Are You Convincing Women To Say No To You

Are women saying "No" to you?

DATING ADVICE FOR MEN BY MOUSER SCHWARTZ

MEET THE BASIC REQUIREMENTS: HAVE CONFIDENCE WHILE DATING.

Feeling insecure? Worried that your date won't like you? Don't know if you're even in the same league? Fret not, Mouser Schwartz has a few tips to keep you in the game and having fun.

Perhaps you feel you're often judged too quickly and people don't take the time to get to know you. A pretty woman walks down the street, and sizes you up, toes to teeth, then continues along briskly. No pause for smiling, no accidentally dropping her wallet, no lingering thoughts. She has taken a swift glance and given you a score in less the five seconds.

Well? Well, you can't expect women to automatically walk by and see your inner beauty! If things were that easy supermodels would be dating homeless guys without teeth. And that isn't happening.

You have to convince women they want to be with you. It's a silly notion, but an important notion in the world of dating.

Here's some advice for dating more confidently.

1. BE THE MAN YOU WOULD WANT TO DATE

In order for you to date someone else, you need to be content with yourself. You can't go looking for that other person to complete you or even validate you. You need to be self-assured, have hobbies, like what you do, and most importantly, like yourself. Reverse the roles: would you want to be with someone who didn't have their shit together? It's hard to think that some one's cool when they don't think they're cool themselves.

Think about who you're attracted to

2. BELIEVE THAT DATING IS A GAME YOU CAN WIN.

On some level, dating is a game, but it doesn't have to be tough. You just have to meet the basic requirements, one of which is being assured about who you are. People can smell desperation and dissatisfaction. Actually, they can see it in your body language and hear it in your tone. In writing, you're taught not to use a passive tone. Once I wrote a college essay that my friend ripped apart with red pen. She circled all the passive words in my paper, like "would" and "I think." It was an eye-opener. She said, "From the way you're writing now it seems like the college would be doing you a favor by accepting you. You need to make it seem like you'd be doing them a favor by going there."

If you believe you are a worthy date, you'll resonate this confidence and see the results.

3. BE OKAY WITH SOME FAILURE

Not every date is going to be a perfect match and that is not your fault. You need to be able to see rejection not as a personal attack, but as an indicator that some things are just not meant to be. You won't be right for every girl you meet.

If you can't stomach rejection, think of it this way: you'll survive without the chick. That's important to remember. With or without the girl, you're going to be fine. If you genuinely like yourself, you don't need every chick to like you. Just breathe easy.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Steve Scott - Supreme Confidence With Women
Mary Wood Allen - What A Young Woman Ought To Know
David Deangelo - Double Your Dating How To Change Yourself

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