Ex Boyfriend Drama

Every man has endured the ex boyfriend drama at some point or other in his life. And every woman has dealt with a "not ready to leave" ex boyfriend as well.

But for how long, if at all, should you put up with her ex boyfriend issues? Well, if you're anything like me (and believe me, you are), you wouldn't stick around for very long.

And while she might thrive in the fact that there are two men vying for her attention, you can bet that your patience will wear thin pretty quickly.

The next time she pulls any of the following when it comes to ex boyfriend drama, it's pretty much a guarantee that you should show her the door.

EX BOYFRIEND DRAMA #1

SHE KEEPS HIS PICTURES

They're in her wallet, in her apartment and in her car; she has pictures of her ex boyfriend all over the place and has not taken any measures to get rid of them.

And then she says stupid things like "I look really good in this one, that's why I keep it." How stupid does she think you are? If she were really over her ex boyfriend, and the drama that went with him, she'd be excited to cut his face up into little pieces.

EX BOYFRIEND DRAMA #2

SHE STILL MEETS WITH HIM

After admitting that he made her life a living hell, she opted to meet up with him and try to keep a friendship, even though everyone on earth knows that a bad breakup rarely, if ever, leads to a healthy friendship.

And when you get upset with her, she acts as though you're being irrational. Usually, this is the breaking point for most men. The minute she want to be friends with her ex boyfriend, she should stop mattering to you.

EX BOYFRIEND DRAMA #3

SHE CRIES OVER HIM

It's one thing that she may not be fully over her ex boyfriend. And depending on when the breakup happened, it's even understandable. But crying over him to you is something she should never, ever do.

You don't want to hear about the good, the bad or the ugly. These are things she should be discussing with her girlfriends. If you let her talk to you, there's a very good chance that she'll say something that you probably should never know about her last relationship.

EX BOYFRIEND DRAMA #4

SHE ADMITS THAT SHE SLEPT WITH HIM

She's not sleeping with him now, nor is she "yada, yada, yada-ing" a meeting she had with him, but she does admit to you that immediately after the two of them parted ways, they kept having sex.

Now how in the hell could you trust her after she admits that she got dumped and kept having sex with the very ex boyfriend who rejected her? And how are you to believe that it won't happen again? Especially if she's trying to keep up a friendship (see above)?

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Derek Lamont - The Online Game
Rosa Nouchette Carey - Lover Or Friend
Joseph Matthews - The Boyfriend Is Not An Obstacle

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