Attracting Women Using Smartness And Sincerity

Lets talking about the four ways that men attract women : Status, Strength, Smartness, and Sincerity. We talked about Status and Strength, about how men use being the "alpha male," wealth and power to attract women, and gave some hints about how you can treat yourself like a high-status male, and get some of the same results. We also talked about Strength: how raw physical power and physical beauty is attractive to women. We talked about how the most attractive men really get women, and about some simple ways you can increase your strength and beauty and be more attractive to women, too.

Now we'll talk about the other two ways that men attract women: Smartness and Sincerity.

Using Smartness to Attract Women

Smartness. Some men try to use their intelligence to attract women. This has limited appeal because intelligence, by itself, is not particularly sexy to most people, and can even be a turn off. (in a study of 10,000 women, for instance, researchers found that the most intelligent ones tended to be unmarried). It's how you use your intelligence that makes the difference, and, when it comes to seducing women, guys use their intelligence in a couple of different ways.

One way to use your intelligence is the "Seduce and Destroy" approach, typified in the movie "Magnolia." It's about trying to use your intelligence to outsmart women, to control all interactions with them, to bamboozle them, to manipulate them, to eliminate risk with them, to force an outcome, and to "beat them at their own game." This approach has a predatory feeling to it, which gives a lot of guys the creeps and turns them off from using it. They ask, "What's the point of getting laid if I have to become a con-man with women to do it?" It's a good question.

Fortunately, there is another way you can use Smartness to get women, and it's a way that won't strike you as immoral or predatory. That's what we here at the Louis and Copeland labs are all about.

We think it is important to know how to use your intelligence to manage your seduction interactions with women. You need your intelligence if you are going to learn how to bring out the romantic and seductive parts of you, and the woman you are with. The difference is that you don't have to use us the "seduce and destroy" approach that most people find so predatory: You don't have to eliminate all risk with a woman, control everything, and try to force an outcome. You can use your intelligence to let go of control by taking romantic risks with a woman, one step at a time. That's what our work is about. You get women by using your intelligence to manage taking risks with them, so chemistry and excitement has an opportunity to grow in a way that feels natural because it is natural.

You use your intelligence to generate chemistry with a woman by taking small risks that show your romantic interest. This creates openings for her to risk back with you. For instance, you may risk by saying "hi" to a woman, and she may risk by saying "hi" back. You then may risk by winking at her, and she may risk by smiling back. In that process, some excitement is created between you. You can then build on that by taking slightly larger risk--for instance, you may risk by asking her, "What's the story behind that?" about her necklace, and she may take a risk by telling you about how she got it on a trip to Central America. When that risk has gone well, there is even more energy between you. You can then provide the next larger risk, and she can risk back, all the way up through flirting with her, asking her out, getting the first kiss, and more.

That's how you use your intelligence to create real interactions that have chemistry, excitement, and risk, and which build real trust. It is the opposite of using your intelligence to play mind games, to scam, control, force an outcome, or to "seduce and destroy" women.

Using Sincerity to Attract Women

Sincerity. "Sincerity" is used by the "Tortured Artist," the "Sensitive New Age Guy," and the "Feminist Man" to get into women's pants (with varying degrees of success). Most men we work with want to be sincere in a different way: they way to be able to "just be themselves" and attract women. This is also our ultimate goal for our students, and what most of our products are about: learning how to "be yourself" and have that be enough to get the women you desire.

We think that using Sincerity successfully with women relies on you being comfortable with yourself, and on you being able to be who you really are. We think using Sincerity successfully with women is about doing what you want to do, both with women and in your life. We think it is about not needing to get something from women.

A powerful, seductive man has to have access to all four of these components--Status, Strength, Smartness and Sincerity--in his life. You must be able to treat yourself with self-respect, thus using Status. You must do well with what you are given with your health and your looks, thus using Strength. You must use your intelligence to build connection with women by risking romantically one step at a time, thus using Smartness, and you must be able to be who you really are with women, thus using Sincerity.

Also try this free pdf e-books:

Sebastian Low - Attract Women Now
Carlos Xuma - Dating Questions And Answers

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