And why do men lie? Well, I'm not certain why women lie, but I can tell you why men lie. The answer, of course, is not a black and white one, and to be quite honest, it's not always his fault.
Sometimes, lies can improve situations and keep things at status quo, and everyone knows that men aren't exactly big fans of psychoanalysis and long, drawn-out conversations about feelings. Telling you what you want to hear rather than the truth, more often than not, ends up turning what could've been a disastrous night into a fantastic evening full of sex and snacks.
So you want the answer? Want to know why men lie and will likely always lie to you? Well, I'll tell you why, even though all the guys I know will want to kill me after this.
REASONS WHY MEN LIE #1
WE WANT TO AVOID ARGUMENTS
Is she hot? Of course she's not, at least not when we're talking to you, honey. Admitting to you that another woman is hot is like telling you that we want to spend the next 7 hours taking about why and how the way we said she was hot was so insulting.
So why would I admit the truth when the lie will help me keep the peace and revel in this other woman's hotness in private? The worst part is, you ask the question and then freak out when the answer is not what you expect. I guess you can't win 'em all, huh?
I mean, when was the last time your boyfriend asked you if you thought that Clive Owen was hot? We don't ask because we already know and we don't need to ask.
REASONS WHY MEN LIE #2
FEAR OF LOSING YOU
As evil as it sounds, if we care about you and decide in a moment of weakness to cheat on you, chances are we wouldn't want to tell you and risk losing you forever. So we will take a lie like that to the grave.
The same goes for the menial things, as well. If you hate it when we hang out with George, but we think George is awesome, we will continue to hang out with him but lie to you because you might leave us for something we consider so unimportant.
We don't want to lose you, but sometimes, we don't want to lose ourselves, either. Unfortunately, that leaves us only one choice -- lie to the death.
REASONS WHY MEN LIE #3
FEAR OF JUDGMENT
If we admit that we've frequented strip joints or that we masturbate in the shower even when we're dating, you might think less of us. So rather than say, "Frankly, yes I do still masturbate about once a week, and there's nothing hotter than seeing a fake pair hugging a steel pole," we think it safer to keep those little morsels of information to ourselves.
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