Now, if you are really decided that you want to get your ex boyfriend back and keep him for good, there are lots of ways that you can do it. The first thing that you should do is to know how men think. How men think is different from how women do, so you should take subtle actions to get your boyfriend back.
ACCEPT THE BREAKUP
The best thing that you can do for now is to accept that you guys have broken up and that you can't keep him like you used to. Do not try to contact him right away or plead to him that you want him back. Pleading and begging him to come back to you will not work even if you cry him a river, that's how men think when you look desperate. Do not appear desperate, control the urge to cry in front of him, show him that you are fine with the breakup and you're getting by.
REMEMBER THE DAYS
Go back to the times when you both are happy. Imagine the things that your boyfriend liked most about you and be that girl again to keep him. Once he sees you that you are once again the girl that he loves, he will also remember the good times that you shared and will feel connected to you again, that's how men think.
ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER
You can also try not making any contact with your ex boyfriend. When you keep him off phone calls, text messaging, emails, SNS, no nothing. How men think is when you avoid him of news about you, he will think about you more. Show yourself to him after a few weeks to spark an interest. Wear something good, something that he really likes about you so he would think twice on why he left you.
DO NOT BAD MOUTH HIM
If you want to get back together with an ex, avoid talking bad about him and from people who talk bad about him. Sure, aside from the longing to be with him, you are also having some heartache that will be eased away by telling something bad about him. Resist the urge, or kiss your hopes to keep him forever goodbye. How men think is he will not only be impressed with what you did, he will also be grateful and respectful of it.
The best thing that you should hang on to is to believe that all your efforts will be repaid and you would eventually keep him. No matter how bad the things ended between you two, both of you will realize the good memories that you shared and the times that you were together and may regret leaving each other and get back together, that's how men think.
Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):Christian Godefroy - How To Control Your Brain At Will
Harry Kitson - How To Use Your Mind
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