Friday, September 30, 2011

Man Duct Tapes Girlfriend Mouth Shut

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KEVIN JOHN FRANCO, 34, has been sentenced to 90 days in the St. Lucie County Jail for duct taping his girlfriend's hands and mouth so that "she would listen."

In October 2008, his girlfriend said she awoke to find her boyfriend duct-taping her hands together and then duct-taping her mouth. She said that she managed to get loose after a while, but when she tried to get to a phone, Franco ripped the phones out of the walls.

His girlfriend finally managed to use her cell phone to call for help and Franco was then arrested for felony false imprisonment, misdemeanor battery and tampering with a witness.

In the report, Franco says, "Yes, I tied her hands and I taped her mouth closed, but only so she would listen."

So let that be a lesson to you, ladies, if you don't listen to what your man has to say, you may wake up to find yourself bound and gagged and having no choice but to listen.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Maniac High - Maniac Highs Pickup Girls Guide And Seduction Site
Joseph Matthews - Break Out Of The Friends Zone

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Thursday, September 29, 2011

Gender Divide On Jealousy

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For women, it hurts much more to hear that their boyfriends had an emotional affair than it would to discover that they used a cigar to masturbate overweight women. That's the way it is. If women know that their men are being emotionally unfaithful, the scar goes way deeper than it would if they were just having hot sex with anonymous women.

On the other hand, men see it differently: if their women had a sexual affair, it fares much worse than if they have an emotional one.

So why are there such gender divides when it comes to what makes men and women jealous?

The most popular theory is one that roots itself in evolution: Men are hyper-vigilant about sex because they can't ever be sure that the kids their women are having are actually theirs. And women are incredibly concerned about being with men who are committed to raising a family.

But now, new research is suggesting something else. Oh, it doesn't bash the old theory, in fact, it builds upon it. However, it also suggests that the differences are rooted not just in gender, but in one's relationship history.

Those (men and women) who value their autonomy in relationships over commitment tend to find sexual cheating more upsetting, but those who value their relationships or are securely in committed ones find the emotional betrayal more upsetting.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Adam Gilad - Interview With John Alanis
Marty Beckerman - Generation Slut

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Turn Up The Heat In A Bar

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When you're at a bar or nightclub, you're not limited to just using words to take things to the next level. There are plenty of PHYSICAL things you can do that dial up the attraction big time. Watch guys who are naturally great with women, and you'll see they use both words and physical elements to get the results their looking for.

Plus, the physical stuff I'm about to share with you is just a helluva lot of fun.

CAUTION: Some of these tactics you can use when you first meet a woman, and some are better saved when you've been talking a while and she's showing some interest. Decide for yourself which tool to use in each situation.

Here are a few to get you started:

- When you bust on her, poke her playfully on her side

- If she busts on you, put out your hand like you're going to congratulate her by shaking her hand, but instead take your other hand and slap hers and say "The next one is going to be on your ass, so don't push it...."

- Bump her with you arm and say "Watch it, punk"

- "Do you like it when guys do this..." and then grab the hair right about her neck line

- When you first get introduced to a girl, grab her hand like you're going to kiss it. At the moment where you can almost see her rolling her eyes and thinking, "Oh no, not another wuss," instead of kissing her hand, kiss YOUR OWN. Classic.


Any time you can treat a very attractive woman like she's "one of the guys," it's golden. Think about it - she's getting all this attention at the club, but you're pushing her, teasing her, busting on her, etc. It communicates all the right things. The ordinary rules don't apply to you. You're not intimidated in the least, and her beauty has no power over you.

So do things that show she's just one of your buddies... one of the dudes. In fact, call her "dude." When you have an opportunity to bust on her say, "Dude, you are so stupid... what are you doing?" in a playfully mean way. No guy calls an attractive woman "dude." When you do, it instantly sets you apart in a funny, challenging way.


If you've got a good vibe going with a girl, experiment with the "How well do you know your body" test. (I got this one from a good friend of mine.)

It has 2 parts. In the first part, you have her turn her arm over. Then you slowly run your finger up from her inner wrist to the inside of her elbow joint. Have her close her eyes and try to tell you when you get to the joint. Almost always she'll tell you to stop way before you get there, so bust on her for it.

In part 2, you do the same thing, but this time you run your finger up from her knee to her hip. Do it slowly, and watch her face for signs that she's getting turned on.


Ask her if she gives good hugs. If she says yes, motion for her to give you a hug. Give her a score from 1-10.

When she asks you if you can do better, tell her of course. Now, to give a good hug, start with your hands on her sides, and then slowly slide your finger tips from her side to across her back and give her a firm, deep hug. Then when you let go, do the reverse - slowly slide your fingers across her back and back down to her sides. She'll give you at least a 9, trust me.


Ask her if she knows the right way to whisper in someone's ear. She'll tell you to go first. So reach over, grab the hair just above her neckline and pull. Then move in slowly, breathing on her neck as you move to her ear, pause, and then whisper, "Never mind."

Feel free to escalate from here and play the "Do You Know How To Kiss" Test, etc.

Now, what's really going on "behind the scenes" with all these games? You're communicating not only that you're messing with her, but also that you're comfortable with the physical stuff and that you know A LOT in this area. Women love this.

And if you're reading this and saying to yourself, "I am SO ready to learn more techniques like these to take things to a physical level with any woman I meet," then I have to tell you something...

You're right.

And if you don't know how to smoothly progress from one physical level to the next, I can guarantee that you are missing opportunities to "connect" with a lot of great women. Or, maybe just that one special woman you have your eye on.

By David DeAngelo

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Jo Barrett - The Men Guide To The Women Bathroom
Dating Insider - The Art Of War

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Couple Dating Interracial

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Fail To Understand That Dismantling The Anger And Bitterness From Racism Is A Very Involving Emotional Process

Fail To Understand That Dismantling The Anger And Bitterness From Racism Is A Very Involving Emotional Process
"This is a guest propel for swpd by fromthetropics, who writes about herself, "I am varied learned, and always feel in-between -- what's more inwards and stage, but neither wholly inwards nor stage."

Hardly, readers of this blog create witnessed commenters culpability positive non-white commenters of being fuming and snarky, and of din down others. For persons who don't experience racism in the form of microaggressions on a regular answer, there's something I think you need to come across. In a pattern experiencing microaggressions is appallingly bearing on the beware.

It's hard to think of an rep congruence inwards. Fighting fit -- have an idea that having a unreliable senior, and having to go to work every day without knowing if he/she is gonna howl at you or not that day. Being they do howl, you create no idea what you've widespread patchy. You don't come across what you're supposed to do to examination he/she is exultant with you, for example it doesn't physically matter what you do. You create no sovereign state over what happens.

For me, the racism of microaggressions direction having to be on the ball the hardly I step all-embracing the house, ensuring that I don't unthinkingly do something that can echo inopportunely on my throb. Every one time I talk to society, I've got my antennas up in the back of my mind, wondering whether snowy people will speak contemptuously to me or not. Being they don't, I am thankful. Being something hurtful happens (e.g., being articulated to in a leader tone), I step obtainable wondering if it was racism or whether there's just something patchy with me. Such as abundance on a regular basis, I create no idea whether I did something patchy.

Sometimes it's a car full of young snowy men torrential by as they howl out something. Sometimes it's puzzling, in which swathe the vibe still isn't good. I keep walking, wondering if it was racism, or by chance they're just boys being boys. Along with one night they howl out something and I judge the words 'Asian teenager anywhere in their yelling. 'Ah, that's the vibe I was picking up that far-off week,' signals my antenna. Or they badge my bags at me and my family with a grin at the lethal, disappoint that I'd asked them to equilibrium our bags again, to size up if it chiefly was plump.

Or by chance I go to a shop, and a slight merchandise point of view that was standing glowing erratically (no embroidery) falls over at the same time as I pass by. It isn't my snag. I can pick it up, but I can see that it would fall over again fighting fit at the same time as the next person passes by. Along with my antenna goes up: apart from if I don't pick it up, they'll think Asians are rude won't they?'

So I pick it up. The shopkeeper comes over and noticeably of just saying 'thank you,' she praises me for statute so, as nonetheless I was a teenager, and mentions how to a great degree I am compared to that far-off girl who didn't pick it up. My antenna goes up again: Was that far-off girl Asian too? Immense affair I picked it up. Otherwise it chiefly would create made Asians look bad.

Or let's say, your good snowy friend brings up the branch of learning of throb. For the first time you think it's perceptive to talk about racism. But one affair leads to original and she ends up telling you to go see a counselor/psychiatrist for example you think racism is communal. The friendship ends of flood, disturbingly. Heartbreakingly for example it was a friendship that mattered.

None of these (except the suffer one) are a big develop in and of themselves. But the dependability at which they go on is.* It wears you down. It chiefly, straightforwardly wears you down to create that antenna up all the time. Several on this blog say it happens tabloid to them. For me, it happens about later a week. But I create to keep my antenna up every day. It's active. I didn't catch how hoarsely active it was until I went to Asia to live for a see. It's astonishingly beneficial to not create to worry about this at all. To live, that is, like supreme snowy people do.

My point is, at the same time as the enormously affair happens again on a site enthusiastic to anti-racism, it's glowing infuriating. So the anger, the snarks, the shouts, in common of the explanation. Is it perceptive to be snarky? Doubtless not. But this is everywhere it's coming from. I group you can judge us on this.

In addition, to the same degree snowy readers use this slit to dismantle their habitual racially biased views, POCs are trying to dismantle our dissatisfaction and anger and internalized racism. And it is a deal with, distant like identity manage (or doubtless, it's part of identity manage).

I started reading this blog in April of this see. I went from being very fuming to the same degree wondering whether I was imagining racism (and if I realize that I was, thus I'd both create to both gather that stage is something very patchy with me to be regularly treated as less than matching); to being happy to come across that I wasn't imagining things but still very, very angry; to being just very, very, very fuming to the point that for a few months I had a hard time picturing snowy people (in win terminology as opposed to at the same time as I meet them in person) without thinking, 'Ugh, abusive.' They became dehumanized in my innovation.

Inwards this stage, I had to on a regular basis take back face-to-face of all the snowy friends and snowy people I come across who were not abusive,' who were very nice and very human. I started to make hostile generalizations about snowy people a lot. An Asian Australian friend had to physically call me out on that.

Now, blissfully, my emotions create started to wind down. I don't feel too fuming anymore. This see, I've been admirably to meet a number of snowy people (some of whom are very kind), people who I can respect and who treat me with respect, what's more as a poc and a woman. Taking into consideration one of them, I felt gist adequately to chat racism (nonetheless I steered clear of the word racism and used discrimination noticeably). And yes, he got quite anticipatory, and for every point I made he would resist with the suchlike but racism line of confront. But at no time did he show any upset towards me as a person.

I meet that (incredibly on one occasion I saw that video everywhere Ashy Family unit Pressure Secretary Robert Gibbs union to April Ryan, a black female reporter, in a leader and infantilizing process. I realized that the debate I was having with this guy may well create smoothly flared up into a Gibbs & Ryan type of swap, had he been terminated biased). It's like pulling at the rope in a tug of war and the far-off guy lets go. Being he got quite anticipatory, I started expressing my views terminated steadfastly and got incensed (pulling at the rope with terminated spirit). But at the same time as I realized he didn't thus go tell disrespecting me (he let the rope go), I calmed down and physically went back to make up, just in swathe, for coming off too steadfastly (I let the rope go too). To which he hypothetical, formidably, that I had no use to make up at all and that he appreciates that I open my views (so the tug-of-war in my sordid above).

So it's occupied me months of venting on swpd and outdated, becoming particularly fuming to the point of being racist face-to-face towards snowy people, meeting snowy people who are apparently not wholly familiar of their whiteness but statute all they can to be awed, and both statute far-off things to develop with the anger and dissatisfaction. It's been a long, hoarsely emotional and connecting deal with. I don't think it's utterly over yet either.

All of this is to say that I understand that being pungent and fuming doesn't look incredibly good or pretty. I don't like being pungent or fuming either. (The contacts from elise were convenient in understanding how to examination that our poc anger doesn't in a state over into our explanation in debate of throb.) But I think some of us inwards are in the midst of a deal with of dismantling our anger at the same time as we snark and vent. We're not fuming for example we create an fuming personality. The anger is part of a deal with.

I am not excusing anger. I want it helpless too. But I want you to judge everywhere we're coming from, to judge from everywhere the deal with is in the sphere of -- our hearts.

*If you picked one regular poc commenter and additional up the number of times they say, 'That happens to me too,' I think you'll manage to see how regularly poc experience microaggressions.
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Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Mistakes To Avoid On Dates

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There are plenty of mistakes a guy can make when he's out with a girl for the first time. Right now, I'll address one of the most common mistakes:" seating".

Ever have this problem? You and a buddy see two girls across the way and go over. He sits next to the one you like and you sit next to the friend, not exactly your type. You make small talk; so does she. Maybe your buddy isn't hitting it off with the other girl, either. This can easily happen, but it takes a very strong personality to break social norms and say, "Switch!" Few people will do so.

Most foursomes so situated will sit in this poor energy configuration and the one couple that had a chance - you and the other girl - may never get an opportunity to be alone. You both feel badly if you do so, like you're betraying your initial partners. This most often ends with everybody feeling blah.

The same thing can happen one-on-one. If you're seated by a maitre d' or hostess they'll probably put you and your date across the table from one another. Or, your date, not knowing better, will wish to sit across from you. If you're having dinner, this is often unavoidable. But, you shouldn't be eating with a girl with whom you haven't yet slept, anyway.

Sitting across from a romantic partner kills sexual energy. First off, it has an interview configuration in which you are physically confronting one another. This format is good for asking challenging questions or scrutinizing a job applicant, not for sharing tender caresses or whispering provocative words. Also, your voice has to project across a table top, so it doesn't have the intimacy of the close-spoken word. In addition, you don't have a shared point-of-view (POV). The value of a shared POV is that you can identify things, comment on people, laugh at something you both see, etc. The opposing POVs which two parties have across a table is more suitable for adversaries than intimates.

Side-by-side seating also begins the physical process. With the woman by your side, you can put your hand on her thigh, lean into her shoulder, kiss her neck, hold her hand under the table, etc. In this way, you build on the other elements of intimacy - a quiet voice and a shared POV - so that soon she feels that you and she are one. This is the process by which females open up and include men in their physical reality.

With something as simple as the proper use of seating, you've created a sense of intimacy and unity that will soon lead to sex. Choose to sit across, however, and more than likely you've increase her sense of alienation.


Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Derek Vitalio - 3 Master Keys To Pickup Lines
Abbas Abedi - 5 Steps To Online Dating Success
Lance Mason - 6 Easy Steps To A Hot Date

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Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Dealing With A Cheater Boyfriend

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Cheating boyfriend is the worst experience a woman can have from a relationship. A woman can feel betrayed and left out. When we are angry, we tend to utter hurtful words or do shameful actions, right? Women, avoid this kind of reactions and learn how to deal with cheater boyfriend. Read on and do not put yourself in a humiliating situation. I have gathered these tips from women I met in Europe. May these help you in one way or the other.


Calm down, think and analyze the situation. Making sudden reactions and actions can gain you consequences in the end. Think of a better thing to do with a cheating boyfriend. Talk to a trusted girl friend. This will give you an outlet to release your hurts and confusion against a cheater boyfriend. Remember you are not alone and there are also women out there whose boyfriends became unfaithful. Do not put blame on yourself; sometimes it's the fault of both parties, sometimes not. Cry over a shoulder of a friend and release all your emotions so that you can control yourself when you talk to your cheater boyfriend. Your friend will surely give you pieces of advice based on what she sees on the state of your relationship. Be guided by your friend because most of the time women who caught their boyfriend cheating become impulsive with their decisions.


Let your cheater boyfriend know your fears and anxieties. Honestly tell him what you feel about his actions. Ask what his reasons and motives are. Ask him if it was your mistake or if you did lack on something. Encourage your cheating boyfriend to tell you the truth because it is your relationship which is at stake. From his reasons, determine if the relationship is worth saving. Asking yourself if you can forgive and forget what happened and if you can look at him the way you did before can be helpful in making your decisions. Ask him too if he wants to continue his relationship with you or with his other woman. Tell your cheating partner that he should have been honest in the first place. A cheater boyfriend need to know that telling the truth is better that being unfaithful and betraying his woman.


If you have decided to break up with your cheater boyfriend, make sure that both of you go separate ways without grudges against each other. If you have committed him wrong, apologize. Yes, even when you are the one cheated because this will give you a peaceful heart and mind. Before letting your cheating partner go, make sure you have forgiven him and settled issues with him. The break up should be mutual, meaning, both of you want it to be that way. If not, weigh things if you can still give your cheater boyfriend a second chance. Remember that it is only until second chance. If he goes cheating again, dump him. He is not worth of your time, energy and love. When you part ways, respect your relationship by not gossiping him or speaking ill against him. it is not also advisable to have revenge on a cheater boyfriend. Let them realize their mistakes and suffer the consequences of their actions. Don't worry, he'll soon realize it.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Mffff - Living As The Center Of Attention
Michael Hall - Dealing With The Downside Of Nlp

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Men Sweat Reveals Attraction

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Women know if a man wants them sexually if he's sweatin' them - literally. According to a new study by researchers at Rice University, a man's sweat changes according to the mood he's in and women can pick up on the sweat that indicates attraction. Hmm, I thought that sweat was odorless and that the bacteria on your skin is what gave it its scent.

Apparently, researchers introduced 2 types of male sweat to 19 women in their 20s. One type of sweat was labeled "normal", the other "sexual".

The sweat was gathered from men's armpits (wow, that job sounds fun), and was taken after some men watched educational videos or erotic videos.

When the women were exposed to the differing scents, they were able to decipher the scent of sex.

So now you all know that it's all in the sweat. If a man's hot around you, maybe he's actually hot for you

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Joseph Plazo - Magnetic Attraction
Carlos Xuma - The Art Of Attraction

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Seduction Community Improving Your Social Skills To Get More Women

Seduction Community Improving Your Social Skills To Get More Women Image

Social dud? Be a social stud--and attract women.




Dear Steve,

Without a doubt, the most common mistake I see guys make is wanting to learn seduction before having a grasp on their basic social skills. What I mean by this is that, too often, guys tend to want to learn about attraction and picking up girls and how to get them home before they improve their-what I consider to be fundamental-people skills. And that approach is totally backward. In order to gain confidence and skills with women, you first need to have good social skills.

For guys like you Steve, my advice is to (for now) forget entirely about picking up women. Forget about trying to get them home or attracting them or even approaching them at any time or place. Before you can even think about any of that, you have to work on your fundamental social skills.

Specifically, you have to be able to start conversation, make small talk, and talk to anyone-guys, girls, attractive people, unattractive people, etc. You need to spend the next six months overcoming shyness, getting rid of social anxiety, and building up your general confidence in various social situations. Start to get rid of any feelings of being self-conscious and not knowing what to say, and start to improve at things such as your general charisma, asking good questions, and talking to groups of people. Start by approaching people in grocery stores or shopping malls-just ask general questions or for advice. Practice getting any conversation going with different people in different places. Then increase this by approaching two people at the same time, then three, etc. By slowly practicing and increasing over six months, you will feel good through the process and, in the long run, you'll get results much faster with women.

And a huge part of being good with women is being socially confident. The two go hand-in-hand. Think about it like this: If you wanted to compete in a triathlon for the first time, you wouldn't just show up on the day of the triathlon without having trained for it. If you did, you'd probably struggle like crazy, may not finish, and may not even complete it.

When it comes to being good with women, your social skills are like the important fitness training you need to compete in a triathlon, like talking to people, being able to express yourself, and being able to influence people and persuade them. Essentially, you have to train yourself to be good with women, and this starts by exercising your social skills to build them up until you're ready for the triathlon.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Kurt Mortensen - Persuasion Iq The 10 Skills You Need To Get Exactly What You Want
Alphahot1 - Seduction Trends Going After Beatiful Women
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The Break Up Email

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Hey PJ

I want to apologize for my behavior last night. I was a bit out of it and I know I was less than a gentleman - to put it lightly perhaps. Anyway I feel pretty awful about it today.

I guess at the heart of the matter is the fact that I don't know what I want right now so taking it any further between you and I would not be fair to either of us.

I know I should have found a way to communicate that to you earlier but it all happened so fast that I never found the opportune time.

In any case, you are entitled to hate me if you wish, but I hope you can see past last night.

I really enjoyed the time we spent hanging out and hope we can remain friendly at least.

Have a restful Labor Dayhope you're feeling a little better than I am


I went on one date with this guy. He's actually an old friend of an old friend. I wasn't even sure if it was a date. We had dinner, shared a bottle of wine and some laughs. We have a lot in common because we've both lived in other cities and have recently moved back to Montreal. He's very good looking and educated. Girls really like him. I always found him cute but was never so into him. He's kind of loud. If it were a date, then I wondered if he would grow on me.

That same week we were at the same party and he was a huge Douche bag.

Then he sent me this breakup email the next day.

The End.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Oliver Turner - Daytime Pick Up Revealed
Michael Hall - The Sourcebook Of Magic
August Forel - The Sexual Question

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Monday, September 26, 2011

3 Steps To Approaching Women

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Everything starts with the approach. If you can't figure out the approach, no matter how good the rest of your game is, you are screwed. In this article I'm going to give you some practical and tested advice so you'll know how to approach women anywhere. A lot of advice is very specific to a particular location like a nightclub or the gym, but there are fundamentals that underlie any successful approach and these are what I am going to share with you.

Step 1 - Approach women with the right mindset

The first part of approaching is mindset. Try this little exercise in your mind. Imagine there is a beautiful girl that is your ideal type, you look at her and have a second or so of eye contact, you want to talk to her, but you don't, you stand there frozen and the moment passes. Think about how you would feel in that situation. Now imagine the same situation but this time you approach and she says "sorry I'm busy" and turns away. Think about how you'd feel here. Would you feel good that you actually had the balls to do it? Would you feel good that you at least found out whether it was on or not?

Now imagine you approach and everything goes perfectly and you end up getting laid or having a relationship with that girl (different strokes for different folks). How would you feel then. So now, imagine that you approach 100 girls and assign a likely probability of success. In how many would you get a number? 20%? 60%? Whatever it is, it's likely enough to make it worth doing. How much do you think you'd learn from 100 approaches? So now, when you are in that situation you know that the benefit of approaching far far outweighs not approaching and you will approach just to avoid that bad feeling of being a wussy that couldn't step up.

Step 2 - Be prepared

The second part is being prepared. Ideally you see this amazing girl and something pops into your head and it's the perfect thing to say for just that girl and that situation. That's the ideal. Most of the time though, your mind will be "blank" or racing between different options which you discard one by one as not good enough. So, pick one opening line that you are comfortable with, that you can use in most situations (not just at the gym when she is on the treadmill going exactly 5mph) and always have that line to fall back on. Here are some pickup openers you can look at, pick the one you like best, and remember, it doesn't have to be perfect, it just has to be good enough.

Step 3 - Your skeleton system

The third part is having the skeleton of a system in place so that you know roughly what to do. Think about the possible responses to your opening line. Think about how you might introduce yourself - "I'm Richard by the way", how you might get the number "I go to some great parties with my friends, you should come sometime and check one out. Okay cool, put your number in my phone and I'll text you next time we go out", and also, if it makes you feel better, a way to escape if you need it - "it's been great speaking to you, but I need to meet some friends, what's the best way of keeping in touch with you".

So there you have it, 3 things you can do right away (hint - do it now!). I hope that gives you a better idea of how to approach women anywhere. Next we can focus more deeply on conversation skills, dates, and more advanced stuff.

Let me know your thoughts on this one, the above works for me and many other guys but you may have found your own route to successful approaching women.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Real Man - 5 Common Mistakes Men Make While Approaching Woman
Wayne Ross - The Complete Guide To Attracting Women
Wayne Ross - Secrets To Attracting Beautiful Women

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Sunday, September 25, 2011

Why We Have To Be Single According To Psychology

Why We Have To Be Single According To Psychology
Communicate ARE THE 10 Furthest Squeeze On all sides Being Unfrequented

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A6. Different SEX Acquaintances. You can use friends of the opposite sex without having to explain yourself or justification it to everybody or unsettling about making your boyfriend or girlfriend jealous.

A7. Self-centered WEEKENDS. Weekends are beneficial. Amid date nights, member them at their volleyball tournament/watching their band play/helping them babysit their kid sister your weekend can be moved out in the instant of an eye. For example you're single you get to freely hold your accomplished weekend perform whatever you want.

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A10. NO Bulldoze TO Appearance Frank. You can go a week without tatter your legs or let your goatee grow out without everybody getting close amply to moan about it. Sometimes being laid-back just feels good!

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Leadership Training Fiji

Leadership Training Fiji


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Spaghetti With Meatballs

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A doctor was having an affair with his nurse. Shortly afterward, she told him she was pregnant.

Not wanting his wife to know, he gave the nurse a sum of money and asked her to go to Italy, and have the baby there.

"But how will I let you know the baby is born?" she asked.

He replied, "Just send me a postcard and write 'spaghetti' on the back. I'll take care of expenses."

Not knowing what else to do, the nurse took the money and flew to Italy.

Six months went by and then one day, the doctor's wife called him at the office and said, "Dear, you received a very strange postcard in the mail today from Europe, and I don't understand what it means."

The doctor said, "Just wait until I get home and I will explain it to you."

Later that evening the doctor arrived at home, read the postcard, and had a heart attack.

Paramedics rushed him to the ER. The lead medic stayed behind to comfort the wife and asked what trauma had prompted the cardiac arrest.

So the wife picked up the card and read, "Spaghetti, Spaghetti, Spaghetti, Spaghetti - two with sausage and meatballs, two without."

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

George Anderson - Dynamite Mentalism
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Dating A Friends Ex Is It A No No

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Open-minded individuals will tell you, it's OK. When they're in the actual situation though, having their friend date their girlfriend still feels disturbing especially when they need to provide singles dating advice. Well, there is no denying that this situation is uncomfortable. If you want to date a friend's ex, the first thing you need to accent is that you're on shaky ground. Some people can eventually tolerate it but in certain cases, one relationship or another needs to be broken.

Let's take the example of Laura. She is obviously a female but her situation is almost exactly the same as what some guys need to deal with. Laura and Elise had been friends since college. When Elise broke up with her boyfriend amicably, Laura was there to comfort her and provide singles dating advice. But Laura has also become close friends with Dan, the ex-boyfriend. She knows the two sides of the coin. A relationship between them developed after they've been friends for a year.

When Laura talked to Elise about it, her friend requested her not to go through with it. However, knowing that Dan was serious and recognizing the seriousness of her own feelings, she still decided to go through with it. This inevitably drew a wedge in their friendship. For Laura, the request was unfair since Elise even already has a new boyfriend. Elise, for her part, believed that the new romance is a betrayal. Whatever the case, Laura decided that Dan was worth it.

Laura and Elise might no longer be friends now. In the process though, Laura gained a lifelong love because she was courageous enough to let go of an old friendship.

The situation is obviously different for everyone. Some people are better off cherishing their friendship because the budding romance might turn out to be a dud. Singles dating advice might help but it is a risk that only the person involved can decide for himself.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

David Deangelo - Double Your Dating Attraction Is Not A Choice
Joseph Matthews - The Boyfriend Is Not An Obstacle
Scott Peck - Dating And Falling In Love

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Saturday, September 24, 2011

Who Wears The Pants

Who Wears The Pants Cover
The newly-weds are in their honeymoon suite and the groom decides to let the bride know where she stands right from the start of the marriage. He proceeds to take off his trousers and throw them at her. He says, "Put those on."

The bride replies, "I can't wear your trousers."

"And don't forget that" he replies, "I will always wear the trousers in this family!"

The bride takes off her knickers and throws them at him with the same request, "Try those on!"

He replies, "I can't get into your knickers!"

"And you never will if you don't change your attitude."

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Michael Pilinski - Without Embarrassment
Stylelife Academy - How To Work The Personals

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What Men Really Want In A Relationship Advice From Men

What Men Really Want In A Relationship Advice From Men Image
Long story-short, I was reading an article about what Men Really Want in a relationship. But the problem was it was written by a woman and didn't really resonate with me. A few nights later some guy friends and I started talking about it and came to the general consensus that she was right some of the time and also wrong.

It seemed like a good time for a little research so I took mental notes of what was said. So here now is a modified version of that topic, but with the input of 5 men (2 married, 1 with a girlfriend, and 2 singles) basically think they want in a relationship.


* LOW MAINTENANCE - This was an across the board pick. Not to say we do not want girls to not look good, but we don't want them to spend forever getting ready. We are more than willing to help do things, but we do not want to be expected to do everything for you. Partner does not equal slave or care-giver (or eternal purse holder).
* GENTLE AND KIND - If we wanted rough and manly then we would just hang out with each other. All of us agreed that sensitive, gentle, and caring means someone who will love us the way we want to be loved.
* ATTRACTIVE - This is a broad range answer but the bottom line is we want someone who takes pride in how they look and is confident about themselves. Other than that it varies as to what we all find attractive as we have different types.
* A CHALLENGE - We want someone who pushes us a little to do more in life. This isn't someone who nags or complains but a partner who wants to try new stuff and keep us from forming ruts.
* ADVENTUROUS IN BED - A woman who knows what she wants in the bedroom and sometimes wants to try new things for more excitement is flat out awesome. Most of us are rather tame and shy but want a more outgoing girl in that area.
* FUNNY - You don't have to be a standup comic, but we all agreed a woman who laughs and likes silly humor is just more fun.
* SUPPORTIVE - 3 of us said we want a woman who has our back and will support us when we need her. 2 of us said they don't want a woman who just criticizes us.


* ANGRY WOMEN - People who are tense, shout, and get frustrated really easily are a no-go no matter how pretty they are.
* UNTRUSTWORTHY - Someone who could stab us in the back or break our heart is out of the running.
* BEING ALONE - Bottom line we like to have someone with us and usually will put up with a lot if we think that person is worth it.

Really it is not a big list. I am sure guys in different phases will have different wants. But these are the things me and my friends all agreed on for likes and dislikes when looking for a woman for the long term.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

C Kellogg - Healthy Dating And Relationship Tips
John Shore - Seven Reasons Women Stay In Abusive Relationships

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Friday, September 23, 2011

Nancy Are In Love With The Same Guy

Nancy Are In Love With The Same Guy Image
While reading Girls' Romances #101 (June 1964) today, I came across a part in the last story, "Come Back My Heart!" that had me scratching my head. The story, illustrated by Jay Scott Pike starts out not unlike other romance stories. Laura and Nancy are in love with the same guy, David. Laura is the lucky one who snatches him up, but when she moves to New York to pursue her acting dream, Nancy "befriends" David.

Cover pencils by Jay Scott Pike

Inked by someone with a love for dark, thick lines!

It starts out innocently enough -- trips to the library and the art museum, but quickly turns into smooching sessions in David's convertible. Thing is, David and Laura are still together! Nancy feels in her heart that David is spending time with her to fill the void from Laura's absence. Pretty scandalous, but wait! It gets even more so!

Did you read what I just read?! MAKING LOVE? I wondered at first if I was reading that right, but yup! That's what it says! It seems a little risqu'e for 1964, but I am assuming that here it takes on a different meaning from what we understand the phrase to mean today.

According to this Dictionary of Sexual Terms and Expressions, "making love" prior to the 1950s was just another term for courting and flirting. Mid-century it started to take on a connotation of actual intercourse. Hmmm... so according to this interpretation, the romance comics were either behind on their lingo or on the forefront of sexual expression. I tend to think its the former, as this story was only published a decade after the implementation of the Code.

I have never come across the phrase in any other romance story I have read, but then again, I stick to the later romance. I think I will have to go on a hunt for some earlier romance issues to see if it creeps up anywhere else! I am going to look further into this and do some more research. Hopefully in the not-so-distant future I will have an update for you!

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Michael Hall - Dealing With The Downside Of Nlp
Joy Of Life - San Francisco Live Music Free Guide
Leil Lowndes - How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You

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Dating Escapades That Will Surely Melt The Heart Of Any Woman

Dating Escapades That Will Surely Melt The Heart Of Any Woman Image
Dating need not be boring and nerve-racking. As men, you need to create a dating atmosphere that will get your woman cozying up on you at the end of the night. If you are a man who want to keep your girl asking for more dates from your then this article will give you some helpful ideas so you can create an awesome dating experience that will get your woman craving for more of you.

1. Take your woman out on a wonderful date in the midst of nature. Research and Google map your area so you can find local spots close to rivers, mountains, waterfalls, forests or museums where you can share beautiful and awe inspiring scenery. This will guarantee you an open and friendly atmosphere for your date and will lead to a more intimate relationship in the future.

2. Take your date travelling to a beautiful spot in your country or in other places. Try booking a flight in Hawaii and dig your toes into its ethereal white sand. You can go surfing in Surigao, Philippines one of the worlds surfing sites wherein both of you can ride the awesome waves and share the ultimate experience with each other.

3. You can search for local festivals in your area or in other countries if you can afford to spend that much on your date. Local festivities are held every month in different regions of your country so find one that you can both visit. Share in the fun of the festivals, dance with the mascots, eat the local food and visit souvenir booths while enjoying each other at the same time.

4. For a romantic dating idea, set up a place for you to enjoy the stars amidst the great night sky. Get futons or thick covers so both of you can lie down and count the stars falling from the heavens. Bring romantic or relaxing music to create the mood so both of you could enjoy the stars and the night together. Bring in food and some wine for added romantic effect. Your woman will truly love this.

5. Go active dating by engaging in adventures, sports, or other fun activities. Nothing can induce good feeling better than the endorphins released during exercise. Take advantage of that happiness by dating on the boat while fishing, or you may both engage in gardening, ice skating, bungee jumping, kayaking, horseback riding, going to football or basketball games and go-carting. Search for other activities both of you might enjoy so you can increase developing a good foundation for your relationship.

Women love it when men ensure that they will have a fun time during their dates. Women are kind people who accept you if you show genuine care and love for them. So when you take her out dating, make sure you prepare for it and make it as fun as possible. When dating, you should always make your woman comfortable, design an excting date for her as well as make her happy all throughout the date.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

David Lieberman - Instant Facts How To Get The Truth Out Of Anyone
Simon Heong - How To Instantly Attract Any Woman
David Deangelo - Double Your Dating The 8 Personality Types That Naturally Attract Women

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