Ways To Get Over Him

You thought he was the one but, lo and behold, he had other plans. Not only did he dump you; he did it over the phone. You're hurt, no doubt, but your hurt is slowly turning to anger and now all you can think about is how you're going to get back at this bastard who tore your heart apart.

Of course, you don't want to end up in jail at any point in the process. So what can you do that will leave you feeling satisfied but won't get you 20 to life? It's easy; have your revenge with the 10 following suggestions and you'll get over him and feel happier in no time.

WAYS TO GET OVER HIM #10

LOOK HOTTER THAN EVER

After some time in a relationship, you may have let yourself go somewhat in the looks department. Well, now that you have so much free time on your hands, it's time you began taking great care of yourself. Start off with regular manicures and pedicures, then get facials, get your hair did, and you'll be feeling like a new woman in no time.

When he sees you, he will wonder why you look so amazing and who you're looking so amazing for.

WAYS TO GET OVER HIM #9

HANG OUT WITH LOTS OF GUYS

If you work with a lot of guys or know some from school, but never hung out with them out of respect for your ex, now's the time to make friends with the boys.

It's hard to get out there at first because you might be feeling insecure about having been dumped, but the only way to get over him is by thrusting yourself into somewhat uncomfortable situations and adjusting.

If you want to make sure that he finds out about all your new friends, make sure to head to spots where the two of you used to hang out together or invite some mutual friends out with you.

WAYS TO GET OVER HIM #8

TRAVEL/LEAVE TOWN

Sometimes the easiest way to get over him is by leaving the very spot that reminds you so much of him. Mind you, you don't need to pack up all your stuff and head to Siberia for good, but a couple of weeks in Cancun might help you get your head and heart together.

Meanwhile, back at the ranch, your ex will be tripping out about the fact that you just headed off to sexy Mexico without a word - and just after breaking up. Of course, that is, if he discovers that you headed out. Those mutual friends tend to come in very handy here.

WAYS TO GET OVER HIM #7

DONT BE BITTER

If you need to get the anger and bitterness out of your system to get over him, do so with family or a very close friend. Don't, under any circumstances, badmouth him to anyone else who knows him. It will only reflect badly on you and will have them saying, "No wonder he dumped her, she's a whiny complainer."

Instead, say nothing but nice things about him and make sure to point out that it's better this way, and discuss all the great plans you have now that he's no longer in your life.

WAYS TO GET OVER HIM #6

BECOME SUCCESSFUL

Of course, becoming successful will not occur overnight, but aspiring to it is good enough to help you get over him. Go back to school, or ask for a transfer or strive for a promotion at work; do whatever it takes to break out of the routine you've become so used to in your professional life.

If you work or go to school with someone who knows your ex, word will travel fast about the changes you're making and the feelings of regret may creep up on him considering how you took a bad situation and turned it into such a great thing.

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