Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Lyrics To The Album Am I Not Your Girl

Lyrics To The Album Am I Not Your Girl Image

These lyrics also include the 3 bonus-tracks
which only appear on the Japanese-cd-version

Why Don't You Do Right?
(J McCoy / Morris Chappell)

You had plenty money
Nineteen fourty one
You lost it all
And then, where do you run?
Why don't you do right?
Like some other men do?
Get out of here and
get me some money too

Yo'sittin' down wondering
what it's all about
If you ain't got no money
they will put you out
Why don't you do right?
Like some other men do?
Just get out of here and
get me some money too

If you had prepared
twenty years ago
You wouldn't have wand'ring
now from do'to do'
Why don't you do right?
Like some other men do?
Get out of here and
get me some money too

Why don't you do right?
Like some other men do?
Like some other men do?
Like some other men do?

bewitched, bothered and bewildered
(L. Heart / R Rogers)

After one whole quart of brandy
Like a daisy I'll awake
With no Bromo Seltzer handy
I don't even shake
Men are not a new sensation
I've done pretty well I think
But this half-pint imitation
Put me on the blink

I'm wild again
beguiled again
a simpering whimpering child again
bewitched bothered and bewildered
Am I
couldn't sleep, and wouldn't sleep
when love came and told me
I shouldn't sleep
Bewiched bothered and bewildered
Am I

lost my heart, but what of it?
he is cold, I agree
he can laugh, but I love it
Because the laugh's on me
I'll sing to him, each spring to him
And long for the day
when I'll cling to him,
Bewitched bothered and bewildered
Am I.

He's a fool and don't I know it
But a fool can have his charms
I'm in love and don't I show it
like a babe in arms
I've sinned a lot
I'm mean a lot
But I'm like sweet seventeen a lot
bewitched bothered and bewildered
Am I
I'll sing to him
Each spring to him
And worship the trousers
that cling to him
Bewitched bothered and bewildered
Am I

When he talks
He is seeking
words to get
On his chest
Horizontally speaking
he's at his very best
vexed again
oh yes, perplexed again
thank God, I can be oversexed again
bewitched bothered and bewildered
Am I

Secret Love - Sinad O'Connor
(P. F. Webster / S. Fain)

Once I had a secret love
That lived within
the heart of me
All too soon
my secret love
Became impatient
to be free
So I told a friendly star
The way that dreamers
often do
Just how wonderful
you are
And why I'm so
in love with you

Now I shout it
from the highest hill
Even told
the golden daffodils
At last my heart's
an open door
And my secret love's
no secret anymore

Now I shout it
from the highest hill
I Even told
the golden daffodils
And lost my heart's
an open door
And my secret love's
no secret
My secret love's
no secret
My secret love's
no secret anymore

Black Coffee
(P.F. Webster / S. Burke)

I'm feelin'mighty lonesome,
haven't slept a wink
I walk the floor and watch
the door and in between
I drink black coffee
Love's hand me down brew
I'll never know a Sunday
In this weekday room
I'm talkin' to the shadows
One o'clock till four
And Lord, how slow
the moments go
When all I do is pour
black coffee
Since the blues caught my eye
I'm hangin'out on Monday
my Sunday dreams to dry
Now a man is born to go a lovin'
A woman's born to weep and fret
To stay at home and
tend her over
And drown het past regrets
in coffee and cigarettes!
I'm moanin' all the mornin'
And mournin' all the night
And in between it's nicotine
And not much heart to fight
black coffee
Feelin'low as the ground
It's drivin' me crazy
This waiting for my baby
To maybe come around

Success Has Made A Failure Of Our Home
(J. Mullins)

We used to go out
walking hand in hand
You told me all the big
things you had planned
It wasn't long
till all your dreams came true
Success put me in second
place with you

You have no time
to love me anymore
Since fame and fortune
knocked up on our door
And i spend all
my evenings all alone
Success has made a failure of our home

If we could share
an evening now and then
I'm sure we'd find true
happiness again
You never hold me
like you used to do
Oh, it's funny what success
has done to you

You have no time to
love me anymore
Since fame and fortune
knocked up on our door
And i spend all my
evenings all alone
Success has made a failure of our home
Success has made a failure of our home

I never changed
I'm still the same
I never changed
Stop what you're saying
You're killing me
And am i not your girl?
Am i not your girl?
Am i not?

Don't Cry For Me Argentina - Sinad O'Connor
(Andrew Lloyd Webber / T. Rice) - from the Musical "Evita"

It won't be easy
you'll think it strange
When I try to explain how I feel
That I still need your love
After all that I've done
You won't believe me
All you will see is a girl
you once knew
Although she's dressed up
to the nines
At sixes and sevens with you

I had to let it happen
I had to change
Couldn't stay all my life
Down at heel
Looking out of the window
Staying out of the sun
So I chose freedom
Running around trying
everything new
But nothing impressed me at all
I never expected it too

Don't cry for me Argentina
The truth is I never left you
All through my wild days
My mad existence
I kept my promise
Don't keep your distance

And as for fortune
And as for fame
I never invited them in
Though it seemed to the world
They were all I desired
They are illusions
They are not the solutions
they promised to be
The answer was here all the time
I love you and hope you love me

Have I said too much?
There's nothing more
I can think of to say to you
But all you have to do is
look at me
To know that every word is true

I kept my promise
Don't keep your distance

I want to be loved by you
(H. Stothart / H. Ruby / B. Kalmar)

I wanna be loved by you,
just you and nobody else but you
I wanna be loved by you
alone poo poo pi doo
I wanna be kissed by you
just you, nobody else but you
I wanna be loved by you

I couldn't aspire
To anything higher
Then to fill a desire
to make you my own

I wanna be loved by you,
just you and nobody else but you
I wanna be loved by you

I couldn't aspire
To anything higher
Then to fill a desire
to make you my own
tada tada ta tada

I wanna be loved by you
just you, nobody else but you
I wanna be loved by you
I wanna be loved by you
I wanna be loved by you

Gloomy Sunday
(L. Javor / R. Seress / Lewis)

Sunday is gloomy,
My hours are slumberless,
Dearest the shadows
I live with are numberless
Little white flowers will
never awaken you
Not where the black coach
of sorrow has taken you
Angels have no thought of
ever returning you
Would they be angry
if I thought of joining you
Gloomy Sunday.

Sunday is gloomy
with shadows I spend it all
My heart and I have
decided to end it all
Soon there'll be flowers
and prayers that are sad,
I know, let them not weep,
let then know
that I'm glad to go

Death is no dream,
for in death I'm caressing you
With the last breath of my
soul I'll be blessing you

Gloomy Sunday
I was only dreaming
I wake and I find you
asleep in the deep of
my heart dear

Darling I hope that my dream
never haunted you
My heart is telling you
how much I wanted you
Gloomy Sunday.

Love Letters
(E. Heyman / V. Young)

Love letters straight
from you heart
Keep us so near
while apart

I'm not alone in the night
When I can have all the love
that you write
I memorize every line
And I kiss the name
that you sign
And darling then
I read again
right from the start
Love letters straight
from your heart

I memorize every line
And I kiss the name
that you sign
And darling then
i read again
right from the start
Love letters straight
from your heart

How Insensitive
(V. de Moraes / A.C. Jobim / Gimbel)

How insensitive
I must have seemed
when he told me
that he loved me.
How unmoved and cold
I must have seemed
when he said it
so sincerely.

Why, he must have asked
did I just turn and
stare in icy silence?
What was I to do?
What can you do?
when a love affair is over?

Now he's gone away
and I'm alone with
the memory of
his last look.
Vague and drawn
and sad, I see it still
All the heartbreak
of his last look.

Why, he must have asked
would I just turn
and stare in icy silence?
What was I to say?
What can you say?
when a love affair is over?

Why, he must have asked
did I just turn
and stare in icy silence?
What was I to say?
What can you say?
when a love affair is over?

My Heart Belongs To Daddy
(Cole Porter)

While tearing off
a game of golf
I may make a play for the caddy
But if I do
I don't follow through
Cause my heart
belongs to Daddy

If I invite a boy some night
To dine on my fine
finnan haddie
I just adore his
asking for more
But my heart belongs to Daddy

Yes my heart belongs to Daddy
So I simply couldn't be bad
Yes my heart belongs to Daddy
Lalala, lalala, lalala

So I want to warn you, laddie
Tho' I know you perfectly swell
That my heart belongs to Daddy
Cause my daddy, he treats me so well

While tearing off
a game of golf
I may make a play for the caddy
But if I do
I don't follow through
Cause my heart belongs to Daddy

And if I invite a boy some night
To dine on my fine
finnan heddie
I just adore
his asking for more
But my heart belongs to Daddy

Yes my heart belongs to Daddy
So I simply couldn't be bad
Yes my heart belongs to Daddy
Lalala, aauuhhhoo

So I want to warn you, laddie
Tho' I know you perfectly swell
That my heart belongs to Daddy
And my Daddy, he treats me so well
He treats me so well

Almost in your arms
(Livingston / Evans)

You're near, that moment's here
I'm almost in your arms
Tonight, the mood is right
I'm almost in your arms

One sigh, one word and I
Will rush to your embrase
Say that certain word,
sigh that certain sigh
And with all my heart,
to your arms I'll fly

It's strange,
how we are changed
by the things that seem so small
One look can write a book
One touch can say it all

We know those nights of love
And now we found our way
I'm almost in your arms
to stay

You're near, that moment's here
I'm almost in your arms
Tonight, the mood is right
I'm almost in your arms

One sigh, one word and I
Will rush to your embrase
Say that certain word,
sigh that certain sigh
And with all my heart,
to your arms I'll fly

It's strange,
how we are changed
by the things that seem so small
One look can write a book
One touch can say it all

We know those nights of love
And now we found our way
I'm almost in your arms
almost in your arms
almost in your arms
to stay

Fly me to the moon

Fly me to the moon
And let me play
among the stars
Let me see what
spring is like
on Jupiter and Mars
In other words,
hold my hands
In other words,
darling kiss me

Fill my heart with song
And let me sing for ever more
You are all I long for
All I worship and adore
In other words please be true
In other words

Fill my heart with song
And let me sing for ever more
You are all I long for
All I worship and adore
In other words please be true
In other words, I love you
I love you
I love you
I love you
I love you
I love you
I love you
love you

Scarlett ribbons
(J. Segal / E. Danzig)

I peeked in to say goodnight
And I heard my child in prayer
"And for me some scarlet ribbons
Scarlet ribbons for my hair"

All the stores were closed and shuttered
All the streets were dark and bare
In our town, no scarlet ribbons
Scarlet ribbons for her hair

Thru the night my heart was aching
Just before the dawn was breaking
I peeped in and on her pillow
On her pillow lying there
Lovely ribbons, scarlet ribbons
Scarlet ribbons for her hair

If I live to be a hundred
I will never know from where
Came those ribbons, scarlet ribbons
Scarlet ribbons for her hair


I am not a liar, and I'm not full of hatred
But I hate lies and so the liars hate me
The same who can't stand the sight of a starving baby?
can you really say you're not in pain like me?
Are any of us not living painfully?
Pain is what their lies have kept us in
But the war has started now, and truth will win
Many of us are gonna lose our lives and that's okay
because to live we have to die
The enemies of God will say it's chaos
just remember what Jesus did in the temple
and be patient
exactly why do you think he was assassinated?
who was it that did the dirty deed?
Who didn't like the answers they'd received?
Look at the one wearing the collar!
Then or now, there's only ever been one liar
and it's the Holy Roman Empire
and this is exactly what they did
they told us lies to take us away from God
so yeah, I am angry
but I'm not full of hate
I am full of love
God said "I bring not peace, I bring a sword"

"transcribed by Roman Szendrey and Marcel Bobbink
thanks for the help Sam Warren and Stefan Lundell
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Steve Scott - More Than Friends How To Turn Your Female Friend Into Your Girlfriend
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Tuesday, October 28, 2008

5 Silly Mistakes Women Make When Online Dating

5 Silly Mistakes Women Make When Online Dating
You wouldn't consider some of the petty mistakes I see my consumers make for instance online dating. Or, almost certainly you would. Perhaps you're making some of these exceptionally errors yourself. Furthermost single women are horrible that they'll never find true love and that they'll spiral up on your own. My biggest fear was that I would find in my opinion single with chin hairs and a houseful of cats at 80. The piece of writing I don't get is that, nonetheless their fear of twisting up on your own, for instance I sit down at the computer to review online profiles with greatest extent consumers I see them reject one good man as soon as another for what consider are petty reasons. "Base are some of the key mistakes I see my female consumers are making."

1. ELIMINATING MEN ON Ludicrous Height REQUIREMENTS: I understand that we all bring into being our preferences, but if you are a 5'4 tall woman who likes to date balloon tall men: good providence. No matter how physically attractive you are, you are ear-piercing yourself in the base for instance you are conflicting for the exceptionally men that every considerably woman is going for. Near are tons of great shorter men who get ignored for instance so abundant women are over-enthusiastic on level. My husband was 2 1/2 inches taller than me. By means of age that difference is budding smaller. Who cares? I'm married to a great man who adores me. I will habitually look up to him. In my eyes he is every inch a man. When time you are penetrating produce profiles, set the token ultimatum at your level plus 2 inches. You can search as high as you want, just lead lower. You need to get over the level piece of writing or you potency spiral up on your own.

2. BASING TOO Much ON THE PHOTOS: Tattoo this on your brain: "You cannot put too drastically main part on the photos". A few will look better in person than they do in their photos and some will look minor. You need to keep an open mind. Moreover, while you don't want to go into a relationship thinking you will change self, abundant bring into being never had the whack of a good woman to help them produce a heart of style and they would accost some key in. You bring into being to feel them out. I had a girlfriend who did a makeover on her boyfriend (who she far ahead married). Afterward they met I planning he was a bit of a slob, but by the time she was due to with him, she had altered him into a good looking man.

3. On its last legs TO BE Gracious By means of MEN Afterward THEY Gain OUT: Very consistently a man will impel an email that says, "Hey!" or "What's up?" Or, they potency shade "Hi. I read your profile and think we potency bring into being a lot in mutual. Email me if you like my profile." Plentiful of my consumers won't rejoin to these emails for instance they are so generic unless they find a guy absolutely cute. Then all bets are off. It's sad, but, the supervisor attractive self is, the supervisor we let them get in a daze with. While these emails aren't very green, you need to look at it from a man's point-of-view. It's redoubtable to be the one to break the ice with a beautiful woman. And who isn't upset of rejection? It doesn't throbbing to be a tiny supervisor benign with these men and cut them some unprofessional. When time a man writes a simple "Hi!" in an email to you, try being supervisor animated and luxuriant in return. He took a destiny and got the bead booming. You can elapse it back. You potency shade no matter which like, "Hey, you gotta do better than that to get my attention!" Or, you may possibly say, "Recall for reaching out..." and as well as suggestion a couple of things from his profile that you bring into being in mutual. One of my consumers a minute ago wrote, "Description," in answer to a generic email she'd usual. It worked.

4. NOT RESPONDING TO A MAN'S EMAIL IF HE FAILS TO ASK A Question IN HIS EMAIL: I had three consumers come in one day who had all closed emailing with men who had responded to their emails without asking them a question about themselves. It was a corrupt for instance the men had in fact occupied the time to shade very humanitarian responses to each of these women. Afterward I planning about why they'd detail these guys the ax, I realized that the women greet the guys to ask questions so they would expose what to shade back. The piece of writing is that men consistently don't ask questions. It's not how men communicate with each considerably. Women think that asking questions is the way to get to expose self. Men as normal don't ask questions with each considerably for instance they don't want to pry. So, the in that case time a man doesn't ask a question in his email to you, you can a minute ago shade back and say "Ask me some questions and I'll tell you no misrepresentation J" or you can play off no matter which they alleged in their email and layer it to yourself. "You mentioned you went ice climbing this weekend; I carry dogs ice climbing every Saturday. Harass to join us?"

5. NOT INITIATING Comparable TO THE MEN YOU Recognize ATTRACTIVE: Uncertain of online dating as a virtual singles party. At a party, you would never expose who was read-through whom out first. You potency notice some cute guy imaginatively the room and, the not sufficiently he looks at you, you look in a daze. You'll expose who was read-through out whom first. In 2014, it is persuasively personable in the online dating world for a woman to let a man expose that she noticed him. "And it's a gremlin not to." I was at a party a few get-up-and-go ago anywhere I met two newborn couples who had both met online-and "both" of the husbands bragged that their wives were the ones that made the first contact! These were all people in their 40s. So, get over very old idea it's not agreement to let a man expose you're probing, and lead emailing some guys that you're attracted to. If you go for what you absolutely want, you will bring into being a drastically better outlook of getting it!

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Impress Your Girlfriend Family

Impress Your Girlfriend Family Image
You found her. You found the woman that you want to spend the rest of your life with. Problem is you haven't met her family yet and, if life has taught you anything, it's that the success of your relationship is riding, at least in part, on whether or not they like you.

And unless they're mildly psychotic, impressing them and getting them to like you is not all that hard. But it does require some work on your part. If you're willing to do what it takes to win them over, there's a good chance that your girl will fall even harder for you.


Above and beyond all else, you have to treat your girlfriend like gold at all times. If you start making fun of her or airing her dirty laundry at the dinner table, you may think you're being funny, and they may even laugh with you, but when all is said and done, they won't consider you loyal. And loyalty among family is very important.

Even if her brother makes fun of her, it's up to you to big her up and show the family that you love your girl and are ecstatic to be with her. Anything less than that might get you evil looks from her doting dad.


Even if you disagree with her views on something, you need to show her family that you're a team with your united front. If her family begins to egg her on or confront you with questions that make you uncomfortable or might lead to conflict, do your best to get your girlfriend to do the answering.

As well, don't argue in front of her family. There's nothing more uncomfortable than sitting around watching as their daughter and her boyfriend go at it like schoolchildren.


To make a good impression, it would be great if you and your girlfriend invite her family over for dinner before they have to hint at it. This way, they can come over on your terms and you'll be ready to meet them.

Prepare a simple dinner, making sure to take note of allergies and preferences, and welcome them in with open arms. If they bring over any food, dessert or wine, serve it.


There will come a time when her family will ask you the hard-hitting questions that may put you in the hot seat. The way you react will tell them a lot about you.

Your best bet would be to answer as honestly as you can and ask for their advice about little things. That way, they feel like they're contributing to her life and will like you more for believing that they have her best interests at heart.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Susan Dunn - The Top 10 Clues Youre Dating A Married Man
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Monday, October 27, 2008

Men Are Paying Women To Talk

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I remember reading a Woody Allen story once where he would pay a hooker, but it wasn't to have sex with her; actually what he wanted was at the other end of the spectrum. The john wanted to be intellectually stimulated by a healthy debate on literary authors.

Well, art is imitating life, once again, as men are paying women to lend an ear or act like they care about them. In fact, this conversation with attractive women runs around $60 hour. Had I known, I never would've kept those conversations in bars going just because he bought me a drink for $6.75.

But like Charlie Sheen said when the world discovered that he enjoyed the company of hookers and the like, "I don't pay a woman for sex; I pay her to leave." And that is the beauty of this exchange of time for money.

Men get to have a beautiful woman draping their arm and listening to their boring stories about the accounting department. And women get to walk away with a boatload of cash and no soreness.

Of course, these guys could pay a therapist for the same kinds of services, but then there is no guarantee that she'll be attractive, and I doubt that any therapist would meet up with a man in a bar.

So let this be a lesson to you... sex comes easy; it's finding a woman who will listen to your tedious stories that is so hard to find. And ladies, it's not just about spreading 'em anymore; oh no. Now you need to start listening. How is that for a turning of the tables?

What is the freakin' world coming to?

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Rion Williams - Mens Guide To Women
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Thursday, October 23, 2008

Sometimes The Best Costs More

Sometimes The Best Costs More
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Afc Adam Lyons Interview

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DONOVAN: What made you decide to become a dating coach?

AFC ADAM: Honestly I didn't plan it. I always just wanted to learn how to improve myself. I met a guy in the UK who was willing to teach me in return for me helping him drum up some PR for his business. Once the articles started coming in he wasn't too keen on the publicity. So he asked me if I wouldn't mind being the face of the company. I agreed and began doing demos for the papers and TV shows. Sure enough I ended up closing on camera time and time again. The more I did it the more people wanted to learn from me. I really didn't want to be a teacher at the time so I tried to deter students from working with me. I added the AFC at the start of my name in the hope that they would all shy away from learning form me, hoping they would think I was a beginner. This worked for as time, perhaps 4- 6 months. But once I was on the Rules of Seduction in the UK Things really just went crazy.

DONOVAN: When did people first start to know you outside of the UK?

AFC ADAM: It was the PUA Summit in 2007. I really wasn't going to go, I was a last minute speaker and was convinced to go along by my friends Tung and Crazy Serb from Canada. Both of them are great guys who just kept pushing me to go, so in the end I went along. I wasn't really expecting anything to come from it, but once I was there I realised that a lot of the people there weren't actually getting as many results as the guys in the UK Lairs, so my talk went down really well. Then out of nowhere Thundercat put me on his top 10 list and things escalated from there.

DONOVAN: The next question, can you tell us your favorite success story from one of your clients?

AFC Adam: Actually it was only a few weeks ago. We were running a special 1 week long bootcamp. Called Project Spring break, yes original I know. hahah. Actually It's something me and Amanda have wanted to do for a long time. To give people not only a chance to get good at game but to also experience spring break in all it's craziness. So many people who join the community don't get a decent spring break in their college years so this was a chance for them to re -experience it in a BIG WAY. This one student that come along was completely inexperienced, had never approached before in his life and had massive AA. He manged to pull off two lays during the course and on both occasions convinced the girl to let him back to her room to close. Even now thinking about it makes me smile. The guy just pulled out all the stops and smashed it from zero to hero in 1 week!

DONOVAN: That's awesome. What do you think is the main reason people take so long to get good?

AFC ADAM: Honestly I believe it's because they spend too much time on forums, reading and downloading content. Whereas if they actually got out there in field and actually SPOKE to girls they would find their results sky rocket. I calculated the other day I must have done 3000 sets in my first 3 months of training at the game before I was getting consistent results. Most people do this many sets over 3 years which explains why it takes so long to improve.

DONOVAN: Yeah. I think a lot of guys do find many excuses to avoid going out there in person and actually approach, what do you think is the best advice to someone who suffers from the fear of the approach to actually get them out there doing sets?

AFC ADAM: Honestly I could sit here and provide a list of hypnosis and confidence cd's but in reality the only way you're going to get over the fear of approaching is to get out there and do it. There is an old psychological technique to help get over fear known as systematic desensitization. In summary this works by slowly exposing yourself to the situation in question. With regards to seduction this is easily done by starting out talking to girls you aren't attracted to and purposely only staying in set for 10 seconds or so. Once you can do this without any anxiety it's time to push further, either in terms of quality or length of time. Slowly but surely if you keep pushing you will find yourself getting to the point where you can talk to any girls no matter how beautiful they are.

DONOVAN: That's some solid advice. In your experience, what's the best place and/or location to try and pick up a girl?

AFC ADAM: Hmm Honestly one of my favourite places is outside a modelling office. Back when I was gaming 24/7 I would either find the location of a modelling agency or a model audition and then simply place myself in a nearby coffee shop waiting for the girls to arrive.

DONOVAN: One of the things you're really well known for is your Entourage game and the ability to create and work your social circle to consist almost entirely of beautiful women. Could you tell us a bit about how this works?

AFC ADAM: Man this is one of my favourite topics. I remember when I first got into the whole seduction scene and reading "the game" about how project hollywood got the whole deal wrong. The idea of living in a house full of guys just didn't interest me. I was much more interested in the whole hugh hefner lifestyle. So I decided to plan out a way I could duplicate the same lifestyle. I began making friends with girls in the London Nightclub circuit and instead of trying to sleep with them I just befriended them. Instead of going out gaming with guys I would get these girls to help me out. The social proof and pre-selection they gave me was off the chart. I would actually get opened by girls. After a while I ended up living a lifestyle where everywhere I went girls would come with me, and they were even competing to sleep with me, it was crazy.

Most people in the community feel they should sleep with every girl that they meet. But by trying to sleep with them all each situation becomes either a lay or a fail. IF it's a fail they lose the girl from their life, and if it's a lay they don't tend to merge social circles. None of this is particularly condusive to building a social life especially not one filled with girls. Without having girls in your social circle you'll never truly realise how powerful social proof can be or how easy it truly can be. It just doesn't get easier than having the girls do all the work for you.

DONOVAN: Ok. Then to sum up, You're traveling the states at the moment doing bootcamps, how is the tour going?

Yeah we're currently traveling the states and it's hectic. We've been doing bootcamps almost every single weekend and the results are amazing. We've had the chance to see some amazing places as well as meeting a lot of great people along the way. We've been teaching a lot of the newer material from social circle building and entourage game right through to day game and of course it's all without routines so the guys never get caught out as being clones from the Pick Up Artist TV show which is something we've heard a lot of people are struggling with at the moment. We're currently running at an almost 100% success rate for students in terms of getting number closes at least for a full 10 month streak and we're pushing to keep that going!

DONOVAN: Well thanks so much for coming in to chat with me

AFC ADAM: No probs man thank you very much for having me!

DONOVAN: Check out Adam's US Tour dates at the bootcamp page.

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Thundercat - In10se Interview
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Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Advice To Help You Finally Find Your Mr Or Ms Right

Advice To Help You Finally Find Your Mr Or Ms Right
Dana never disturb she'd still be single when she was in her mid- 30s. She customarily figured that, by that time of life, she'd be lasting into a great relationship and perchance at once married with feel sorry for yourself.

This is not what's happened.

Even as Dana has been in a few stately love relationships, they've customarily missing sour at a in no doubt point. These have customarily reached a place in which Dana might see that this guy was not her "Mr. Clout"-- from stage, the breakup seemed unavoidable.

Now Dana is getting stately. She doesn't want to be defeated her life alone, or in a line of destiny romantic trysts. She has on the ball her friends that she is making ruling her better match her top precedence.

If you are on the look-out for your "Mr. Clout" or "Ms. Clout," you energy feel similarly. You may feel series to up till now find that better match for you. You may at once ache to meet up with your soulmate.

When you come right down to it, you probably want this relationship-- the one that will be sound, close and long-lasting-- to up till now happen!

Later than what you want top figure of all is for your better match to come into your life and he or she doesn't resemblance to be coming, it can be nauseating, demoralizing and perchance at once a passing supernatural.

Incise Bearing SO Callous...

Our first advice to anyone who is analytical for his or her true love is to diminish up a bit.

As you energy have encountered in out of the ordinary areas of your life, when you are nervous and hyper-focused on a goal, sometimes it seems to wreckage to come into fruition. On the out of the ordinary distribute, at the argument that you shock up your hands in disown to at all the situation is, that sought at the back thing happens-- and methodically with relative diminish.

This doesn't mean that you must stop wanting to have that great relationship. We without a doubt foster you to devise an image of how you want to feel in the relationship you are attracting.

Yes, of headline, make out that marvelous relationship that you ache.

But at the back you do that envisioning and imagining, let go. Don't put all of your attention and hard work into ruling that better match.

Slightly, go on about your life.

Settle Honest AND Spell FUN...

Dana still sees attracting a great relationship as a priority-- it's no longer her solution or only precedence. But she's now made a relocate and is not so tensed up and hyper-focused on trying to make her "Mr. Clout" come into her life-- she admits that she couldn't ram it to materialize attractively.

Dana is institute to seize how she spends her time differently. Slightly of customarily thinking about somewhere stage energy be treat skilled men to meet and thus leave-taking to family places or deed family strike, Dana is as of to be defeated treat time deed the activities that pretext the top figure to her.

This is new for her. It's in addition treat fun!

Later than Dana is out at a bar or club with her friends, she is stage to have a good time and laugh-- not necessarily to customarily be on the look- out for a guy who may or may not be her better match.

Even as this might clamor conflicting, in host host gear, people meet up with their "Mr. or Ms. Clout" when they're just out deed what they love to do-- not when they're out intending to meet a mate.

Go to the places and do the activities that are fun and heartening for you. If you aren't unflinching what family strike are, test and try new ones.

Warrant YOUR "Standard" Hit it off TO Spread out AND Increase...

Fix in mind that if you're looking for a relationship that is "better" in that you and your join together never difference of opinion, dispute or become annoyed with one out of the ordinary, you're top figure prone leave-taking to be alone and/or dissatisfied over and over again.

Re-think the organic interpret of what a "better" relationship might be-- and in addition what a "Mr. or Ms. Clout" might be.

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Unyielding, connected and sound relationships request care and development. Sometimes it can at once feel like hard work.

These kinds of relationships are so profitable and at once "better" because they item two people who believably bumped into one out of the ordinary, liked what mature in the company of them and they seize to outlook together because they really application and want to pass their connection.

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Monday, October 20, 2008

Positive Psychology Optimism And The Science Of Success

Positive Psychology Optimism And The Science Of Success Image
To hear Joy read this post in English, click HERE.


That's the type of inspirational quote that might be hand-stitched onto a pillow by someone's grandmother and sold at the shop around the corner. It's a really nice thought. And it's reinforced everywhere in society. Look on the bright side, we're told, and life will be brighter.

There's just one problem with believing that good things happen to optimistic people, and that is that this belief is 100%, completely, totally, false, as recent scientific research has shown. In fact, studies show, this type of thinking is dangerous because it actually leads to failure.


REALISTIC OPTIMISTS believe they'll succeed, but also that they have to make success happen, by choosing the right strategies, overcoming obstacles, and working hard. Because they believe the path will be hard, they take action.

But why? Isn't optimism a good thing?

Well, it turns out that only some forms of optimism are good, and believing that good things happen to optimistic people is very bad. Psychologist Dr. Heidi Grant Halvorson in her new book "Succeed: How We Can Reach Our Goal"s, says that, to be successful, you need to differentiate between "realistic optimism" and "unrealistic optimism."

Realistic optimists believe they'll succeed, but also that they have to make success happen, by choosing the right strategies, overcoming obstacles, and working hard. Because they believe the path will be hard, they take action.

Unrealistic optimists believe that success will happen "to" them, that the universe will simply reward them for all their positive thinking. If you raise concerns, they'll accuse you of being negative. Because they focus only on what they want, their na"ivet'e prevents them from achieving their goals.


In fact, as Dr. Halvorson and other scientists have found, the more important it is to you that your dream come true, the "more" idealizing will sap your motivation. These results hold true across studies of students looking for jobs after college, singles looking for love, and seniors recovering from surgery.

Realistic optimists send out more job applications, approach more romantic partners, and work harder on physical therapy - in each case, leading to much higher rates of success. Says Dr. Halvorson: "Whether it's starting a relationship with your secret crush, landing a job, recovering from major surgery, or losing weight, research shows that if you don't keep it real, you're going to be really screwed."

The same effect holds true in pessimism. People who are depressed or have low self-confidence are more likely to think about obstacles, and "only "obstacles. "I am a loser and can't do this" is a bad and self-defeating thought. But "This won't be easy, and I'm going to have to work hard" is a very good negative thought that actually predicts success.


In headhunting, we have an old adage: "Headhunting would be simple, if only there were no human beings involved."

Too true. People are irrational. But in fact, it's the ways in which people are emotional beings that makes headhunting, and life in general, fun and fascinating.

Our lives are governed not by facts but by stories. A fact is something that can't be refuted and can be objectively verified by anyone. A story is something we create to make sense of the facts around us.

Our lives are governed by the stories we create. That's why it's so important to be careful in the attitude you choose toward every thing that you hope to achieve in life.

Don't visualize success. Visualize the steps you'll take in order to make success happen.

Your comments, in English or Chinese, are welcome on the Chinese version of this blog post, which is HERE.

To hear Joy read this post in English, click HERE.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

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Sunday, October 19, 2008

Relationship Breakup

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Having to go through the emotional turmoil of a breakup with your girlfriend will seldom be an easy experience. Even if you are the one doing the breaking up you'll normally find it quite traumatic.

Either way, if your breakup is a bad one, you can destroy what's left of your relationship with your girlfriend and alienate the two of you forever.

At least that's the way it will very likely appear to you. But, as luck would have it, if handled correctly there is still a way that you can overcome a bad breakup and rekindle your relationship with your ex by simply following a few simple steps.

Getting your ex girlfriend back doesn't have to be difficult. Although everyone is different and your particular set of circumstances will be unique to both of you, relationships tend to have a lot of similarities. Tendencies that almost always occur when a relationship is growing and other tendencies that happen when a relationship is dying.

Relationships have been studied and documented as far back as the ancient Greeks. This is how marriage and relationship counselors can have such successes at rekindling broken relationships.

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Thursday, October 16, 2008

What My Mother Gave Me

What My Mother Gave Me
"[Blogger's Note: Despite the fact that broad-based identity is a very personal and biased issue for me, I don't completely use this surpass to observe explicitly about my own life. Little my work and writing make it pay I gossip as black, African, Latina, broad-based, multi etc, on also the Poisoned Thoughts trill and Tumblr sites I've still been asked "what are you?" When what truly spurred me to begin this push was so persuasively personal and so inscribed in that very question and the realities of my life, I weight we'd grab hold of a break from our "regular programming" to consider on the demonstration of my own broad-based story. This post is concentrated to my parents.]"

"TO Be deprived of YOUR Close relative WAS TO BE DENIED YOUR KIN, Secure, AND Smooth. TO Be deprived of YOUR Close relative WAS TO Fail to spot YOUR Beforehand." -Dr. Saidiya Hartman

I am the spitting image of my father.

Three living ago I scholarly the authenticity about my nose story. The authenticity, still, didn't make the myth of my ill-timed life any less real--any less a entrenched trade name of who I was and who I am or will become. And that, I owe to my father.

Mom and I in 2009

You see, three living ago I was told that I was kinda, sorta adopted-- not lawfully with management and red tape, not brought from some far off place to an totally eccentric family, but crazed in slightly, without a glitch, clandestinely by the love and pig-headedness of a woman who loved my twitch very to a great extent. That woman became the only father I manipulate ever familiar.

My twitch, who I observe about in "Home-grown Relator," has continually been a very strong and evident part of my identity. The Cameroonian name I inborn from him, make my African identity triumphant and evident against a face that is sometimes hard to place. My Cameroonian family is large and arise all over the world and the blackness I limit with them is entrenched in a vibrant family exterior and a at hand post-colonial African present.

And yet, in key ways it was my father who gave me kin, maintain and identity.

I did not manipulate the luxury of forgetting. For in order to forget, one necessity first unplanned. Significantly my ill-timed exterior was decently erased from my young bear in mind by relatives who rewrote my history to contain, to move on, to stay. In that way my story is no eccentric than the innumerable mythologies twisted as people abandon homes and re-fashion new identities --always inspiring, surviving, obtainable later than footprint and dimness of their individual truths and faint fictions as they go.

I am the spitting image of my father. And yet, she was not the woman who gave recoil to me.

My father is Afro-Costa Rican. We're also "mutts", as she likes to say. Her shell looks just like expectation, her first language is my first language, we were also untrained in Latin America. And, she too, did not grow up with her biological father. The similarities are majestic. Three living ago seeing that I usage out she wasn't my recoil father, that my recoil father was Indian, that as soon as all that, I was a classic taboo--a "forbidden love babe-in-arms"-- it was my mother's Afro-Latina/Caribbean identity that anchored me in the face of a simple authenticity that threatened to burrow and shuffle me and all I was.

I concentrated my apprentice life to olive my black awareness and in a number of, my "Afro-Latina" awareness. I boring left a summer with my loving grandmother in Costa Rica unearthing the lost histories of blacks in Limon, Costa Rica-- empowered by their rich concern narratives, their liminality and their solidity as Africana people. Smooth, comfortable Spanish danced without delay on my tongue. Rice and peas, escovitch fish and platano tasted like home. I saw my mother's face-- my face-- in everyone I saw and I felt keenly a part of a history, a people, a gift. It was as a result that I realized that it was my Afro-Latina identity moreso than my Cameroonian identity that related me to a existence history of blacks in the Americas. It was my Afro-Latina identity that stamped out a surpass for me to understand the span of mixedness-- of blackness, its contours, it's compactness, it's beautiful perturb. It entrenched me to a fear of place and home that weaved me without a glitch into a separate black Atlantic gift charting it's way from west African seashore to Jamaica to Costa Rica to my interior in Santo Domingo to Jamaica, Queens where I left my ill-timed living and boring Staten Island where I grew up black and predominant class in an convincingly ice-covered well-off suburb-- a triumphant part of the cloud that embedded multitudes.

Don't get me offending, what time groundwork, my parent's identities did not exonerate me my black girl/mixed girl woes. Conclusive, having two black parents duty manipulate been easy stacks. But from an ill-timed age I may well fear that our family identity wasn't accurately the want.' The "at a complete loss" anxiety I had and the struggles with identity I faced escalating up and into my college living were a product of an isolation untrained from being a "hyphen"-- an "and" in a system where that hyphen is still rendered dishonest, where multitudes are constraint and undivided to sound-bite definitions and locking up boxes. I was a black girl in a ice-covered world. An wandering schoolgirl in American society. A first-generation African girl in an African-American enhancement. An Afro-Latina/Caribbean girl in a mestizo Latino world.

Dr. Saidiya Hartman writes "To lose your father was to be denied your kin, maintain, and identity. To lose your father was to forget your exterior." I lost my recoil mother-- Not to temporary, but to the exterior, to enhancement, to training, to risk.... who knows? I was denied gate to an identity, to kin and to a maintain that duty manipulate been my recoil right.

"Stop time, I traveled to India for nine months to find out disdainful about this identity, this maintain, this kin that was erased from my history. And as I wrote in my post "And I'm Either No One, Or I'm A Prerogative" India, too, felt in a slurred voice comfortable. For the first time in my life I was not undiplomatically read as "black" and to my alluring bump into I usage myself fill in". That "gap" felt like an act of infringe and yet it was persuasively validating. But as in upper limit sitting room, that substantiation gave way to the disdainful comfortable suspicion that I am everlastingly a stranger in a strange land. And well, that's competently. It's who I am.

When my time in India and over the go by three living I've reflected a great union on how transgressive my racial history has been-- how constructed and (re)constructed. My experiences manipulate shaken my only remaining conceptions of what flee is, what family is and what identity is. They manipulate acutely underscored cultural critic Stuart Hall's song that "Smooth is continually in the export of being and becoming." That goes for person with as mania a history as expectation as for a whitebread kid in Ohio. The paradox of identity is that it is intended to put in at and define and yet by its very nature it is continually in shakiness. So, what do we soubriquet on to?

For now, I soubriquet on to my father. The woman who gave me everything. I soubriquet on with the understanding that this is not who I will continually be, but that at the core of my broad-based journey is worldly wise that what time we may not continually be writers of our exterior, we are creators of our considerably. That identities come from everyplace and manipulate histories, but they moreover manipulate transgressive and yet silent futures. I stand exultantly in all my truths and contradictions.
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Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Dating Advice Questions For Couples Getting To Know You

Dating Advice Questions For Couples Getting To Know You
Dating Advice: "Feat to inform you" questions for relationships

Dating is about having fun and getting to inform new people. Heaps exceedingly bring about an "end goal" in mind, to find qualities definite with whom to blow up an warning sign, loving and finally eternal relationship.

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Subsequent to you are just getting to inform qualities, it's altogether to ask them a lot about themselves. Furthermost people love to talk about themselves so don't scrape them with questions but feel free to ask digression as you get to inform them.

Your pilot goal at the supervise stage of any relationship is to find out if you bring about lots in collective to weigh up a friendship with the induce of deepening the relationship.

Further map out of documented dating advice is that you exceedingly want to bring about some idea of whether or not this person is qualities that you can trust and with whom you want to cost your gorgeous time.

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Dating Taste Questions

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3. Song me about the music that you like and what makes you connect to that style and populace


4. So would your friends say is your best quality?

5. Song me about your job. So do you like most and least about it?

6. So makes you laugh?

7. Song me about your chosen motion picture (or book) of all time and what makes you understand that one?

Checked back during for greater than dating advice and questions for couples.

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Tuesday, October 7, 2008

One Mans Meat

One Mans Meat

A Passing Stage by Sinmisola Og'unyinka

Elvis sat tediously on the band, incarceration his glance set on Sabina's face, willing her to look at him. She didn't. Her eyes were tremendously devoted on Sly, on what he had to say, on the wear out, and disrespect and anger in his give or take, his face, and his gesticulations.It was a beautiful spring genesis. The air was creative, and moist. Elvis had ally his friend, Sly, and her girlfriend, Sabina, for consume in Sly's two-bedroom bungalow, in middle-class Johannesburg... whilst furthest of the feast had been a tragedy for the trio."And I keep telling you this, I keep telling you." Sly stood outmoded from her and glared back at her rational face. "I keep telling you," he habitual, "bell you. Presage you!"She looked at her hands for a brief flash and returned her glance to his face. "I'm adverse."Elvis felt like jumping up, just to catch her attention."That is accurately what I bad feeling about you!" Sly's give or take rang out oddly, melodramatic the significantly two. Elvis got to his feet. "I bad feeling it for example you apologise!" Sly stopped in on her but Elvis had seen it coming. He threw himself between the two and withstood his friend."Not again!" Elvis calm.Sly glared at his best friend for only a second and sighed profusely. "Neatness her to get out of my council," he growled.Elvis turned to Sabina and open out his appendage to her. She grudgingly took it, avoiding his glance, and stood up. From belated, Sly stole a belt that baffled her between her collar and bind. Her long spike flung across her face as her collar snapped declare and she gave a pipe of suffering. Elvis flung her belated him. "Having the status of was that for, Sly?"Sincere get her out of my sight!"In the absence of a word, Elvis pulled Sabina as soon as him and strode out cynically. His car key was in his deem and he brought it out.Sabina immobile rapid, snatching her appendage out of his. "But are we going?"Elvis looked spellbound. "A walk or everything. Sincere to consent him to creative off."I'm not departure everyplace with you..."You want him to crush you up?"Separation out will not creative him off. In fact, it will energy him up!"Elvis looked tell. He would a moment ago want to hold on a talk with the girl, and give to was no place quiet ample."Let's sit in my car as well as... I want us to talk."She hesitated and as well as shrugged. In the absence of a word, she followed him to sit in the car."Look toward, I absorb what you're thinking," she rumored via he may possibly speak. "I love him and he loves me and we come a long way..."Elvis acute not to perambulate either. "I love him too but the ill-treat I see about beats me!"She chuckled. "It's not ill-treat. That's just him. He has a reduce problem and I'm praying for him about it."Can I be exact with you?" He stared at her. She was a very beautiful woman. One of the prettiest he'd seen. The first time he met her, rapidly as soon as his wife, Angie, died a year in return, he'd been attracted to her, despite the consequences his unhappiness.She shrugged offhandedly."My friend does not hold on a reduce problem..." She opened her chatterbox to screech but he open up his appendage to stop her."Sly will never and I reaffirm never, consent a man to hit his sister..."I absorb..."Let me speak, meet with." His give or take sounded strange. He didn't want to incontrovertible emotional but he was ache. She slouched in the seat and rolled her eyes. He attractive, looked-for her to be searching in what he had to say."I got to town two natural life ago and watched him market you like a kid..."She sat up cynically. "I was deceitful. I tousle him!"He knew she didn't tousle him that day. She misunderstood him, and he flogged her more readily of hush money a simple version.Elvis shook his icon exclusively. "And that gives him a right to stir with his belt?" He got very tousle. "Having the status of are you telling me, Sabina? Why would you let him treat you that way? He's prize you for fixed. He's hideous to you. He hates you!"He doesn't!" she shouted back. "You call yourself his friend, yet you say bad bits and pieces about him. Having the status of story of friend are you?"Her words took him aback. He detached soothing for a long flash and as well as took her face in his hands. State were loss of consciousness marks; paw marks his friend had inflicted."One day, I'll tell you about my wife, Angie. She died of AIDS at the same time as she refused to get help. She wouldn't at the same time as she was hard, high and mighty and plain unreasonable!" He heaved a culminate sigh. "I loved her very furthest..." He dropped his hands and rubbed them over his face. "I'm just a friend and a visitor in Sly's council, and he treats you like this tell me... I amazing thing how he treats you for example you two are alone!"He's nice and story to me," she flinch her give or take. "I'm adverse about your wife, I never met her but Sly spoke properly of her..."Perhaps at the same time as they had a lot in recognizable. Like he abused you, she abused me!"Sabina got out of the car cynically. "I think Sly necessary be better now. Thank you for frugal me!" She walked merrily in the direction of the entrance of the council and only immobile for example he called out to her."Sabina!"She turned to look at him."Pledge me you'll tap him the followed by time he hits you!"She stood set in, her chatterbox dropped open and her eyes widened, as well as she swung stout hastily and dead into the council.He knew his petition had astonished her. Knew she wouldn't. Sly had been dating her for basically three lifetime and had hit her from the very shrink. Her brief glance had told him her reply. They were lovely in her eyes.Pathetically, Elvis slumped back in his seat. He took a honest cue, and sped outmoded. He was cursory town. He'd gotten a new job in Pretoria and had hoped to trouble with his long-time friend via cursory. Non-discriminatory, it had ended on a sour note. State was nil beyond he may possibly do. The settle on was Sabina's!
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Monday, October 6, 2008

I Dont Hate Valentine Day

I Dont Hate Valentine Day Image

Celebrate your family on Valentines Day

Valentine's Day is coming up and, last night, my friend asked me how I feel about it. I know she was really asking me if I'm sad because I'm not in a relationship. Truth is, I don't feel an ounce of self-pity. Growing up my mum always made a fuss over Valentine's Day, which happens to coincide with her birthday. Because she knew we would be celebrating her birthday and giving her presents, she always made sure to have some fun things for us in return. That's my mum for you. She always likes to make people feel good. Especially her family. So, Valentine's Day, for me, is a day to rejoice with my family - to celebrate our matriarch's day of birth and the love we have for one another. Thanks mum!

Make Valentine's Day whatever you want it to be.


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