How To Tell If He Is Cheating

Tweet

Unfaithfulness is one of the most destructive things that can happen to a relationship. The suspicion of it can even be harmful too. Men cheat for many reasons and these reasons are sometimes obvious and sometimes not. That is why I am going to give women ideas on how to know if he is cheating her. In my fifteen years of marriage, my wife and I have been through a lot but I am proud to say that we had remained faithful no matter what happened. If you want to make your relationship the same, study the reasons why men are cheaters sometimes.

OBSERVE YOUR MANS BEHAVIOR

If he is cheating, he is more likely to be attentive to your needs. He buys lots of gifts for you and treats you out. This is because he wants to overcome his guilt feelings. Cheaters think that when they do favors and give gifts, it covers up their betrayal. Your instincts will tell you when to be suspicious and when not to be. If he is cheating, you will have a gut feeling that something is not right. You know he's routines and attitudes, if something changes, then he must be up to something you don't know. Do not ignore your gut feeling and don't be blinded by the truth. You will only get hurt if you do not address to problems right away. Don't give cheaters a chance to hurt you more.

YOU HAVE ARGUMENTS OFTEN

Cheaters usually pick fight with their partners. This can give them reason to get mad and walk out of the house and that is an opportunity for them to meet someone else. You will know that he is cheating when you fight and argue, he is talking about ending a relationship. Or he speaks things like, 'whatever happens to us, I will always be your friend.' If your boyfriend says things alike, be suspicious. Cheaters tend to assure everything will be alright in case your relationship end up, but it is actually not.

YOUR BOYFRIEND BECOMES MOODY

If he is cheating you will notice that his mood changes when he goes home or gets to be with you. He is likely excited and upbeat when he is about to leave and turns depressed and melancholic when you are around. Cheaters avoid talking to their partners and having interaction because they keep on thinking about someone else and not comfortable with having you around. You will know if he is cheating if he turns cold and inconsiderate of your presence and feelings.

To avoid infidelity in relationships, pay attention to each other - to your needs, wants and dreams. Make each other feel important and that your daily conversations and bonding moments matter so much. Cheaters are allergic to this and they will soon appreciate you and your efforts. If he is cheating still, don't be numb about it. Go and ask him what went wrong. Try to make necessary arrangements with him to fix the relationship. If it doesn't work, learn to accept and let go. Believe that there is a better one for you.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Debra Benton - How To Act Like A Ceo
Real Social Dynamics - How To Get Her Chasing You

Labels: failed successful  player movies  dating photo  perfect boyfriend dates  should guys  chest creates  unconscious persuasion step  thundercat clubadmirer  signs interested  relax phone  afc adam lyons  tantric positions  shawn nelson  dating service single  miller the mating mind