First Date Mistakes Men Make

You stopped her on the street and asked her out. She was so good-looking and funny in those 2 minutes that you couldn't control yourself. You went on the first date and you thought things went great.

But she never called you again. What's up with that?

Well, if you did any of the following 8 things, it won't be too difficult to figure out that you're making plenty of first date mistakes.

FIRST DATE MISTAKES #1

YOU COMPLAINED

Whether it's about work, life, friends, family, or the clothes you're wearing, complaining never plays well with women because if you're complaining on the first date, what will life be like with you in 10 months from now? At home? While she's cleaning up?

SOLUTION: Do your best to be upbeat about whatever you discuss, avoid topics that'll make you sound like Debbie Downer and make it a point to have a good time.

FIRST DATE MISTAKES #2

YOU TALKED ABOUT YOURSELF ALL NIGHT

It's common knowledge that most guys are trained to keep the conversation focused on women, but some guys missed that lesson while watching porn and spend the entire night massaging their own ego. And if you do that, we'll figure you're not interested in us because you never care to ask.

SOLUTION: Although it's great to let us in on parts of your life and your interests, do your best to discuss both us and current events. The point of a date is to get to know each other - that requires a two-sided conversation.

FIRST DATE MISTAKES #3

YOU TREATED SERVICE PEOPLE LIKE CRAP

You never once looked at the waiter, you talked to him as though he never got hooked on phonics, and you got this constipated look on your face when he accidentally spilled some water on the table. Your date will assume you think you're above certain people and live in a class system.

SOLUTION: Treating anyone like a second-rate citizen is not widely accepted so you really need to work on your people skills and realize that this waiter may be studying to become a doctor, so don't turn your date off with judgments and assumptions about anyone.

FIRST DATE MISTAKES #4

YOU WERE NEGATIVE ABOUT WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE

Whether it's your ex, your mom, or even your girlfriend, mentioning a woman in a negative way reflects badly on you because your date will fear that you will eventually view her in this same manner.

SOLUTION: It's okay to think that your ex was a bitch because she did your best friend and your brother on the same night and then called you to tell you about it, but a first date is not the venue in which to voice that thought. Keep the conversation light and on a happy trail, avoid speaking of anyone, especially women, in an ill manner.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Carol Mccluer - The Five Biggest Mistakes Women Make About Love
Slade Shaw - The 3 Destructive But Common Dating Mistakes Men Make
Sylvester Onyemalechi - 16 Common Mistakes Single Men Make

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