According to experts family environment plays significant role in transferring ethical values in growing children. For the current study researchers from the University of the Basque Country (UPV/EHU) in Northern Spain, analyzed one hundred and forty parents and children in age groups forty to sixty and seventeen to twenty-five respectively.
They examined two key conditions to be forgiven. One is to show remorse and second is for the person being offended. The finding calculated using different scales for ability to forgive (CAPER) and forgiveness and facilitating factors (ESPER), found that promote forgiveness vary with age and sex of the people.
The study revealed that women are less rancorous than men, and parents forgive their kids much more easily than they do. The authors of the study found that parents have augmented capability to forgive their children in all matters because they have forgiven most over the course of their lives.
Captivatingly both parents and children used terms like not bearing a grudge, reconciliation and understanding-empathy to describe pardon. However, there were differences in the discernment of forgiveness among men and women. Men sited bigger significance to not bearing grudges yet felt that the aggrieved party should allow going of the grievances first.
This study has immense relevance for teaching values, as it shows what reasons people have for forgiving men and women, and the popular conception of forgiveness, explained Maite Garaigordobil, a senior professor at the Psychology Faculty of the UPV and co-author of the study.
This outcome is particularly appealing in conditions where families are in crisis and no basic education can be anticipated of them in terms of values. This edification is largely transferred to the school, stated the researchers. The study opens new questions for experts who believe that it is essential to study the role that forgiveness plays in psychological treatment.
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