.

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The Experts Of The Pickup Artist Community

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The pickup artist community is now very popular. Thanks to that reality show from VH1. The community is such a great help for men who never imagined themselves in the dating scene. It has given hope to men and encouraged them to start developing their dating skills.

The community has dating experts and pickup artists who help other men to get out and start improving themselves. One of the top gurus is David DeAngelo. The Cocky and Funny technique originated from him. His e-book, Double Your Dating has also received a lot of good reviews.

The Pickup Artist, Mystery, has popularized the mystery method which is widely used in dating today. Though many says that it is already an over used technique and that girls are more aware of it now. Peacocking is also a technique from Mystery wherein you wear an attention-grabbing outfit. If you do not know what it means, just look at how Mystery dresses himself.

Neil Strauss is an American author but he has been popular in the pickup artist community as well. He wrote the book, ‘The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists’. He signed in to one of Mystery’s bootcamps and that is how he penetrated the pickup artist society. He was also named as the “No. 1 Pickup Artist” after his book hit the market. A big question about Neil Strauss though is that why he refused the pickup challenge with Julian Foxx? He may have a thousand reasons but why pass it on to Mystery? Well, Neil Strauss rarely have live pickup videos.

Dubbed as the “fastest rising star” in the pickup community is Julian Foxx. He has a live video footage of him winning over Mystery in a pickup challenge. The video received different insights from people. Some say that it was a setup for Mystery, while others say that whether the video was real or not, fact is that anybody, and even Mystery, can also get rejected.

Surely there are other popular personalities in the dating and pickup community but the ones I have mentioned are the experts that men should watch out for. Usually, these dating experts give a free newsletter where you can get a sample of their works.

Most of these gurus were not born experts in dating. Some of them, or maybe most, were also once a shy type of person who doesn’t know how to approach women. But they dared to join the dating or pickup community and became who they are now. Men who are afraid to go out and try developing some dating skills are missing a lot in their life.

Recommended books (free to download):

Juggler - How To Be A Pickup Artist
Guy De Maupassant - The Works Of Guy De Maupassant Vol I
Dating Insider - The Science Of Picking Up Women

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Saturday, October 30, 2010

5 Of The Worst Places To Pickup On Women

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For some, meeting new women is difficult in public places, with some environments more favorable than others. If you don't have game, then there are areas you should avoid to increase your chances with the ladies. The following are 5 of the worst places to meet women unless you are asking to fail horribly or are ready to meet the challenge.


Although this seems like an obvious place to meet women, the fact is the environment is too loud for you to be talking to women. Unless you've been featured on America's Best Dance Crew, don't try to grind on chicks on the dance floor. You are asking to come off as a creep unless you're dancing with the desperate or the drunk. Don't get me wrong, if you've got game and have success in dance clubs, the more power to you, but for those who aren't rico suave, try your luck somewhere else like the patio of these clubs.


Much like the dance club, if you don't got game, try to avoid the movie theatre. You might even want to consider avoiding this place for dates unless you have other plans before or after. For the most part, people go to the movie theatres to watch movies, not meet people. You can try chatting up the ladies before or after the movie, but trying to be charming during the movie is an absolute no no. You don't want to be the creep that ruined the movie for the entire audience.


Come on guys, this is an absolute gimme. Unless you don't have morals or respect for the dead, a funeral ceremony is a ritual for the deceased, not an opportunity to pickup on women. Although women will be very vulnerable at these moments, if your goal is to meet women at a funeral, you've got some issues to tend to with your psychiatrist. When your intentions are compromised, your value here will be destroyed to not only women, but everyone. Don't be a douche and avoid the funerals for everyone's sake please!


For your safety and others, this is another obvious place to not meet women. You can go ahead and try to flirt with women while driving, but nothing will really come from it. Traffic and stop signs can only buy you so much time, and no one wants to see you buy anymore time when you're driving. We've got enough slow and stupid drivers on the road that we don't need a pickup artist exchanging phone numbers in the middle of traffic. For your information, picking up hookers on the street corner is not considered picking up on women.


This is probably the most challenging place yet! Strippers are there to make you feel like they've fallen in love with you from the get go. There's no way of judging how much you're progressing with a stripper. When it comes down to it, they're out for your money and nothing else. They've met plenty of smooth talkers throughout their lives and you're definitely not going to be their first. Unless you can find some female patrons that so happen to be there for a girl's night out, you're not going to have any luck with the employees, that's for sure.

Recommended books (free to download):

Jackson Almor - How To Pick Up Women 2000
Dating Insider - The Science Of Picking Up Women
Chris Jackson - 25 Of The Hottest Places To Find Women Online

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What Makes A Pick Up Artist Good

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This is a question i get asked often and however Im not so sure to have the right answer, i mean, what could qualify to me as a good pickup artist may not be enough for someone else or maybe my standards are too high, whatever, first we had to define what?s good in general.

But why i start this topic? as you can see im switching languages, first this blog was written in spanish and now it turns to english this is because Seductor Alfa, the brother website of this blog is packed with info for the latinamerican community, and im sure there is quite a lot to learn from the english speaking comunity, after all that?s where all started right?

But not get me wrong, being latin have their advantages, first we already have the "pre-qualification" of being "exotic", and even when i think this is more a lie than ever before (I mean, just look how many latin guys there is in the united states and all over the world, exotic? i don?t think so...) another thing is that i had pulled my game out in a lot of places, Europe, United states, Latin America, Mexico, you name it, and i should say that adds a level of difficulty to play a latin girl, they seem to have their "values" more rooted, or at least their bitch shields and shit tests, that?s why i say the game in latin America might be good.

In the Other hand, American Players have this tendency of experimenting and take risks, something i must say i find kinda dissapointing about the Latin community, they seem to be overwhelmed by the Americans, granted i respect all the celebrity-pick up artists gurus and stuff, but we are all humans and we were all in some point AFC?s well, at least most of us, so i think that being a good pick up artist is much more than just the place you were born, is about developing your own skills, about growing as a person and about having the guts to change your life, to improve it, this are some points i think should be taken in consideration when calling "good" to a pick up artist.

- Quality (not hb6 and 7?s, just really good looking girls, that?s why we are here right?)
- Creativity
- Original
- Wide skill set
- Domain of one or several styles
- Accuracy
- Being able to play most of the time, let?s say stay in the right mind frame
- Blend all his habilities well
- Show himself as an Alpha male
- Leader

Among others...

But let?s hear it from you!

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Juggler - How To Be A Pickup Artist A Practical Guide
Juggler - How To Be A Pickup Artist

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How To Avoid Overtraining And Improve Your Workouts

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Some men think that to gain better results at the gym they need to train almost every day. They couldn't be more wrong.

In fact, intense training every day without any recovery periods can lead to many complications. Not only do you prevent muscle growth, but you also break down your immune system which can lead to colds, flu and other illnesses. You are also more at risk of getting an injury.

The five ways below will help you avoid overtraining, leading to better muscle gains.


Getting at least seven to eight hours sleep each night is required for your body to recover between workouts. The muscle repairing process begins when you are in deep sleep when your growth hormone is released. Check out my post below for more information.

=> Why Sleep Is Important When Working Out


If you train four to five times a week, concentrating on different body parts each day, then why not cut back to three intense weekly workouts to allow more time for recovery.

Also instead of concentrating on different body parts each day, dedicate your time to performing only multi-joint exercises in your workout routines, giving you a full body workout.

I use Mike Geary's Truth About Six Pack Abs training program, which specifically concentrates on multi-joint exercises. By performing exercises such as squats, leg presses, lunges, bench presses, shoulder presses, lat pull downs, deadlifts, dumbbell rows, you work the most muscles, which produces more muscle growth in comparison to single-joint exercises such as bicep curls and leg curls. His workouts are intense which increases your resting metabolic rate, which results in gaining lean muscle and shredding body fat. Check out his program here.

Also read my post below about single-joint and multi-joint exercises.

=> The Truth About Mulit-Joint And Single Joint Exercises


You need to have a healthy balance between working out and other activities in your life. If you constantly spend all your time down the gym, then your social life will suffer.

Over training can interfere with your girlfriend, friends and family. If you're not careful training can become an addiction. Reduce your trips to the gym and enjoy life. You can build lean muscle and lose body fat using Mike Geary's Program, by only doing 30-45 minutes weight training sessions, three times a week. I highly recommend it.

If you feel you may have training addiction, read my post below.

=> How To Avoid Training Addiction


If you work out excessively, too many calories will be burned, meaning reduced muscle growth. If you're building muscle to improve your physique, then you need to train less often and consume more calories. Foods such as fruits, vegetables, pasta, rice, potatoes, whole grain cereals and bread provide complex carbohydrates for high energy burning workouts. Proteins such as meat, fish, cheese, yogurt, nuts and healthy fats such as olive oil, seeds, nuts, are all required in your diet.

Also consume supplements such as whey protein to help you make up the 1gram of protein per pound of body weight needed to help build muscle. Optimum Nutrition's 100% Whey Gold Standard is best.


To stop you from getting bored in the weight room, and minimise overtraining, vary your exercises and routines.

Change the order and introduce new exercises to your workout routines. Be creative.


Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Christopher Williamson - How To Improve Yourself
Dr Barbara Keesling - How To Make Love All Night And Drive A Woman Wild

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Relationship Advice For Women

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Knowing what men want from women may probably be the number one relationship dilemma of all women out there, next to how to keep him, whether they are in a relationship or not; or age and generation they are in. Sometimes, in an attempt to know what men want from women or just to keep him in the relationship, they end up doing the wrong thing that may even deter the relationship. To avoid that from happening, here are some qualities that would answer your question, "what men want from women?"


This is one of the most important qualities that men look for women. In fact, if you ask any man, they will tell you that if women want to keep him in the relationship, they need to be trusting. What men want from women is that they won't be nagging or will keep on asking questions as to where did he go and who is he with, or they will be leaving for good. They hate suspicious women.

On the other hand, what men want from women is to be trustworthy in the sense that their man can trust them and will not have any suspicions about her. To do this, keep an open relationship and talk about problems right away and try not to nag to keep him and not to be dumped.


All men find women who exude confidence sexy. In fact, confidence is even sexier than being physically sexy so you don't have to be the most beautiful woman in the world to be confident. Confidence also stems from being smart and witty. When a woman is able to speak her mind and keep a conversation then men see that as confidence. Keep him interested by not speaking about yourself too much; let him have the chance to see that in you, that's what men want from women.


Understand that most men are commitment-phobic. Even your father was once afraid of commitment, so do not rush it if you want to keep him. Let him bide his time and enjoy being with you. Once you show or tell him that you want commitment right away, then that would scare him away and the budding relationship may end abruptly.

What men want from women in terms of commitment is to let them have the time, if they want to be committed to you then you will know it. On the other hand, do what you can to convince him that you are the right person that he can be committed with. Shower him with love and care and befriend his friends and get to know him better so you can calculate and keep him. Another piece of advice, some men are not just the committing type, so if you have done everything that you think you have done but to no avail, then you may probably be just wasting your time, end the relationship right away and move on.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Rion Williams - Mens Guide To Women
Ken Lingu - Erotic Massage For Women

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Friday, October 29, 2010

Juggler Short Peopleleader Pua Openers

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"It's interesting that when you have a group of four or more people together like this, the tallest always stands across from the shortest." - alter as needed.

"Who is the leader here?" (They all point) Say playfully to leader, "What qualifies you to be in charge?" "Do you know what alpha means?"

Recommended books (free to download):

Tyler Durden - Responses To Leave Us Alone
Juggler - The Juggler Method Encyclopedia

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Things Women Do In Their 20s That They Regret In Their 40s

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When we're in our 20s, we're invincible - nothing can touch us because we are at the peak of knowledge and looks. Unfortunately, it isn't until we start pushing 40 that we look back and realize all the stupid things we did and the things we should've done that we didn't do.


Sure, you're hot and your breasts are so perfect that plastic surgeons cower in your presence, but when you're 40 and start looking for a job in the public sector, those pics of you showing everything but nipple and ass crack will come back to bite you in the kisser.


With perfect skin and perhaps a few too many drinks, the idea of getting a tattoo on your lower back, shoulder, or hip might seem like a fantastic and totally original idea. But it's not; there are a million just like you.

Besides, when you're 40, chances are the tattoo just won't look the same and your kids will make fun of you for having it.


"But I love him, he's going to be here forever." No, he won't, but there's a good chance that your friends will stick around, so before you dump all your girlfriends to spend all your time with your boyfriend, remember that there's a good chance he won't be the one you commit to for life.


I can't tell you how many girlfriends got married at 22 and then had a mid-life crisis at 36. Before you commit yourself to a man on paper, enjoy life a little. Travel, gain sexual experience, live alone. Get to really know yourself.


Yeah, those plastic cards that you just hand over to salespeople? Well, it's not free money. Eventually you will have to pay them off and if you don't, you will have terrible credit and will never be able to buy a house under your name. For shame.


Yes, you look so much better with a tan, we all do - at least in our 20s. But once you hit your 40s, the wrinkles and loose skin will attack you with a vengeance. So take it easy in the sun and use SPF to keep yourself looking hot in the long run.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Donald Moine - Going For The Gold In The Selling Game
Lance Kurke - The Wisdom Of The Alexander The Great

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Best Getting Ready Music For Dates

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Best getting ready music for date night

As we all know, the right music can make us feel hotter than hot, and what is more important than confidence for the ultimate date night? I have asked 10s of people for some of the best getting ready music for date night that make them feel primped and scandalous, and the list assembled has been tested on both men and women for its romance and party-boosting potential. The results came in: and the ensuing night was fantastic.




This song is simply one of the fastest ways to drop your center of gravity about 3 inches and get that one step closer to getting ill wit' it. We must realize it is not necessary to dress "hip-hop" to feel hip-hop, and once everyone gets over this simple fact, the world will be a much "sexier" place. Men, embrace your inner Mary J. Blige and that world will be your expensive, glowing oyster.




All my ladies now. This song is a bit 1999, but was there ever really a better year for partying like it was that year? This song helps men feel fresh because while they shave, they can pretend they're LL Cool J halfway through his long and prosperous career, talking to a back-up dancer in a VIP booth; but it also works for ladies cause they can just pretend LL is talking to them. Genius.




This next one on the best getting ready music for date night list is the reverse of the last song. Girls get to sing along about potentially mastrubating as they get ready for the shower, and men get to picture it. You would think people would have picked up on the total lesbian overtones in Missy's performance as she growls softly along side 's honey dipper melodies, but then again maybe they did. Women can get away with anything.




It's important to keep in mind with hip-hop that when rappers are talking about guns and the streets and ice and bling, it's not because these things are new, or cool, or that these rappers even know about it. Songs about money, firearms and being a hero in your tiny, broke neighborhood are older than Hugh Hefner and they are actually about being a guy that exudes confidence. Plus, how cool is that flute sample?

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Michael Webb - A Better Way To Date
Philip Redhead - Best Places For First Dates
Dating Insider - Getting The First Date

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How To Approach Women And Talk With Confidence

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You're standing at the bar when you see a beautiful woman. She makes eye contact and smiles. You decide to have a few drinks to gain more confidence before you approach her. A few hours later and you're still at the bar but now you're drunk. The beautiful woman gets up and leaves with a disappointed look on her face. Sound familiar? Knowing how to "approach women" is a skill that every ALPHA MALE needs to know how to do. I am going to teach you some of the best ways to approach and talk to women.


Now let's face facts. Unless your Brad Pitt or George Clooney you will get rejected at some point when you "approach women". Accept that it's normal and happens to everyone.


I learned a valuable lesson a few months ago. I fancied a girl in my late teens, but I was too afraid of rejection to ask her out. I recently bumped into her at a party and found out that she also used to have a thing for me. I admitted to her that I used to fancy her to which she replied, 'Why didn't you do or say anything?' A question I ask myself all the time. Of course, it was now too late because she is engaged and getting married in a few weeks.


There is no point living your life thinking, will she like me? Will she like what I am wearing? What will I say to her? If you hesitate, you will miss your opportunity and continue spending lonely nights on your own.

Men fear rejection because it lowers their confidence. But there is no reason to lose any confidence when a woman says 'no' because she isn't actually rejecting you. How can she when she doesn't know anything about you? Maybe she rejected you because:

* She is already married or has a boyfriend.

* She is a lesbian.

* She is having a bad day.

* She has her protective shield up.

* She doesn't like talking to anyone.

It is important to remember that women have their own personal preferences that you might not match. Some women like dark-haired men, others like blond men. Some women like tall men, while others prefer shorter guys. The secret is to not take "rejection" personally.

You need to approach as many women as possible to increase your chances of finding one that is looking for a man like you.


The best way to gain the "confidence" to approach and talk to women is to simply do just that. Most of the fear of approaching and talking to girls comes from not doing it often enough. You may never have even done it before.

Set a target of approaching at least one attractive woman everyday for the next month. You will soon familiarise yourself with the situation of approaching women and forget what you was fearful of in the first place. If you still feel nervous, keep practicing. Even if you end up like a bundle of nerves and embarrass yourself, what's the big deal? You will probably never see her again anyway. Practice everyday and the fear of rejection will soon become a distant memory. You will realise that approaching women isn't that difficult. I always had a fear of rejection until I decided to overcome it.


Before you "approach women", make sure that you have the following grooming basics in check:

* You have clean teeth and a fresh breath.

* You're wearing a decent set of clean, ironed clothes.

* You're shoes are clean and shiny.

* You're wearing a fragrance. Read my post 10 Men's Fragrances That Attract Women.

Women will judge you on the way you present yourself. If you look scruffy, have a smelly breath and stink of body odour, then the chances that she will reject you are high. Read my post Grooming Turnoffs That Women Can't Stand.

You need to measure the probability of success by looking out for buying signals. Many men that pluck up the courage to approach women do it blindly without any observation first. Before you approach women, I recommend you observe her body language. If she is making frequent eye contact, smiles a lot, fidgets with her clothes or plays with her hair, you can be pretty certain that she isn't going to reject you straight away when you approach her.

Once you notice the buying signals, simply walk directly up to her and introduce yourself. When introducing yourself make sure you:


* Use corny pick up lines.

* Ask if she has a boyfriend.

* Compliment her looks.

Attractive women are approached by men all the time. What most men fail to realise is that most of the other guys that approached her did basically the same things.....and those things didn't work! In other words, each of the guys that approached her probably used the same corny pick up line, asked if she had a boyfriend or showered her with compliments. Approach her like this and she will think you're the same as every other guy.

Simply say, 'hi', and ask if you can join her for a drink, with total confidence. If she says yes, then ask for her name. If she is interested she will ask the same. If she doesn't ask, don't worry about it; just carry on with the conversation.


Keep the conversation interesting. Focus on her and listen to what she has to say. Men often make the mistake of talking too much about topics that bore women to tears. Just because a woman is listening to you and acts interested doesn't mean she actually is. She might just be acting polite and secretly wishing that you would go away and not come back. So try not to talk too much about yourself and listen to what she has to say.

You need to pay attention to any seeds or free information that she might throw your way. Seeds are hints that point to topics that women would like to discuss. For example, she says that she has just got back from Europe. This seed gives you the opportunity to ask her lots of questions. Where in Europe did you go? What was it like there? How long did you go for? There is no need to worry about what to say next because she is telling you what to say. All you have to do is listen out for topics she would like to discuss.

You also need to tell her something about yourself. You need to bring yourself into the conversation when you can relate to something she says. For example, she says that she misses Europe. You could say,' me too, I spent two weeks in London and loved it!' Instead of asking a question this time you have said something about yourself that makes you seem similar to her. Not only are you asking her questions and listening to her, you are also revealing information about yourself that she can relate to in a subtle way. You're not giving away too much and keeping the mystery alive which is important.

When talking to women you need to take the following into account:


* COME ACROSS AS NEEDY. Trying too hard to impress her will turn her off.

* BE BORING. She will lose interest if you ask her interview style questions and create awkward silences.

* COME ACROSS AS INSECURE. She will quickly lose attraction towards you if you seem a nervous wreck.


* BRING OUT HER FUN, FLIRTY SIDE. Women want to have fun.

* BRING OUT HER EMOTIONS. Talk about her passions, vacations etc.

* BRING OUT HER SEXUAL SIDE. To create sexual attraction, don't shy away from personal and intimate topics.

You need to talk to women in a way that makes her feel attracted to you. Talk to her in a way that makes her feel so much fun and enjoyment whilst creating "sexual attraction". To talk to her in a way that creates attraction you need to:

* LEAD THE CONVERSATION. Take control of the conversation.

* TEASE HER. This makes the conversation fun and flirty.

* AVOID COMPLIMENTING TOO MUCH. This makes you come across as needy.

* DONT BORE HER. Avoid interview style questions and topics that women aren't generally interested in.

* BE FUN NOT FUNNY. Concentrate on showing her a fun time instead of your funniest jokes.

* PAY ATTENTION TO HER BODY LANGUAGE. Pay attention to what she is telling you with her body language.

* TALK ABOUT YOUR PASSIONS. Show her that you have a passion for life.

* DONT HIDE THAT YOU ARE TALKING TO HER FOR A DATE. This ensures you stay away from the friend zone.


* GIVE OPINIONS. Tell her what you observe about her.

Talking to women doesn't have to be difficult. Just follow the tips above and you will have a fun, playful and sexual conversation that you will both enjoy!


When you "approach women", you don't have to have a long conversation there and then. Most men feel that when they approach a woman, they have to talk to her for a long period of time before they can get her number.

This is not the case!

After talking to her for a little while, tell her that you had better be getting back to you friends. Go to walk away, turn back and then ask for her number.

Say something like:



If she says yes then enter her number into your mobile. She will be surprised as she will be used to men chatting her up all the time and constantly giving her compliments.

She will be intrigued and will want to meet up with you again.


If you seriously want to learn how to attract more women, then you need to read John Alexander's How To Become An Alpha Male. I used to find it almost impossible talking to women, let alone getting dates, until I read this book. I can honestly say it increased my confidence and self-esteem instantly. It transformed my life...... Click Here To Check It Out And Date More Women!


The next time a woman says 'no', remember that it's not the end of the world. Just move onto the next woman that catches your eye. Overcome the fear of rejection, "approach women", talk to women and have fun doing it.

Remember to try out the following eBook that is GUARENTEED to help you overcome the fear of rejection and approach women:

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Thursday, October 28, 2010

Aaron Anderson Five Signs A Man Needs To See A Counselor

Aaron Anderson Five Signs A Man Needs To See A Counselor
From the Lesson Men Convey, Aaron Anderson offers five signs that we constrain need to seek out restore to health. I establish for the peak part - and none of the reasons of a nature near are significant of nasty psychological symptoms (like suicidality, audio hallucinations, frenzy attacks, or dissociation).

Having the status of I began restore to health, it was equally I was displeased with my life, my relationships, and my further. Healing helped me caution who I am, understand how I had come to that point in my life, and how to change the special effects I was not happy with in my life.

Review can keep your life, but it can then help you find the life you yield endlessly longed-for to live.

FIVE Secret language A MAN Requirements TO SEE A Religious teacher

September 22, 2013

by Aaron Anderson

" Men aren't in name only to go to counseling, they're in name only to be tougher than that, right? "


For a lot of men, the objective of leaving to a analyst for restore to health is trivial. It's just not part of the man code to go and see a analyst. Seeing a analyst badge talking about feelings and your early life and there's endlessly the strength of the analyst telling you that your problems are happening equally you're still in love with your mother. It's no be amazed in addition to, why a lot of men don't seek out counseling. And in addition to there's endlessly the question of 'do I need restore to health anyway'? Any person goes next to rough spots. But how do you caution for example you need therapy? Let's only remaining a look.

Five signs a man needs to see a analyst.

1) THE rough Plot STAYS Crude FOR A Like. One and all goes next to rough patches now and again. Whether it's a rough time at work, a rough time in your marriage or a rough crib in life. But if these rough patches rest rough for a seeing as you it would seem requisite to see a analyst. You may possibly adjournment it out, but what's the point? Seeing a analyst to a certain extent than later ensures that you get back on gush to a certain extent and confirm enjoying life to a certain extent, too.

2) YOUR WIFE/MOTHER/SIGNIFICANT Far-flung SUGGESTS Review. As a analyst who specializes in marriage counseling, I irrational fear earphones calls from men. I irrational fear them equally they usually go everything like this: Me: Hello? Him: Hi, I need to set up an assignment for my other half and I to come to counseling. She's been threatening to divorce me for three kick and she irrefutably moved out this first light. Do you yield any actions later today? Me: I yield an assignment for later this week if that will help. Him: Authorize. Huge. Let me call my other half and see if she'll come.

They unadventurously don't call back. The ones who do call back are just being polite to tell me that their other half has ancient times to the courthouse for the divorce documents and won't be needing my navy last all. Men, do yourselves a benevolence and go to counseling the Leader time your wife/mother/significant unusual suggests it.

3) YOU Goal Director OUT OF Animatronics. In his book Excellent Boys

4) YOU'RE Uncomplicatedly Gnashing your teeth. Men present mental health difficulties differently than women do. Women internalize their difficulties by feeling sad, quiet and remorseful. Men are knowingly in addition outside in their displays of mental burden. This badge they get irritated at others in addition, become in addition aggressive and law-abiding become physical at times. If this isn't how you unadventurously start to stress and you're reacting this way in addition and in addition it's time to see a analyst. If you do unadventurously start this way to stress, you still need to see a analyst.

5) YOU Simply Goal TO BE Dead Cut off FOR Prolonged PERIODS OF Rest. One and all goes next to spells someplace they just want to be moved out externally for a few hours, night a day or a weekend. But if you find yourself day last day just ravenous to be moved out externally by your other half, family and age group at work it's time to see a analyst. Self moved out externally is a irregular wet. Sometimes being moved out externally in the interim is all you need to get your mind back in the equal and get a organic tilt on how to fix special effects. But if you find yourself ravenous to be moved out externally day last day last day, that's a big red flag that everything in addition nasty is leaving on.

Critically, there's still a deprave about seeing a analyst. And for some reason, innumerable men adjournment until the stay delicate or just don't go at all. But a real man does anything a man has to do in order to be a man; in the company of leaving to counseling.


Aaron Anderson is a Practiced Honeymoon and Intimates Disappear and administrator of The Honeymoon and Intimates Hospital in Denver, CO. He then writes for unusual publications online and in oil all on the company of marriages, families and men. In his leftovers time (anything that is) he is stealthily preparing to be the upcoming great chef. You can find him on Convey @MarriageDr and on Facebook giving great info without the psychobabble.
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Psychology Of Religion

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Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D. offers a nice interview (at Huffington Post) with Susan Kaiser Greenland, author of the forthcoming The Mindful Child: How to Help Your Kid Manage Stress and Become Happier, Kinder, and More Compassionate, and owner of the website, on mindfulness meditation and children.

If more parents could teach their kids these kinds of techniques, we would have less violence and more compassion in the world. Unfortunately, these practices are only likely to be picked up by already liberal families who middle class or higher.

Where we really need this kind of education is the inner cities, in poor rural areas, and anywhere else that compassion is in short supply.


Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D.

Psychologist in LA, Co-author: A Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction Workbook

Today I have the honor of interviewing Susan Kaiser Greenland, who had the courage to leave a well-paying law career to embrace a calling to teach mindfulness meditation to children as young as four years old. She is author of the upcoming book The Mindful Child: How to Help Your Kid Manage Stress and Become Happier, Kinder, and More Compassionate, developed the website and the Inner Kids program, designed to teach young kids vital skills toward a more peaceful and compassionate world.

ELISHA: Susan, what an amazing path you've chosen. When I teach mindfulness to adults, I often hear, how come we didn't get this education when we were little, the world would be a much better place. What inspired you to leave the golden handcuffs and venture into this sorely needed area?

SUSAN: Thanks, Elisha. I'm not so sure I choose the path; often it feels more as if it chose me. I practiced meditation myself and saw how it helped me, so it was only natural to wonder if it could help my children too. But the inspiration to begin looking in earnest for ways to practice with my children (who were quite young at the time) came when I was on a week-long meditation retreat with Ken McLeod. I had studied with Ken for a few years before this retreat and was friends with many of his students.

Looking around the meditation hall one evening, I noticed that many of us were parents and was struck by the fact that none of us were talking about bringing mindfulness to our kids. Something happened during that retreat and I felt a shift - a desire to integrate mindfulness into my family life in a more direct way. It's not uncommon for me to leave a retreat thinking that I've had some major insight -- so after having one of these a-ha moments after meditation I wait a week or so before acting on it. If after a week I still feel that way I try to do something about it. A week after I got home from Ken's retreat that year -- now over a decade ago -- I knew this practicing mindfulness with kids was something I wanted to do (or maybe needed to do. Although I had no idea that it would eventually lead me away from my law practice -- which I also enjoyed.

ELISHA: Can you give us a brief synopsis of some of the vital skills you teach these children?

SUSAN: The Inner Kids program has evolved over the years and now my primary objective is to teach kids a more mindful worldview. In classical training, that worldview comes through the development of three qualities simultaneously: awareness, wisdom, and values. My work is secular, yet informed by classical models, and those three qualities (awareness, wisdom and values) can be translated beautifully as attention, balance and compassion, what I like to think of as the New ABCs of learning. By learning these new ABCs, kids, teens, and their families can develop a more mindful worldview by:

* Approaching new experiences with curiosity and an open mind;
* Developing strong and stable attention;
* Seeing life experience clearly without an emotional charge;
* Developing compassionate action and relationships;
* Building communities with kindness and compassion;
* Working together to make a difference in the world;
* Expression gratitude; and
* Planting seeds of peace by nurturing common ground.

ELISHA: While the instructions in mindfulness practice can be simple, the practice itself can be anything but easy at times. What happens when children throw tantrums or when they are bullied? How do you approach this practice during the difficult moments?

SUSAN: It's crucial that adults working with kids understand that this is a process-oriented practice (as opposed to a goal oriented practice) and the aim of the process is transformation. It is not at all uncommon for kids to have a hard time when they begin to look at their inner and outer experiences clearly without an emotional charge (or with less of one). Sometimes it's tough for kids, teens, and even adults to process what they see through introspection and it may be impossible for them to contextualize or understand their insights on their own. It's important to have patience with kids and simply see them clearly, and love them, for who they are -- even when they are not on their best behavior -- and trust that navigating this less than perfect behavior is a necessary part of the transformation that mindfulness and meditation can bring about.

ELISHA: Can you share a practice that parents, caregivers, or teachers may be able to take into their lives with their kids?

SUSAN: I think helping kids find a physically comfortable posture from which to practice meditation is very important. Encouraging kids to lie down while practicing breath awareness is quite useful but also is an activity that I use called the Pendulum Swing (or tic-toc with younger children.) The aim of this activity is to help those who find it hard to be still (either sitting or lying down) to meditate in a group. Here's how it goes... Go read the rest of the article to see a cool exercise you can do with (your) kids to teach them mindfulness meditation.

~ Adapted from a publication on Mindfulness and Psychotherapy at Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D. is Co-author of A Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction Workbook, and the Mindful Solutions CD Series dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, addiction, ADHD and Success at Work. Visit his blog, Mindfulness and Psychotherapy at You may also find him at

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5 Traits That Shouldnt Be Deal Breakers

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Traits that shouldnt be deal breakers

LORI GOTTLIEB is everywhere lately, thanks to the release of her new book _Marry Him_, and now she has a very interesting article out that further backs up her argument about settling for Mr. Good Enough.

These are the 5 traits LORI GOTTLIEB thinks shouldn't be deal breakers when you're meeting someone who may potentially become your husband. And if you're still searching, he's probably at MATE1.COM waiting for you.



I can't tell you how many of my girlfriends (most under 5'4" for the record) have refused to even date a guy because he wasn't taller than 5'9". According to Lori Gottlieb, this is a major no-no and shouldn't be part of the deal breaker list.

So before you dismiss a guy but he levels out at 5'8", give him a chance, he might just have everything else on the list that you like.



Be careful about your advanced search parameters in online dating because you may end up omitting the men who could be perfect for you. Someone's online dating profile simply does not exude everything about someone and you are in no position to judge him because he likes Barry Manilow.

Sometimes what you think you want on paper actually becomes unimportant in reality.



I can't tell you how often women tell me that they want to marry a doctor or an alpha male in a high-position career. The reality is that these guys will never be around to help you raise the family you may want one day.

So before you list CEO as one of the essentials in what a man should be, think about how ideal it would be to marry a schoolteacher... the proof is in the pudding.

Read the rest of the traits that shouldn't be deal breakers at

Recommended books (free to download):

Tom Mcnight - How To Get A Man To The Alter Without Going To Bed With Him First
Shelle Charvet - Words That Change Minds
Steve Scott - 24 Traits Of The Superior Alpha Male

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Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Cocky And Funny

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Why The Cocky And Funny Attitude Is Attractive To Women... And How To Use It

I get a lot of email from guys who don't quite get the Cocky & Funny attitude. It just doesn't make sense to some guys that teasing women, busting their balls, being slightly arrogant, not kissing up to them, etc. could or should make them feel attraction.
I can understand this, because I was exactly the same way the first few times I heard it and saw it. I kept thinking to myself "If I do this cocky and funny thing, I'm only going to come across as arrogant... and that can't make women like me more."
Well, was I ever wrong. You must always remember that ATTRACTION isn't logical. It doesn't follow the rules that it "should" follow. ATTRACTION is a very powerful emotion that has reasons and triggers that don't make any sense at first glance...
I'm sure you've seen many attractive women with guys who mistreated them, abused them, and were exactly the opposite of what you'd expect a woman to accept. Why ?


In the beginning she felt attraction, and as bad as it may sound, almost no amount of being "bad", abusive, or jerk-ish can convince a woman feeling a strong attraction to leave.
So let me take the opportunity to talk a bit about the Cocky & Funny attitude, why it works, and how to use it to attract women (without having to be an abusive jerk).
First of all, you have to remember that the formula is Cocky PLUS Funny. Always both.
If you act too cocky, you'll come off as arrogant and insecure only.
If you're just funny, always telling jokes, and making people laugh, you will probably come across as "too goofy."
But if you use BOTH together, you will create magic. Cocky & Funny is like sparring... it's sport... it's fun... it's challenging... it's interesting when used with skill.
So let's get clear about what "Cocky & Funny" is.

Here's a cocky statement:

"Her dress makes her look fat."
Here's a Cocky & Funny statement:
"If she doesn't find a dress that fits better, the fashion police are going to send in the SWAT team for her ass."

Get it ?

Start with arrogance, then add humor. So why does it work to attract women ?

Well, the short (email newsletter size) answer is:


Women are attracted to "alpha male" types. We all know that. Women are attracted to a sense of humor. We all know that one too. Women AREN'T attracted to men who give away their power, kiss up to them, smother them with attention, act like whipped puppies, and get nervous just being in the same room. If you meet an attractive women, and IMMEDIATELY start giving her a hard time about something, busting on her, and have fun, it basically says:

"You are interesting enough to talk to, but you're going to have to do a lot more than just look good to impress me. Your beauty doesn't make me nervous in the slightest, I'm perfectly calm, and in fact, I'm so comfortable that I just noticed something about you that I'm going to make fun of..."

There is no faster way on earth to communicate all the right attitudes, beliefs, self-image, comfort, confidence, and power than to be Cocky & Funny. (Except maybe to put on a perfect Brad Pitt costume.) Once you start using this attitude, you will be totally astounded at the results.

Here's a low-risk example:

Next time you're at the grocery store in the checkout line paying for your groceries, say:
"So how much of this cash do you get to keep?" (as you hand her the money)
She'll probably laugh and say: "None... I wish."

To which you can respond with:

"Oh, I figured you were pocketing 10 or 20%... I assumed you were rich and could support me. But now I'm not interested... I want a rich girl." (Turn up your nose)

This is a great one. It's always fun to ask a woman if she's rich or famous, then when she says that she's not, tell her that it messed up her chances with you, and that you're not interested anymore. One of the keys to the Cocky & Funny attitude is to never "crack." If she opens her mouth and gives you the "I can't believe you just said that" look, you need to turn it up a notch... Most guys will crack and say "Oh, I was just kidding."

DON'T DO THAT! It makes you look like a WUSSY.

In the example above, if the checker looks at you and gives you the open mouthed "I can't believe you said that" look, and says "Hey! I may not be rich, but I'm nice!", you just look at her and say "Nice isn't good enough, I need RICH AND nice." Your goal is not to upset a woman, but to get under her skin enough by teasing, busting on her, and acting Cocky & Funny that it ignites the magical challenge/ attraction mechanism. So get out there and use it, because the magic formula of Cocky & Funny will create all kinds of good things for you. You'll see.

If you'd like to learn more about the Cocky & Funny attitude plus all the other vital keys to attracting women, getting phone numbers and email addresses, getting dates, taking things to a physical level, and much more, then I'd recommend that you waste NO TIME... and get yourself a copy of {Double Your Dating} ebook.

It has literally taken me YEARS of hard work, study, testing, and thinking to put this program together... and I guarantee that it will make you more successful with women and dating. The best part ? I'm willing to send it to you at MY RISK... to try out for yourself. If you don't like it, just send it back and pay nothing. Really. And if you haven't downloaded my online eBook Double Your Dating, then you really need to do that now. It's the FOUNDATION for everything that I teach in these newsletters, and it contains dozens of great tips for meeting and dating women.

Also read this ebooks:

Muzzu - Total Guide To Be Cocky And Funny
Ole Flirty Bastard - Cocky And Funny Guide

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