GIVE TIME TO PAMPER YOURSELF
After divorce, give yourself a lot of treats. Go to the salon and have a new haircut, go out with friends, have new clothes and learn something new. Divorced women need to reconnect to their inner self because they might lose parts of it during the process of divorce. Forgive yourself and move on. Count not the hurtful moments but the lessons you have learned from the failed relationship.
After divorce, avoid landing to a relationship for the sake of just having one. Take time for things to be normal for you again.Divorced women sometimes consider giving a father to their kids by engaging into a relationship right away. This shouldn't be the case, remember you were divorced? You need to take things one at a time and learn about your mistakes.
EXPLORE THINGS YOU HAVENT EXPERIENCED YET
Recall the things you have always wanted to do but never got the chance to. Take a day or two off and accomplish them. After divorce, you can travel, start a new hobby, and focus on your talents or career. These things will take your focus off from your old relationship and from having divorced. Meet new people, build new friendships and let yourself heal.
Empower yourself. Some divorced women, think of themselves as victim. That may hold to be true but you should no longer entertain that kind of thought. Forgive and forget your ex-husband. Take it as a part of your past and what matters now is your future. Love yourself and love your children more after divorce.
EXPAND YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE
Being divorced you need to have friends accompany you and help you heal. This will help you find potential dates and to move one. It is advisable to gain new friends not because your existing friends can't help but they may take sides after divorce. When you meet new people, they will accept you for who you became and will extend hands to guide you.
All of our experiences, there are reasons behind. Focus on these reasons and be positive about it. After divorce, perhaps, you can give love more because you don't feel tied up. Just be careful not commit the same mistake twice especially if it concerns already your children. Your children may wonder about what happened, when they ask, do not tell things that are negative about their father. Believe me you won't like it if they hold resentments in their hearts. Try to be objective when it comes to them.
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