From Nice Guy To Alpha Male

CARLOS XUMA IS A DATING AND ATTRACTION ADVISOR, AS WELL AS A BLACK BELT MARTIAL ARTS INSTRUCTOR AND MOTIVATIONAL LIFE COUNSELOR. HE'S THE AUTHOR OF" DATING BLACK BOOK, SECRETS OF THE ALPHA " THE ALPHA LIFESTYLE DVD COURSE, THE POWER SOCIAL SKILLS "AND MANY OTHERS. TO LEARN MORE ABOUT CARLOS XUMA AND GET HIS FREE DATING TIPS FOR GUYS VIDEOS, HIS FREE EBOOK, AND HIS FREE NEWSLETTER TO HELP YOU BECOME A BETTER ALPHA MALE, GO TO CARLOSXUMA.COM.

Have you tried to be the nice guy - the kind of man that women say they want - but you found out the hard way that women don't really want "nice"?

You know that women should be knocking down your door because of how well you'd treat them and all the great things you do for them, but you get no results - just frustration - and nowhere near the kind of sexual satisfaction you deserve.

You refuse to be a "jerk" because that's not who you really are but the "nice guy" routine just leaves you stuck in the "friends-only zone" over and over again. And now you're just plain lost, confused, and frustrated about what women want.

Does it seem like a "woman's world" and you're scrambling to get one good one - and keep from going crazy at the same time? And why do other guys have all the luck with women?

The answer is simpler than you can imagine. Here's the cold, hard truth

You need to man up.

Get your balls back - and make your ancestors proud of you.

If that stung a little, then you can bet your life what I just said was true.

You're about to learn something very important about why women runaway from the "nice" guys and why they throw themselves all over the "jerks". And you're also going to discover the ancient secret for true, lasting success with women that doesn't rely on creepy scripts, routines, or pickup lines.

You have alpha-male masculinity flowing through your blood right now that comes from prehistoric times - and you don't even know it. Every one of your ancestors was a winner in the survival game or you wouldn't be here. They all had success with women every one of them.

They had it easy though their gender roles were much clearer. Men were expected to be men and women were expected to be women.

Now it's all mixed up; women can have it all and they don't know what they want. They tell you one thing, but respond to the opposite - and then she gets mad at you when you can't read her mind.

The problem is that you're marching to the beat of her drum and her drum sounds like a tin shed in a hailstorm she couldn't make a beat you could follow if your life depended on it.

Let's face it - your life depends on taking the lead and banging the drum of life to your rhythm

The good news is you're hard-wired to be the real man that women love The bad news is your wires are tangled, sparking, and short-circuiting.

I want to help you rewire yourself with "electrifying" results.

Do you remember the first time you got "turned on" by a girl?

For me it was back when I was 14 years old. Her name was Jackie, and she was my goddess. She was tall with long, blonde hair. The funny thing was that, at first, she didn't seem all that special. She was just another girl in the neighborhood.

One night we were all hanging out, goofing around, and it hit me like a bolt of lightning

My eyes locked on hers, and for the first time in my life, I felt that sensation. You know the one I mean, right?

My breath got short all of a sudden. The fine hairs on the back of my neck jumped up, and I felt this tingling sensation in the middle of my body, passing through me like a shock wave.

And through the whole thing, I couldn't move a muscle. I was locked there, frozen. I had fallen for Jackie - hook, line, and sinker.

The next day, it was raining, so we skipped school together, and we ran around the neighborhood, hiding in places to stay out of the downpour. Jackie and I ran around all day long, hiding on people's porches and staring into each other's eyes, holding hands and hugging - and yet Jackie and I never kissed. Not even once.

You see, I had no idea what to do with her. I was this 14-year-old "boy-man" all charged with sexual energy, and not a clue how to use it. I couldn't even make out with her.

And here's the part that kicked me right on my ass: Jackie called me two days later and told me we should "just be friends."

I was crushed.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Steve Scott - 24 Traits Of The Superior Alpha Male
John Alexander - How To Become Alpha Male
Kate Ludeman - Coaching The Alpha Male

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