Wednesday, December 28, 2005

Nlp Modality

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One of the principles of NLP, or Neuro-Linguistic Programming, is the use of modality. At some point, you should find out what your seduction target’s modality oflearning is: auditory, kinesthetic, or visual. Most people have a sense that they prefer touse when it comes to their learning style. We all use our hearing, sight, or touch insome way to learn and understand new material. We use them all at one point oranother, but just about everyone has one they use most of the time.

You can figure outwhich modality it is by listening to how they describe things. Here are a few examples:


- “That just doesn’t feel right to me.”
- “Oh, that feels so coldand depressing.”
- “I can’t come to grips with that.”

This person is typically a kinesthetic learner. Recognize her by the tactilewords she uses. She learns by doing or touching. She probably likeshandholding and hugging to establish security. She will also like to fidgetby playing with things, like her straw, or toy with the buttons on herjacket. Her hobbies will probably revolve around her modality, too.


- “That just doesn’t click.”
- “That just doesn’t sound right.”
- “Ihear what you’re saying.”

These keywords tip you off that she is mostly auditory. The words thathighlight hearing are used most frequently. She learns by hearinginstructions. This type of woman is very suggestive and responds well to NLP techniques.


- “I see what you’re saying.”
- “That’s not the way I see it.”
- “Looksgood to me.”

This person is showing a disposition to visual modes of learning. Evenwhen referring to words or sounds, she will use the word “see” as in thefirst example. She learns by seeing, or reading instructions withdiagrams. She is probably very fashion conscious.Understanding a woman’s modality not only helps you communicate better withher about sex (finding out if talking dirty, watching porn, or dancing close will exciteher), but also how she will respond in conversation.o Use magic on the women that are visual.

Use your speech and charged words on the auditory ladies. And use your sense of touch – palm reading and kino – on the kinestheticwomen.(In the complete e-book, the next section covers kinaesthetics, since it is one of the most important NLPtechniques to utilize in your seduction.I recommend men learn how to use this particular method on all women.)

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

Michael Hall - Potentiality
Michael Hall - Un Insult Ability

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6 Characteristics Of A Leader

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What kind of personality does a leader, someone who exudes charisma, have? It seems that leaders posses 6 fundamental characteristics.

1. Simplicity

You should first be aware that people with charisma are usually simple and modest. It's the people who fail continually who are arrogant towards others. In a group, charismatic persons never try to attract attention by boasting about their talents or qualities, or by making a display of their virtues.

2. The ability to listen to others

A few years ago a popular magazine organized a contest. Readers had to concoct bits of philosophical or spiritual wisdom, in 25 words or less. One reader submitted the following gem: "People who talk about themselves are bores, people who talk about others are gossips, but those who talk about you are brilliant conversationalists!" It's so true. If you want to acquire a magnetic personality, you have to learn to encourage other people to express themselves, and to talk about themselves to you. Ask questions about their work, their hobbies, their families and so on. Give them the opportunity to re- veal themselves to you.

3. Self confidence and assertiveness

Shyness, which we'll talk about in detail in the chapter devoted to it, is not necessarily a negative quality if it isn't exaggerated, in which case it's more like a healthy sense of propriety and reserve.
However if your shyness prevents you from communicating with others, from assuming your rightful position in society, from meeting people with whom you believe you have something in common, from doing well on oral exams or showing your best side during job inter- views, then you should do something about it. People with charisma are not overly shy, and if they were at one time, they have succeeded in overcoming it. We'll see how later on.

4. The ability to act decisively

This means not procrastinating - not putting off for tomorrow what you can do today. Charismatic people are neither negligent nor lazy. If procrastinating is one of your faults, you must absolutely get rid of it. An entire chapter of this book is devoted to the problem.
Be honest: do you admire people who can't make up their minds, who always seem to be dragging their feet, and who have a pile of things they were supposed to do last week which they still haven't gotten around to? No, of course not.

5. Respect your commitments

Does this seem obvious? Well, you may be surprised to learn how many people don't honor their commitments. "Are you talking about minor or major commitments?" you ask.
And that's exactly the point - that's where you're going wrong. Because there are no minor commitments! A commitment is always major, whether it's a promise to play tennis with someone, or to lend a substantial amount of money to a friend in need. You are judged just as severely on your punctuality to a dinner party as you are in repaying your debts. People with charisma are people you can count on. They are like rocks - steady fixed points in an unstable, changing universe.

6. Feeling good about yourself

Be careful! Feeling good about yourself doesn't mean you have to look like Robert Redford or Marilyn Monroe. Physical beauty has nothing to do with a person's magnetism. Never forget that.
President Roosevelt was an invalid; Cicero, according to historical descriptions, was afflicted with a repulsive physique; neither would Joan of Arc or Queen Elizabeth have won any beauty contests. Many of society's most influential personalities have nothing physically attractive about them.

Suggested reading (pdf e-books):

William Painter - The Palace Of Pleasure
Cameron Teone - The Attributes The Characteristics Of A Seducer

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