KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO WEAR THE DAY BEFORE
Plan what you are going to wear on the date and make sure you have sorted your clothes out. There have been lots of times in the past when I think I know what I am going to wear, only to find at the last minute my best shirt hasn't been washed or ironed. Having your clothes sorted the day before avoids any last minute panic attacks about your choice of attire. It also ensures that you turn up looking clean and crisp.ironed shirt, polished shoes, pressed trousers etc. You will feel more comfortable and confident wearing clothes that you want to wear rather than something you have just randomly picked out because you was in a rush.
GROOM YOURSELF
If you need a haircut, go to your local hairdressers and get it tidied up. Trim any nose hairs and make sure you have a shave. If you like having stubble, make sure you tidy it up using the BaByliss i-stubble trimmer. Also, if your body hair is out of control, tidy it up using the Philips Bodygroom shaver. It is essential you trim up your lower regions, just in case you get lucky!
After you have trimmed all of your unwanted hairs, have a shower. Use a decent body wash, preferably one that matches the fragrance you will be wearing on the date. Clip any over grown nails on both your hands and feet.
Brush your teeth, the roof of your mouth and your tongue just before you get dressed. This will avoid any toothpaste getting on your clothes. Remember to take a pack of gum or mints with you to ensure your breathe stays fresh throughout the date, giving you more of a chance of getting a kiss.
SELECT THE RIGHT FRAGRANCE
There are so many men's fragrances available; it can be difficult to pick one. Make sure you have at least 3-4 different top quality fragrances to pick from. If your date is in the evening then make sure you choose a fragrance that suits evening wear, likewise for the daytime. You can learn more about the best men's fragrances by reading my post below.
=> Top 10 Men's Fragrances That Attract Women
GO TO THE GYM
You want to feel and look your best and a good way of doing that is to have a quick 30-45 minute workout. Your workout could be the day before your date, or the morning / afternoon on the day of your date (depending on what time it is). Pumping up your muscles, boosting your energy levels and increasing your metabolic rate will make you feel more confident and fresh which will serve you well later when you are on the date.
KNOW WHERE YOU ARE GOING TO GO
Make sure you plan where you are going to take her on a date. Choose somewhere that you are familiar with and know how to get to. If you are unsure, look up directions and maybe check out the place and its surroundings. If you need to make a reservation, like in a restaurant, make sure you make this in advance to avoid disappointment on the day. If you are stuck for ideas of where to go and it's your first date with her, make sure you check out my post on first date ideas below.
=> Top 5 Places To Take Her on Your First Date
CLEAN YOUR CAR
If you are planning on picking her up, make sure your car is clean inside and out. Get rid of any rubbish you may have lying around and give it a vacuum. Wash the outside of your car and give it a once over with wax to ensure its shiny. Also, pick a few CD's to listen to on the way.
IDENTIFY GOOD AND BAD CONVERSATION TOPICS
It is handy to have a few conversation topic ideas prepared before your date, just in case the conversation becomes stale and the awkward silences kick in. It is also useful to know the type of topics you should be talking about and the ones you should be avoiding. Read my two posts below for further ideas.
=> 5 Great First Date Conversation Topics
=> 5 Awful First Date Conversation Topics
TIDY YOUR BACHELOR PAD
After a successful date, there is a good chance she will want to come back to yours. In this instance you need to make sure your bachelor pad is clean and tidy to seal the deal. If she comes back and your place is dirty and messed up it will probably put her off. Make sure you clean the dishes, have clean bed sheets; put away any grooming products you used before the date and that you have polished and vacuumed everywhere. Also have a few bottles of wine on ice and some nibbles prepared in the fridge so you can carry the night on.
PROTECTION
Picture this. You have a great date, you get her back to yours, you start kissing and it's getting steamy. You then suddenly realise that you have forgotten to go to the chemist and get some condoms. The moment has gone and you have wrecked your chances of getting laid. Always have a supply of condoms in your bedroom and keep at least two hidden well away in your wallet. It is not worth taking the gamble and having unprotected sex with the risk of catching an STI. Be prepared then you wont have to worry!
Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):
Lance Mason - 6 Easy Steps To A Hot DateDavid Deangelo - Attraction And How To Create It
Chris - Dating Groundwork How To Have More Social Success
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