And if you want to keep the passion alive in your relationship, you will need to keep stepping it up and be willing to admit that vanilla isn't the only flavor available in the sexual spectrum.
Is your man starting to get bored with your bedside manner? Are you willing to make some change in order to keep the fires burning? Well, it's time you started facing the truth about your sexual prowess and began making improvements, by avoiding the following.
MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE IN BED #1
YOU STAY QUIET
If he goes down on you and hits the perfect spot, the spot that makes you feel like a rush of liquid is going to flow from your body, and then, suddenly, he changes his route, it may be your fault.
If you don't make a sound when you're having sex, you're not letting him know when he's satisfying you, and you're not helping his ego.
The next time he hits "that" spot, make sure to let out a great big "yes" and moan with delight. It will help you open up (in more ways than one) and it will give him the signal to continue on when he gets it right.
MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE IN BED #2
YOU IGNORE HIS TESTICLES
It's funny that everywhere you look, men are being given advice about how women need to be aroused via foreplay before they can go for the main event, but women are never told the same thing.
Well, it's true; men want to be aroused as well. Don't get me wrong; there are appropriate times when you can go straight for the kill, so to speak, but more often than not, a man wants you to titillate him via massages, body kisses and great oral sex.
And when you go down on him, don't be afraid to massage his testicles with your hand and rub his anus with your finger. Explore his body and you'll discover that there's more to him than just a rod.
MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE IN BED #3
YOU DONT INITIATE
In life, it's accepted that men do the chasing and women do the rejecting, but once you're actually in a sexual relationship, all of that should end. It's a terrible blow to a man when he always has to make the move and, worse, risk your saying "no" some of the time.
To ensure that he feels desired, you need to come on to him, seduce him and even tease him. If you make him feel like a king in bed, he will make you feel like a queen all the time.
MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE IN BED #4
YOURE TOO INSECURE
You want the lights off, you have to be under the covers and you never want to take off your shirt. Yeah, that sounds like some really exciting sex.
If he's with you, it's because he likes you, so it's time you got over your insecurities and gave in to your flaws. You can do so with baby steps by lighting candles (they provide incredible lighting). Then, when you're comfortable with that, try doing it without the covers. And finally, get your hot ass on top of him and give him the ride of his life.
MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE IN BED #5
YOU DONT CLEAN BEFOREHAND
Even if you took a shower this morning, by evening time you're not as fresh. Allowing him to go down on you at such a time is bad sexual etiquette.
Any time a man is about to go down on you, your vulva should be freshly cleansed so that all he smells are your natural aromas and all he tastes is peaches. If he has a bad experience going down there, it may spell the end of fantastic cunnilingus.
Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):Carol Mccluer - The Five Biggest Mistakes Women Make About Love
Chris Jackson - Common Mistakes Men Make While Having Sex
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