Pua Openers A Simple Way To Get Started

Since the beginning of the seduction community one debate has raged on. Which is the easiest way to open a girl? Which opening line should be used? Which one should I use to get me the most success with women? How do I win at the PUA Game?

The debates started out simply with discussions over whether individual pick up lines were better for PUA training than any other. It wasn't long however, before the methods became more structured and different schools of thoughts developed. People started arguing over which was better RSD or Mystery Method.

Tyler from RSD began promoting the fact that it doesn't matter what you say only how you say it, we saw lines develop such as the by now infamous Salad Opener.

PUA Opener Example 1) "I like Salad, but I don't like crutons, see my problem?"

Then the PUA would simply wait for the girls response. If delivered correctly the girls would often jump into the conversation giving it a pretty high success rate.

Mystery PUA however had a different approach. The strongly believed in the power of the opinion opener, and not without reason. In "The Game" a Book by Neil Strauss the man opinion opener taught and still widely used today is the who lie's more opener.

PUA Opener Example 2) "Who Lies more? Men or Women?

Although it appears that Mystery PUA stumbled upon it himself by accident, a few years later the university of Chicago did confirm that the opening line that had the best result is one that does create an open ended question. Though they also did find that starting the conversation with a simple introduction did benefit this rather than just jumping in with the opinion opener as Mystery would teach. The line they suggested is below.

PUA Opener Example 3) " Hi, I'm (name), what's your favourite Pizza topping?

As times have changed, people have moved away from the old RSD vs Mystery Method argument. and moved towards a slightly less faction based argument to a more general discussion between the schools of direct game or indirect game.

A direct game opener for a pickup artist is one that lays all their cards out on the table when they first approach. One particular one which was can be seen on youtube under AFC Adam's channel is detailed below.

PUA Opener Example 4) "Hi, Excuse me, you seem really interesting, I've only got a few minutes as I've got to get back to my friends but I was wondering what's the best way of staying in touch?"

Variants of the Direct Opener involve giving extreme compliments or sexually suggestive statements and then not pushing for a close straight away though long term results of these approaches don't appear to be reliable as they often are met with the "I have a Boyfriend response"

The indirect approach is much more about getting to know the girl before you attempt to trigger attraction in her. This way you can come under the radar and don't have to worry about her judging you on first impressions. Every pick up line or opener which is not classified as direct is often referred to as indirect.

The recent history lesson in pick up aside, all openers can be classified into a few simple easy to remember titles. These are.

Functional - A line designed to represent a normal everyday situation that the asker needs help with.

Compliment - A pua opener designed to make the recipient feel good about themselves and notice that you find them attractive

Observational/ Situational - An opening line based on a current situation or event which is significant in some way

Opinion - A line where the pickup artist attempts to gain the other persons opinion on a particular topic. Traditionally the pick up artist asks for a "female opinion"

Routine - A pre written line designed to be memorised and used, although any line can be a routine, typically we use this to cover random lines which are designed to work on their delivery rather than the words. Such as the RSD one above.

Direct - A PUA line designed to illustrate a direct approach, pure truth of intention, where the confidence of the delivery plus natural attraction factors are enough to trigger attraction in the girl.

Introduction - Arguably the best of the bunch, where another person who typically knows the girl introduces and vouches for you being a great guy.

Learning how to use each and every different category of opener is the easiest way to ensure you're equipped to pick up any girl whenever you see her.

Recommended books (free to download):

Sean Nalewanyj - 7 Simple Steps To A Better Body
Michael Webb - A Better Way To Date

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