Flirting Secrets

Smile Away

Nothing is as flirtatious as a smile. It radiates positive energy. So much so, it's hard not to smile back. Smiling makes you look more attractive, engaging, and friendly. Flirts have a variety of smiles they use. The joyful, playful and seductive smiles all send out different signals.

These smiles can be used to show you're having a great time, show you're enjoying some playful teasing or expressing sexual interest. The joyful smile is large and care-free, the playful smile is a flirtatious smirk, and the seductive smile is narrow-eyed while showing just a little teeth, or a mischievous grin.

Eye contact

Let your eyes tell them you're interested through three different forms of eye contact. The quick glance indicates they've caught you eye. Multiple glances indicate they've intrigued you. And prolonged mutual eye contact indicates you're both interested in meeting one another. The key to prolonged eye contact is to casually meet their gaze and hold it a little longer than socially appropriate. This is usually an invitation for you to approach.

Barrier removal

It's hard to flirt if you're not being seen. Smart flirts stay in the line of sight of the person they're interested in. If a pillar blocks their line of sight, they causally move to a position where they can still be seen. If a person sits down in front of them, they casually pull their chair out further.

PHYSICAL FLIRTING

Proximity

Effective flirters stand just a little bit closer than socially acceptable. They are invaders of personal space. Since part of flirting is treating strangers like old friends, they come into closer physical proximity to the person than normal. This can be done by talking shoulder-to-shoulder or only being inches away while talking face-to-face. If the person is not a stranger, an effective flirt can often completely ignore the person's personal space upon approach.

Tell-tale touch

Flirts are unafraid to touch the person they're interested in. They use touch to show attraction, comfort and build sexual tension. Any kind of voluntary body contact such as an arm over their shoulders, placing a palm on their leg or forearm, or a playful punch in the arm does exactly that. Even the brushing of arms and the accidental finger contact does the job.

Leading

The quickest, pressure-free way to touch someone is by leading them. It can be as simple as asking someone to dance and holding their hand as you lead them onto the dance floor or placing a hand in the small of their back as you lead them through a door. Flirts love to lead. It makes them seem more assertive and sensual than those who don't.

Hug

Everybody likes a hug. Flirts can use the hug upon meeting someone they've met before or for when someone does something nice for them. The hug is a great, pressure-free way of touching. It gets the person used to physical contact with you. Once you've hugged someone, it's a lot easier to put your arm around their shoulders. Breaking the touch barrier - especially when done quickly - creates an immediate sense of comfort with the other person.

Gentle caress

A great way of flirting is through caressing objects during the conversation. The caress is a subconscious anticipation of their touch. A glass is the most commonly caressed object. Women usually stroke the glass up and down. Men tend to run a finger around its rim. So feel free to caress your way into their imagination.

Body positioning

Aiming your body directly at your conversation partner is a great way of flirting because it implies fascination with what they're saying. And people love others who find them interesting. Flirts take advantage of this personal vanity by maintaining a positive body position. It not only shows interest, but makes them appear more attractive to the speaker.

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

Cr James - Men Secrets
Brian Caniglia - Online Dating Secrets

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