Reasons It Great To Be Single

When you're single, especially if it's the first time in a long time, it can be really easy to miss having a partner. It's easy to miss having someone to come home to, to sit across the dinner table from, or snuggle with on the couch.

Crawling into an empty bed is a hard adjustment. But despite all those moments, being single can also furnish you with some of the best times of your life, if you're willing to take advantage of it. Sometimes we just need to open our eyes to all that single life has to offer us.

REASONS WHY ITS GREAT TO BE SINGLE #10

YOU CAN BE SELF-ABSORBED

When with someone, you have another set of needs to fill. It can be easy to put your own aside for your partner's, as there is immense pleasure in taking care of another and in knowing that you're partner is being taken care of.

When single, though, you are able to concentrate solely on yourself. You can answer your every whim and fancy without feeling neglectful. You have been given the gift of selfishness, and can reflect your nurturing instincts onto yourself.

Take the time to really listen to yourself; let what you want bubble up. Reward yourself everyday, and discover the pleasure inherent in giving to only yourself.

REASONS WHY ITS GREAT TO BE SINGLE #9

YOU CAN DO WHATEVER, WHENEVER

Suddenly, whether you realize it or not, you have all the freedom in the world. You can do what you like, however big or small, whenever you like. We all have a pair of favorite ugly pajamas - relegated to the bottom of the drawer no more! Pull them out and wear them all day long if you want.

Watch all the bad television and sappy or T cry freely or masturbate furiously if you need to. Eat ice cream and burgers in bed while reading embarrassingly trashy magazines. Sleep all day, stay up all night. It's all up to you now.

REASONS WHY ITS GREAT TO BE SINGLE #8

YOU CONTROL THE REMOTE CONTROL

One of the major tenets of a relationship is compromise. But, when you're in a relationship of one, you call the shots. Gone are the days of staring blankly at the golf game or Jon or be sucked into the weekend-long Dog Whisperer marathon.

Ultimately, the choice is yours and only yours.

REASONS WHY ITS GREAT TO BE SINGLE #7

YOU CAN FLAUNT THOSE BAD HABITS

We're all human, in all our imperfect glory. But that doesn't mean we want anyone else to know it. When dating, whether consciously or not, a lot of energy is expended on covering up our imperfections. When single, though, you can let them all hang out. Forget wearing your heart on your sleeve, when it's just you, you can be totally open and honest about your bad habits.

In fact, embrace them. Leave those dishes in the sink, wipe your mouth on your sleeve - just make sure to wash that shirt again before you go out. Go to bed without washing your face, leave your dirty laundry on the floor, and forget about making your bed in the morning.

REASONS WHY ITS GREAT TO BE SINGLE #6

YOU CAN BE BAD

Order greasy take-out; have that third glass of wine. Turn the music way up, sing loudly (and badly). Have seconds or thirds of dessert. Dance in your living room naked. Spend a little too much money on something new. Eat a five-course meal. Stay out much too late, sleep in past noon. There's no chance that anyone is going to find out, unless you send them the photos.

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