Thursday, September 30, 2010

A Quick Bar Opener

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Do you want a quick easy fun bar opener that no one ever thinks of or uses.

Here is an experiment I did one time with a friend in a bar. Coach Jacob and I just stood in one place, but we had an animated conversation. We were just having a good time. We stood right in the middle of the bar - so that everyone in the bar was standing around us - and just talked animatedly.

And women started coming over to us, asking, "What are you guys talking about?" We'd say, "Look, I'll meet with you in five minutes; we just have to finish this conversation." I would push them away a little bit, which would intrigue them a little bit more. In a bar, you can be very playful like that.

So after a few minutes, I looked at one woman and kind of waved her over. She came over and asked, "What?" and I said, "You were curious about what we were talking about, and I want to tell you." Then I explained what it was we were talking about. "We were just discussion life and the nature of spirituality..." and she just stood there with her mouth wide open.

So then I looked at her and asked, "So tell me, how do you feel about this?" and for five minutes she went off on a tangent, full of passion and emotion, just like I did. She was mimicking my body language the entire time.

Most guys at bars are thinking about what the woman's body language says. Who cares! It's your body language that will attract other people.

So once I got her all full of passion, I asked her, "Are those your friends?" She said they were. "Alright, bring them over. We need more people's opinions." We had ten people - two of us, and eight girls - all sitting there and talking about spirituality and what it means to be alive. We had the most amazing conversation.

When we left, they all looked at us and said, "This was the greatest experience we've ever had in a bar!" It was the first time they'd ever had a real conversation at a bar.

It all comes from you putting yourself in the middle of that bar and saying to yourself: I will be the center of attention in this room tonight. I will talk to my friend and pull over whomever I want in this room!

Check out David Wygant's latest tips with his latest dating products for men.

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Carlos Xuma - Dating Questions And Answers
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How To Instantly Improve Your Exercise Workouts

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It's handy knowing a few tips and tricks that will make your workouts more efficient. Learn these 8 ways to radically improve your workouts and use them next time you visit the gym.


Without wearing gloves and wrist straps I used to struggle lifting heavy weights without causing discomfort. Exercises such as the deadlift put a great deal of pressure on your hands and wrists. In fact, this discomfort stopped me from increasing the weight, reducing my overall muscle development. Since buying weight lifting gloves and wrist wraps I have been able to increase the load I lift steadily with ease.


To improve your grip that will assist you in other exercises you need to build your forearms. Perform exercises such as barbell wrist curls, reverse wrist curls and grip exercises.


Use a note pad as a log book to write down exactly what you did during each workout. Knowing the amount of weight and reps you performed for each exercise will help you plan and progress in your next workout. You wouldn't believe the amount of times I have revisited gym, only to forget the weight I was on previously.


To gain muscle you need to lift weights that you find challenging. To keep challenging your body, you need to keep increasing the weight to each exercise you perform. If you workout at the same intensity week in week out, there is no reason for your body to grow new muscle.


Two men can weigh the same, however one could look flabby and the other look toned and muscular. This is due to their body fat percentage.

Use a body fat percentage monitor to measure your body fat. This is useful as using a scale alone cannot reveal this information. For example, if you gain six pounds of muscle and lose six bounds of fat, a scale will say that your weight hasn't changed. This may lead to you feeling like you haven't got anywhere and lose motivation. Measure your body fat to reveal your true results.


By concentrating on multi-joint exercises such as deadlifts and bench press, you work more muscles which produce more muscle growth compared to single joint exercises such as the bicep curl. Multi-joint exercises are more intense and therefore increase your resting metabolic rate (RMR), meaning more muscle gain and less body fat.


Instead of doing long boring cardio sessions, try high-intensity interval training. Although your RMR remains high for 1-2 hours after a long cardio session, your RMR will actually remain high for 1-2 days after HIIT. This is because your skeletal muscles have been so strained and traumatised your body needs to increase the amount of calories to repair it, meaning a higher RMR.

Also HIIT sessions typically only last between 20-25 minutes, which means you're more than likely to do it rather than skip it. Read my post below to find out more about HIIT.

=> Why High Intensity Interval Training Rocks


To build lean muscle then you need to allow time for your body to recover between workouts. Too many men work out too often, some workout everyday.

You need to allow your body to fully recover before it is ready to perform muscle building functions. The best way find out if your body has fully recovered is to see if the intensity of your exercises in your workout increases. If the intensity doesn't go up then you need to workout less often.

The best workout program that I have come across is Mike Geary's Truth About Six Pack Abs. Using his program you can expect to see great muscle gains by working out three times a week with each gym session lasting just 45 minutes maximum. Check it out here.


Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Simon Heong - How To Instantly Attract Any Woman
Christian Godefroy - How To Improve Your Self Image
Christopher Williamson - How To Improve Yourself

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Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Cheater Revenge

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I had an affair with a married woman. We were both married and it just seemed to happen. We constantly told each other how much we loved each other and longed to be together.

Well, I left my wife for her. She, on the other hand, not only stayed with her husband - she dumped me and told me that it was all a mistake.

Now I understand how when push comes to shove, people tend to realize the err of their ways, but I'm boiling mad that I turned my life upside down for this woman who promised to leave her husband, only to be left all alone.

I'm thinking of telling her husband. Not for revenge, but just so she could learn a valuable lesson. What do you think?



Do not do it! There's absolutely nothing to be gained by you telling her husband, except for maybe a few minutes of self-centered gratification on your part.

After those few moments, you'll still be alone in your pain and anger and you certainly won't have helped either your situation or hers at all.

What valuable lesson do you think she's going to learn? I can't see any lesson in this for her other than to see that you really are vindictive and she made the right choice by staying with her husband.

If you really loved her and cared about her, despite the fact that it would be difficult for you, you'd want her to be happy, and you'd support her in her decision to stay with her husband.

You're deluding yourself if you think your motive isn't revenge. You need to take responsibility for the fact that you cheated on your wife, you made a big mistake, and you have no one to blame but yourself.

Start being honest with yourself and move on with your life.


I have only recently returned to the dating scene. I was married for 10 years, but my wife died. I was always a chivalrous man; I opened doors for my wife, let her go ahead of me, gave her my jacket if she was cold, etc.

But on my last 5 dates with women, I notice that they get offended if I open the door for them or do anything remotely chivalrous. Have I been so out of the loop that I missed the part about women not wanting gentlemen anymore?

Please advise on how I should behave with women so that they don't get offended.



Most women I meet would love to be able to find a chivalrous man! Unfortunately, it seems like they're too few and far between.

Perhaps the women you're meeting just aren't used to being with a real gentleman and they're thrown off a bit by it. I highly encourage you to keep it up.

You're bound to find a wonderful woman who really appreciates what you have to offer. Don't be discouraged. Unfortunately, sometimes it takes meeting quite a few people before you make a connection.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

In10se - The October Man Sequence
Don Miguel Ruiz - The Mastery Of Love
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Original Places To Meet Women

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Finding a great place to meet women can be really hard; bars and clubs are always an option, but while they offer alcohol, which is basically confidence in a bottle, they don't usually lead to very meaningful relationships.

Check out these original places to meet women spots and you may find the girl of your dreams is closer than you thought!



Everyone loves bookstores because they offer something for everyone. Dreamy girls may be found in the Romance or Fantasy sections, while adventurous ladies might browse the Travel or World section. If you like Pop Art and want to find a girl with the same passion for Warhol, hang out near the Art books. If you love a woman who can handle herself in the kitchen, browse through the Cookbook section. You get the idea.



Coffee shops are great hang out spots; you can find people reading, working or just enjoying a cup of joe. The trick here is not to disturb anyone's coffee break. If you see a gorgeous girl typing furiously on her laptop, you may want to wait until she takes a break to approach her. Also, don't sit at a woman's table unless she invites you. Better to leave her your info or keep returning to chat her up.



It's no secret: women love shoes. Shoe stores are a great place to meet women because they're extra relaxed and kind of excited when they're shoe shopping; shoes are sexy! Be sure to browse the men's section - girls may be freaked out by a guy hanging around the heels approaching them. If you see a woman you want to talk to, try on a pair on the seat beside her or compliment her choice. Conversation will follow.



You'll meet lots of ladies at yoga, but please don't do this unless you actually have an interest in trying the class. Yoga can be difficult, and it requires patience, flexibility and, most importantly, quiet. You can enjoy the view during class, but don't strike up a convo until afterwards. You don't want to ruin her workout.



Much like the bookstore, the library is teeming with women browsing through the books. Look for the sections where you think you may find your kind of woman, but don't forget the less popular stacks. Your soul mate may be writing a paper on the people of Guyana or picking up novels for her elderly grandmother.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

David Michaels - When A Man Makes Love To A Woman
Peter Latourette - How To Meet Beautiful Woman
Jon Jensen - Women Tell You How To Meet Women

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Ways To Flirt With Women

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You spot the girl of your dreams, you make your way towards her and you manage to strike up a conversation. You're certain this can lead to something big, but you're not sure how to get the message across and let her know you want to ask her out.

Don't fret; here are 10 ways you can flirt with women and let them know you mean pleasure.



Eye contact is one of the most powerful ways you can flirt with women and let them know what you want without actually saying a word. Lift your chin slightly up, look down with your eyes and smile with your mouth closed. There's no way she won't know that you want her.


SPEAK SOFT he speaks softly and gets a woman who's listening to bring herself closer to hear him. Of course, this probably won't bode well for you in a nightclub, but in just about any other location, this will work wonders to bring the two of you closer together.



Whether she gets defensive or makes it clear that she is, if you want to flirt with women successfully, this question can open up the door to more flirtation that leads to phone number exchanges and intimate conversations.

When she says, "I really need another drink, may I interest you in one as well?" Come back with, "Wow, if I didn't know better, I'd think you were coming on to me." If you want to flirt with women, you need to make it clear that you're interested.



Without getting into the "I have a joke to tell," mode, use your wit and humor to adlib something funny in the midst of your conversation. For instance, if she says, "You smell great, what are you wearing?" Come back with something clever like, "Eau de chocolate truffles, it attracts all the ladies."



Flattery will get you everywhere with a woman. From her dress to her hair, find something about her that you like and let her know that you noticed. She will appreciate it and you will have gotten your message across. Just be careful not to over-compliment her or give detailed compliments (I love those Prada shoes!) or you might come off as gayish or desperate.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Kate Fox - Guide To Flirting
Juggler - How To Meet And Connect With Women
Steve Scott - Supreme Confidence With Women

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Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Wanna Get Married Read This

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For some bachelors, the word "marriage" is enough to make them break out in cold sweat. Certain stigmas about married couples may continue to linger especially if you don't receive singles romance tips. For example, books and mass media often projects marriage as settling down to dullness, meaningless fights, and money problems. This paints a dark cloud over marriage. However, real men who experienced the joys of being with someone, it is probably the best thing that ever happened to them.

This positive perception is supported by recent findings from the University of Michigan. In the report, it states that happily married couples live healthier and longer lives compared to widowed individuals. The study suggests that the loss of a partner has such an impact on a person that it affects his health. Although no one likes the thought of losing someone, the data only shows that each one has to cherish the time they have together. Below are 3 quick tips that will help your partner feel like you truly care:

BE PASSIONATE - marriage shouldn't be a dull affair. Unfortunately, stress with work, kids, and household chores, it becomes hard to ignite your passion. Don't let the predictability of routine and the stress of everyday life get to you. When your partner comes home one night, help with the chores and then provide a relaxing massage just like you did in singles romance. It might lead to snoring but it won't go unappreciated.

BE CONSIDERATE - people can get so used to each other that they start to take each other for granted. This is a very bad idea. Even saying "thank you" to show gratitude will not go unnoticed. Married couples can strengthen their bond by being open, trustworthy, and considerate. Showing kindness to your spouse will definitely go a long way.

BE UNPREDICTABLE - it is inevitable for married couples to establish a routine in their life. But having surprises once in a while is important as well. If you usually go to a Chinese restaurant on a Friday night, why not go to a French one instead. Likewise, giving flowers or gifts when it is least expected can generate squeals or delight and reignite passion just like singles romance.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Niovi Moore - Top 5 Marriage Sex Mistakes
Ettie Rout - Safe Marriage A Return To Sanity

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Monday, September 27, 2010

10 Ways Women Bruise A Man Ego

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10 ways to bruise a mans ego

It's not at all difficult to bruise a man's ego, and women seem to do it famously.

The worst part is that sometimes women don't even intend to hurt a man's ego; it happens by mistake. And here are 10 ways women tend to bruise a man's ego.



Whether a woman is being playful by poking his gut or mentioning that perhaps he should step away from the Krispy Kremes, no man takes it well when a woman points out his gut.



Men place their self worth on the money they make and their profession, so when you mock him or imply that his job is just not that big a deal, it hurts his feelings and quite frankly, he doesn't like it.



Saying anything remotely close to "I'm so happy your penis is not big, otherwise I would constantly have urinary tract infections," doesn't bode well for men, no matter how nicely you put it.



If he hates a guy, by association alone, you have to hate this guy too. And if you dare say anything remotely in the other guy's favor, you will damage the man you're with - point-final. And he might start to resent you for it.



He's pounding away and you're enjoying it, but for some reason, the image of your friend taking a wipe out earlier that day pops into your head and you start cracking up. Even if you explain it to him, he'll think that you're so bored that you're reviewing your day and ED might start to take over.

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Recommended books (free to download):

David Deangelo - What Women Hate Most About Single Guys
Gregory Godek - 1001 Ways To Be Romantic

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Find A Cool Women Using Broken Ankle Routine

Find A Cool Women Using Broken Ankle Routine

Find A Apathetic WOMEN By way of Finished ANKLE Common

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Gawky.. fit.. Raven hair.. nice recyclable scratch.. clearly atleast part italian by her facial elevation.. I think: I'm just gonna get to your feet at home and talk to these girl inactive at home. I aimed to her: Are you madcap or normal? She giggled. Shes exposition signs that she doesnt want us to be together at first. At this time I take elatedly used Finished Ankle Common. I was still trying to flirt and build rapport. She laughed and was self-confident about it all. I was so inclined to take field experience and calibration.

I nuzzled and licked her d?colletage, and put my hands on her ass. She had a very usual and denouement puncture but I couldn't starve yourself place it... She was acting mushroom sexual with kino. I eternally do a good job of attracting girls and getting them to like me, the only problem is that my friends does a better job. Thank God they did not steadfast me at this time. I said: Delightfully you'd better think of no matter which good!. She came sit on my lap and started kissing me. It was a strange new toilet close experience.
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I Wish I Was 6 Again

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A man was observing his wife turning back and forth, looking at herself in the mirror.

Since her birthday was not far off, he asked what she'd like to have for her birthday. "I'd like to be 6 again," she replied, still looking in the mirror.

On the morning of her birthday, he arose early, made her a big bowl of Lucky Charms, and then took her to the Six Flags theme park. What a day!

He put her on every ride in the park: the Death Slide, the Wall of Fear, and the Screaming Monster Roller Coaster, everything there was.

Five hours later, they staggered out of the theme park. Her head was reeling and her stomach felt upside down. He then took her to a McDonald's where he ordered her a Happy Meal with extra fries and a chocolate shake. Then it was off to a movie, popcorn, a soda pop, and her favorite candy, M&Ms.

What a fabulous adventure! Finally, she wobbled home with her husband and collapsed into bed exhausted. He leaned over his wife with a big smile and lovingly asked, "Well dear, what was it like being 6 years old again?"

Her eyes slowly opened and her expression suddenly changed. "I meant my dress size, you idiot!"

The moral of the story: Even when a man is listening, he's gonna get it wrong.

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Sunday, September 26, 2010

Much Better Than Taking Her To Dinner

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Hi David, love your newsletters, always remind me the great points I read in your book You recently wrote:

"If you buy a woman enough dinners, she may begin to feel some AFFECTION for you but food and gifts will never lead to ATTRACTION. Big difference."

So what do we do after the first date of tea and stimulating conversation? I figure that at some point, I would like to go to dinner with a new girl. Should I just let them pay for theirs? I did that last time, since we were just becoming friends, I wasn't that into the woman and didn't want to look like I was trying to impress her (since I wasn't trying to impress her), and she also has her own business and I could tell she wasn't struggling. Dinner has been my main date approach in the past, and I have become the Wuss

in most cases! I recently came up with a good line for a girl at the Farmers market who told me I should eat my greens I told her she should come over and cook them for me! She didn't know how to respond, but I think she liked it by her smile. I'm gonna hit her up next time to be serious about that request, I think she can probably cook up some nice greens to go along with

my nice Ahi Tuna dish



I want to share an interesting story about a conversation I had this evening.

I was talking with, of all people, my MOM about the topic of "men paying for things for women" and it was fascinating to me to hear her perspective.

Without hesitation, she said that she believes that men should pay for everything, and if they really like a woman that they should SUPPORT her as well.

Of course, I burst out with, "YOU HAVE TO BE KIDDING!"

After we shared a laugh, she said, "No, I'm not kidding."

And she wasn't kidding, either.

My own mother believes that it's just part of being a "gentleman and good suitor" to pay for dinners, gifts, and even shelter for the woman he desires.

I immediately replied with [paraphrased]:

"This kind of sounds to me like you believe that men should pay women to give them attention, affection and sex."

At this point I think she remembered that I write books about this kind of thing and she gave up. But the thing that really got my attention was that she REALLY BELIEVES THAT MEN SHOULD PAY FOR EVERYTHING. IN FACT, SHE BELIEVES IT AT THE "WELL,


Heavy man, heavy.

No wonder I was such a loser before with women.

OK, I love my mom and mean no disrespect towards her

But let's talk about the real world for a second.

Here are a few things that I believe about how things work in general when it comes to women and dating:

1) People in general, MALE OR FEMALE intuitively know when they are being "pursued". As soon as we know that we have something that someone else wants, the price starts to go up. Economics 101.

2) When the price starts going up (translation: she realizes that you really like her and she starts playing hard to get, making you "prove" yourself, etc.) you start to LOSE CONTROL RAPIDLY.

3) When you lose control, you have a couple of basic ways you can respond: A) Pursue her harder, giving her even MORE control OR B) Giving up. (Neither of these options sounds very good to me.)


5) One way to do that is to stay away from things that put a woman into the "courting" mode of thinking and behavior.

6) Asking a woman to dinner and then buying is probably the absolute most certain way to put a woman in the state of mind that she is being "pursued" (with the possible exception of stalking her, which I strongly discourage).

By the way, I'm not opposed to the idea of buying dinner for a woman. I'm opposed to the mindset that you put her into when you buy it. Make sense?

Before I tell you what to do instead of buying a woman dinner, let me share what I'm thinking when I first meet an attractive woman (I like unusually beautiful women personally, so this might reflect a bit of a bias):

"She seems nice, but in my experience you never know what a person is like until you get to know them better. I'm willing to take the time to have a cup of tea with her to find out more."

Get it?


I never think, EVEN FOR A SECOND, that I need to buy her dinner so she'll sit and talk to me. No way.

Incidentally, or not so incidentally, having an attitude that you need something other than yourself in order for a woman to like you is UNATTRACTIVE to women. They can smell this kind of attitude and lack of self worth. Bad, bad, bad.

OK, so you get that I'm not real big on the idea of starting things off by paying for dinners and gifts.

"What should you do instead?"

I thought you'd never ask

Well, first off, if you ABSOLUTELY CAN'T HELP YOURSELF and you just HAVE to take a woman to dinner, at least frame it as "I want to go out to this favorite restaurant of mine, and if you'd like to go you're welcome to join me." Then if you decide to pay, it can be something you were doing for yourself, and you were being POLITE by paying for hers. If you do this, make it clear that

you're there because you want to go there, and that it's not to court her!

A much better idea is to be creative and avoid all of the things that scream "I'm willing to spend money to have your attention" (and therefore driving the price of that attention up).

Why not a walk in the park? Going to an art show? Going window shopping in an interesting part of town? Taking her with you to run errands? Taking her to a party that friends are throwing?


Sitting at a dinner table ALONE with some one that YOU DON'T KNOW is hardly "interesting conversation built in". Think about it.

Take a moment right now and think of 10 things you could do with a woman that cost little or no money, but have all kinds of interesting conversation, adventure, and excitement BUILT RIGHT IN.

Then, just do some of those things! Don't advertise the fact that you're not "taking her out to dinner", just DON'T DO IT.

Hey, this is great you get to have fun, not look like a wuss, not put her in "courting" mode, and have interesting conversation built right in.

Added bonus: You save $$$. Nice.

What I'm really trying to say here is don't set up the idea that you're paying for her attention. Just don't do it.

And as for the gal who you met in the market

I love the fact that you suggested she should come over and cook for you. Cocky and funny, very nice.

When she got that shocked look and couldn't respond you might have said, "Oh, I didn't mean to embarrass you you can't cook, huh? Well, that's OK. It's nothing to be ashamed of"

These are the best moments to turn up the heat!

After that, just simply move to the "It was nice talking to you but I have to get back to my shopping" Then, just after turning away, say, "Hey! Do you have email?"


"Great [pull out pen]. Give it to me."

Then follow up with this email:

"Hey, nice bumping into you at the market today. After carefully considering it, I've decided that I can live with the fact that you can't cook. I'll just have to adjust. I'm busy tomorrow, but maybe the next day we can get together for a cup of tea and I can teach you a thing or two about this cooking thing. It's really not that hard, and I'm sure you'll get the hang of it in no time"

By the way, I have no problem with the idea of having a woman cook for you. Just remember that if she does YOU NEED TO PLAY HARD TO GET!

Wait a minute; you need to do that anyway

If you haven't downloaded my eBook "Double Your Dating: What Every Man Should Know About How To Be Successful With Women" then you need to do that now.

This book and the three bonuses that come with it, are the FOUNDATION for success with women. Everything you read in these newsletters will make more sense once you have read the book.

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,

David D.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Bishop - Beta Into Alpha Unleashing The Phoenix
Michael Webb - A Better Way To Date

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Saturday, September 25, 2010

Anti Valentine Day

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Do you think Valentine's Day is too commercial? Too sickly sweet? Are you single and lonely? Does it remind you of an ended relationship?

This year you too can celebrate your own Valentine's Day holiday -- Anti-Valentine's Day!

While many of us have celebrated Anti-Valentine's Day on our own in the past, card companies now recognize the day as well by creating Anti-Valentine's Day cards that you can give to your friends. These cards, with sayings such as "broken hearts of the world united", represent less than 1% of the 2500 Valentine's card designs that American Greetings sells, but continues to grow. In fact, you can even send an Anti-Valentine's Day ecard from the website!

If you're looking for more ways to celebrate Anti-Valentine's Day, here are a few ideas:

If you're looking for more ways to celebrate Anti-Valentine's Day, here are a few ideas:

* Throw a party! Invite all of your single friends over and live it up for the night!
* Go out anyway! Gather a group of friends and head out for dinner at a local restaurant.
* Have a funny night in! Get takeout from your favorite restaurant, rend a comedy that you haven't seen yet, and spend the night laughing like crazy.
* Splurge on yourself! Give yourself your own Valentine's Day gift -- a day at the spa, a pedicure, a box of chocolates, etc.
* Join an online dating service and find yourself a new Valentine.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Michael Hall - Potentiality
Tony Horton - P90x Alternate Calendar
Sri Swami Sivananda - Practical Lessons In Yoga

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In Depth Of A Cheating Spouse

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There is nothing in a married life more difficult and heartrending than realizing that the man you have entrusted your whole life with, both as a lover and a friend, is cheating behind your back. To determine that your man is a cheating husband, you must have to accept the fact that it is most likely to happen, and then you have to be extremely mindful of the signs of a cheating husband, basing on his schedules, behaviors and habits. Taking the cap of a detective may seem to be an awkward role for you, but you have to find out the very truth before anything gets too late that your life and your dignity as his wife will be ruined.

You have to accept all the possibilities, or even the fact that you have a cheating husband, if he really is. You will be just blind and groping for the truth about the changes in his routines and behaviors f you refuse to accept the possibility. You have to rationalize everything and believe in the power of reason to avoid making fool out of yourself. Once you recognize that possibility of having a cheating husband, then you will get to notice all of the signs that he is really cheating on you.

Once you have accepted the fact that your husband might be cheating, observe the changes in his routine, as if there is a sudden change in his work schedule, the recurrent overtime that he is having, the occurrence of "emergency" meetings, the frequency of coming home late at night, or his stay in different homes every night. Last but not the least; a cheating spouse avoids telling or consulting his plans to his rightful wife.

Also, take note of the changes on his physical appearance. These can be very obvious to discern, as he might be dressing better for someone, he might be keeping his hair done more often than usual, he might be starting buy clothes on his own, or he might be spending time looking at the mirror more often. A cheating spouse is most likely concerned with his physical looks, as to impress his other woman. Also try to check his bathroom or cabinet for any changes in his toiletries.

Check out all of his communication devices, such as his desktop PC, laptop computer or his mobile phone. Scan all the history of the browser's history on his computer. If it is clear of any information, be on red alert. A cheating spouse tends to hide something if they are very cautious on leaving any traces on their computers. Also, check his mobile phone for any suspicious calls or text messages. If he is away, call him during his "working hours". If the phone is busy, your cheating spouse is up to something.

Look at the obvious things of a cheating spouse. Women have a stronger sense of smell than women. Use it on your advantage to catch your cheating spouse red handed. A sudden and strange perfume smell on his shirt or even on his skin can be a sign, as well as strands of hair on his clothing and even on the car's seats. Gather all of these evidences securely. If you cannot bear all of these anymore, talk to a lawyer or a marriage counselor and ask for advice on coping with your cheating spouse.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Robert Henderson - Secrets Of Dating Asian Women
Nancy Stevenson - 10 Minute Guide To Motivating People
Alphahot1 - Seduction Trends The Myth Of Just Being Yourself

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How To Avoid Awkward Moments

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We somehow feel that awkward moment during the first few minutes of meeting our date. But of course, we eventually get the hang of it. To help get you through those occasionally awkward first few minutes of a ‘date,’ here is a Super simple dating advice from the pickup artist. Although it can be used at any time throughout the meeting.

Julian Foxx calls it: ‘Ipod for 2?

Now this dating advice works in almost any environment and most situations.

So here’s a scenario: You’ve just met a girl by the subway station near your house. (you got her to come to meet you right?:) It is your first ‘date’ and you are wearing an Ipod. You say your Hello’s, and begin some playful banter.

Step 1: As you are walking along the street towards your destination, you say “Oh Wow, you have got to listen to this.”

And hand her just one of the earbuds. (If you’re feeling bold, go ahead and stick it in her ear for her;) The key is that the other earbud stays in your ear, preferably the one closer to her…

Step 2: Play whatever song you want. The trick is to share something with her that you genuinely enjoy listening to and are hopefully even passionate about. Just don’t play U2?s, “With or Without You” because that would just be lame.

In fact, to be on the safe side, stay away from anything too lovey dovey sounding.

Step 3: Just be with her as the music plays and keep heading towards your destination. (Doesn’t matter if you’re stationary or sitting down btw)

The benefit of this technique is twofold;

1. You are sharing something with her that has meaning to you. This sets the stage for her to share something personal back.

2. It isn’t possible to share Ipod headphones and NOT be constantly touching the person you’re sharing them with… The more music you play her, the more comfortable she is getting with your touch. And it is totally incidental! (How else could you both listen?)In other words, you have a legitimate and excusable reason to be that physically close to her. ‘Ipod for 2? is one of the most simple yet effective dating tips for men that you can even use it anytime throughout the interaction, so don’t feel obligated to try it at the very beginning.

In fact, if the date is going well it has much more potential impact when used after some initial bonding has occurred.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Peter Latourette - How To Meet Beautiful Women
Dr William Fitzgerald - How To Give A Hand Massage
Ron Louis - How To Succeed With Women

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Friday, September 24, 2010

She Was The Woman

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Disclaimer: "As you well know, suing is not permitted. Do so and I shall wreak havoc!"

Authors Note: "Like some of the other sagas of Ultima Anime Massacre, this will contain some Lemon. I have decided to take a break from recent
UAMs in favor of a prequel! This will explain how UAM came to be!"

Ultima Anime Massacre Alpha
Chapter 01: "Love is in the Air or Whatnot"

Written by Ultima Trev
Pre-read by Komobito the Prankster

Setting: The date is Wednesday, February 14, 2001, The location is Okayama Japan. The present day is Sasami's 17th birthday...

The time is 7:00am...

Tenchi (pushing the stop button on his alarm clock): "Damn I'm tired."

It's a typical day, Tenchi has to get ready for college and all that. Of course the only one who gets up as early as Tenchi is Sasami, the one who
loves to do chores for some odd and apparent reason...

Setting: The kitchen where our favorite Juraian princess is mopping the floor...

Sasami: * I doubt anyone remembered what day it is. *
Tenchi: "Ohayo Sasami-chan!"
Sasami: "Ohayo Tenchi-san!"
Tenchi: "So how is our wonderful birthday girl doing?"
Sasami: "I'm surprised you had remembered. I thought everyone had though of me as the maid now."

Now that Sasami is 717, (17 physically) and used to the Earth culture, she enjoys tight ass jeans and tight cleavage-revealing tank tops as much as any other adolescent female on Earth. As for Tenchi, he's gotten over his shyness with the ladies, he's already had sex with 5 girls from his classes, of course he didn't tell anyone at home about that, with the exception of one...

Tenchi: "No way, out of all the ladies here you have adapted to Earth culture the best, and quite flawless too. That makes you my favorite alien!"
Sasami: "I can't figure out if that's an insult or compliment."
Tenchi: "I'm sorry if that offended you. You're even as cool as the girls in my class who are quite a few years older than you."
Sasami: "So I could compare to a 25 year old in your class?"
Tenchi: "I don't see why not."
Sasami: "Well, that makes me feel somewhat relieved."
Tenchi: "Well, I have to get going... See you later, and I'll see to it that your birthday doesn't suck!"
Sasami: "You're too kind."

Tenchi then exited the house and entered his 1999 Toyota Corolla, putting Pantera: Vulgar Display of Power in the CD player, and heading
towards his college campus...

Meanwhile in Jacksonville Florida, a 16 year old otaku by the name of Trev was watching La Blue Girl with his cousin Justin...

Trev: "Damn man, those girls know how to kick some ass."
Justin: "No shit, I wish I could be a ninja super hero."
Trev: "Yeah, me too, Nin-nin is like the star of hope for us otakus..."
Justin: "Hell yeah!"
Graham: "Yo Trev, lookie here..."
Trev: "Hey Graham, you finally got RE: Code Veronica."
Graham: "Yeah, but before we play that let's play some Perfect Dark."
Justin: "That's some good ole death matching fun."
Trev: "Of course I'm gonna win again, but oh well."

Now we take you to rural China, where a battle is taking place...

Dr Gerro: "Now now Vegita, back off of #19, he's defenseless."
Vegita: "Screw you. As for you fat ass.............."


#19 was blown to bits...

Dr. Gerro: * I'm screwed. *

Later at the University of Okayama...

Cat Girl Naku Naku: "Tenchi, this ring, it's too much."
Tenchi: "What are you saying?"
Cat Girl: "It's just not gonna work, I'm transferring to Tokyo to get my Ph D."
Tenchi: "Was it the sex?"
Cat Girl: "No way, you've penetrated my wall much better than anyone. But I'm afraid I have to go. Good bye Tenchi..."
Amagasaki: "That sucks dude."
Tenchi: "I thought for sure she was the woman I was gonna marry. I thought wrong."
Amagasaki: "Give it to one of the girls that live with you."
Tenchi: "Well, it is Sasami's birthday, but I think she would like a wedding ring from someone 9 years older!"
Amagasaki: "Physically at least..."
Tenchi: "Oh yeah, she's really 717..."

Later as Tenchi gets home...

Tenchi (whispering in Sasami's ear): "Sasami, I need to talk to you in private."
Sasami: "Ditto."

Outside of the house in the green house...

Tenchi: "Well, I got you something..."

Tenchi pulls out the ring that he got for Naku Naku before she told him the bad news...

Sasami: "Tenchi, is this a proposal?"
Tenchi (blushing): "No, it's just that it's the nicest one they had at the jewelry shop..."
Sasami: "I don't know if I can accept this, it's too much..."
Tenchi: "Sasami, you've earned it more than anybody."
Sasami: "I think this is something that you should get for your girlfriends at school..." (apparently Sasami can keep a secret)
Tenchi: "I forgot to mention, Naku is transferring to Tokyo. We had to break up."
Sasami: "That sucks, It sounded like you guys really had something going and all."
Tenchi: "Sasami, you're without a doubt my best friend. You're even more supportive than Amagasaki is."
Sasami: "Well, you're the only friend I have really, but you sure are one Hell of a guy."
Tenchi: "Thanks Sasami."
Sasami: "Welcome."

Sasami and Tenchi then went on and on about how things are. Tenchi would often talk about how Amagasaki would grosse out girls at school, and Sasami would often
talk about how she'd wake up hearing Aeka's moaning, like she swears that she's masturbating. They'd always laugh at finding fault with others, though they have never
found fault with each other...

Sasami: "Well, I had better get dinner ready..."
Tenchi: "Can I help in anyway?"
Sasami: "Sure, you can give me a ride to the grocery store."
Tenchi: "Ah, shopping time is it?"
Sasami: "Yep."

They take off in the car...

...and to the grocery store they went...

Sasami: "Lucky us, they have an abundant supply of Tabasco sauce..."
Tenchi: "And anchovies!"
Sasami: "Yuck."
Tenchi: "I knew you'd say that!"
Sasami: "I'm wondering Tenchi, why don't you look at girls in the same manner as your father?"
Tenchi: "Trust me, at school I can be quite the naughty one."
Sasami: "Well, I'm quite jealous."
Tenchi: "Why is that?"
Sasami: "Those girls are quite lucky to have someone as cute as you fantasizing about them."
Tenchi: "Since when was I cute?"
Sasami: "Since I've met you, why?"
Tenchi: "You've never really told me that."
Sasami: "Should I have?"
Tenchi: "Of course."
Sasami: "Oh, well your extremely cute. I'm sure any girl would tell you the same."
Tenchi: "I could probably say the same about you."
Sasami: "Yeah, only if I was older though."
Tenchi: "Why's that?"
Sasami: "We could have made a cute couple."
Tenchi: "Trust me, Ayeka and Ryoko would do anything to prevent that from happening."
Sasami: "True."

People are giving quite the stare to Tenchi and Sasami...

Tenchi: "Sasami, why are people looking at us."
Sasami: "I don't know."
"Wow, they get along quite well for being father and daughter."

Once they get home from the grocery store inside the kitchen, Ayeka and Ryoko are sitting at the table drinking green tea and pastries...

Ryoko: "Where have you two been?"
Ayeka: "It's been around two hours and one half."
Sasami: "We went grocery shopping so I could cook a more complete meal."
Ryoko: "Is that a metaphor for going on a date?"
Ayeka: "Tenchi, how could you betray me like this!"
Tenchi: "It's not like that, we went grocery shopping and there's nothing more to it!"
Ryoko: "If you say so."

It was getting late... And now everyone was in bed with the exception of Tenchi and Sasami. They were continuing their conversation from the grocery store that night...

Sasami: "Don't think it was weird that those people thought I was your daughter?"
Tenchi: "Yeah. As I said before, I think of you as my best friend."
Sasami: "Same here. Not even my friends on Jurai were like you."
Tenchi: "It's a shame that I'm physically 9 years older, I'd go out with you in a second..."
Sasami: "Strange, I have that exact feeling."
Tenchi: "Sweet."
Sasami: "I have to come clean with you."
Tenchi: "What's that?"
Sasami: "I'm sorry to tell you this, but I love you just as much as Ryoko and Ayeka. I feel the urge to make love to you as they do. I always think that my life isn't
worth living because I know I'll always be too young for you a certain sense..."

Sasami breaks into tears...

Tenchi: "Sasami, I'm going to have to come clean with you too. Ever since you started to mature into the lady that you are now, I've always had thoughts about how
nice it would be to go out with you, and get intimate..."
Sasami: "Tenchi, maybe..."

Before she can say another word Tenchi locks his lips with her own...

Sasami: * Can this be real? Could I have won the heart of the most loving, caring man in the universe? *

Sasami could not help but moan in ecstasy as the one that she had secretly loved for all these years explored the inside of her mouth his tongue. Sasami then felt
urged to do the same to him. Eventually they got into a tongue war...

Tenchi: * I cannot believe this day had come, the one I love more than anyone has finally accepted me as a lover... *

Eventually the break the kiss to catch their breath...

Sasami: "Tenchi, that was the most delightful feeling I've ever had."
Tenchi: "Indeed it was Sasami."

Of course they are pretty tired, seeing how they fell asleep on the living room couch. Tenchi was sleeping in a sitting up position while Sasami is laying down with her
head in Tenchi's lap...

8:00am the next morning...

Tenchi (looking at a clock): "Oh crap, it's already 8!"
Ryoko: "Well Ayeka, how do you say we go about pounding these gnats into the ground?"
Ayeka: "I say we get some baseball bats and swing as hard as we possibly can..."
A & R in unison: "Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!"
Sasami (in a yawning fashion): "What's going on Ten... Crap."
Ayeka: "Well my demon sister, you should be ashamed!"
Sasami: "Honestly, we were just so tired wee fell asleep down here during a chat last night!"
Ryoko: "Like we should believe that."
Tenchi: "It's true, obviously you forgot that I'm the pure hearted hero and would never get intimate with a child."
Ayeka: "I see your point..."
Ryoko: "Sorry we came to these abrupt conclusions..."
Tenchi: "Apology accepted."

Ayeka and Ryoko then leave...

Sasami: "You saved me."
Tenchi: "What do you mean?"
Sasami: "I'm sure they would've pounded us into a pulp..."
Tenchi: "Yeah, me too."
Sasami: "Well, you better get ready for school."

Tenchi then gives Sasami a kiss on the cheek...

Tenchi: "See you later..."
Sasami: "Good-bye my love..."

End of chapter 1. Next chapter: More tasteless Lemon from the author no one likes, and that's me! Email all flames, comments, etc. to

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

David Deida - The Way Of The Superior Man
Honore De Balzac - The Deserted Woman

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Thursday, September 23, 2010

Benefits Of Having A Boyfriend

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When it comes to relationships, people have different opinions regarding this touchy subject. Some believe that they are too complicated and no one will be able to find true love. These are obviously people who have gone through a break up or have been single all their life. On the other end of the spectrum, others say that there are many benefits of getting into relationships. These are the lucky ones who were able to find love with a special someone.

If you are one of the many people who have grown tired of relationships, don't lose hope. The benefits outweigh the consequences. You'll be able to get more by having your boyfriend by your side than growing old alone in a big empty house.


The first advantage of having a boyfriend is that you have someone you can share your life with. This may sound clich'e but it's a clich'e for a reason. That saying is still true no matter how you try to change it. A boyfriend is someone you can talk to about literally anything. Whether it's simply about getting a manicure or a new bag you want to buy, a boyfriend is there with open ears to listen. He can also be the one with you when you are going through a difficult trial. A bad day at work or a fight with the parents is definitely a downer and a boyfriend is there to lean on. He will become your partner in all of your adventures and your life will be infused with him. This is the beauty of relationships.

Having a partner also gives you a sense of protection. A boyfriend is commonly known as someone who can defend his woman in any circumstance. The world is a cruel place and having someone there for you wouldn't hurt.


Along with having a partner, people who get into relationships need not be alone anymore. People may not admit it, but there are countless people trying to get their hands on a boyfriend or girlfriend. Even though being single can be great and there are certain advantages, you are still going through life alone. You may be whole and secure as a person but what's the point if you can't share it with someone else? No one wants to go through life alone and you're not an exception.


Romantic relationships form a unique and special bond that only two people can connect. You might be surprised to discover that there are actually millions of people who are lonely and searching for love. Love can be very elusive and people have tried countless times to make relationships works. To have a boyfriend means someone you can love for your own. In the same way, you'll experience love that is very different from any kind love. There is love for family, friends, material possessions, but nothing beats romantic love from relationships. With this love, you'll be part of something deeper and bigger than yourself.

You may still be hesitant in getting into a relationship, but the advantages are worth going through all the trouble. Having a boyfriend may be a difficult task but you'll get through them with love.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Chris Jackson - Secrets Of Undressing Women
Robert Henderson - Secrets Of Dating Asian Women

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Attending The Right Nlp Training Without Wasting Your Money

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People make big changes to their lives by attending NLP training. But, NLP trainings are expensive in both time and money. You need to take care that your investment gets you what you want and you achieve the results. This article is about finding a course that doesn’t meant your expectations.

There are big differences in price, training experience and time for the range of NLP Courses on the market. Unfortunately, there are good and bad courses out there. Taking the time to find the best course for you is worth the investment of time it would take:

1. Look for a course without knowing what you want from it. Before looking for a course you will need to start with the end in mind. Find out what you want to get from the course, imagine what you will be seeing and doing with the new skills. There is a lot of time, effort and money invested in this course, you might want to make sure that the new skills will give you back a return of that investment. Knowing what you want from the course gives you a quick way of sorting through a lot of NLP Practitioner Courses quickly.

2. Believing that looking in to the course content or the background of the trainer has any value. There are a few self serving, profit making organizations that NLP Training Organizations choose to certify through and they vary slightly in terms of core content although this is not the major challenge. Spend some time quizzing your potential trainers. Try putting their names in to Google. All the good NLP Trainers have written articles, books and have an on line presence. Speak to them if you can and get a feel for how well they build rapport with you.

3. Go to the nearest or cheapest trainer because they are near or cheap. I find this a strange attitude to what could be the most important training course they may ever undertake. Could you imagine buying a car with no criteria for the type of car that you want. Worse still you walk into your nearest garage and buy the first car you see, or the cheapest car you find.

The skills learnt on a NLP Course could be the most significant skills you have learnt since walking and talking. In which case taking the time and effort to find the right course for you will pay you back with dividends.

Also read this ebooks:

Michael Hall - Life Coaching The Art Of Coaching The Game Of Life
Brian Caniglia - Getting The Most From Online Dating

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