Ways To Reject Someone

You're in a nightclub with your friends and you really are there to drink and hang out, and while it seems that you're getting hit on left and right, you don't want to be mean about the fact that you are not interested.

So how can you let these people down nicely and keep yourself from seeming like a rotten person who enjoys rejecting the opposite sex by the dozen? Well, there are 10 ways.

WAYS TO REJECT SOMEONE #10

SPEAK A DIFFERENT LANGUAGE

When you notice someone walking toward you with that look people get when they're about to say something slick like "How you doin'?", prepare yourself for it by busting out some Italian, Greek or any other foreign language you know. Hopefully, they don't speak it.

The minute they notice that there is no way the two of you can communicate, they will head in the other direction. Just don't let them hear you laughing and talking about it with your friends as they walk away.

WAYS TO REJECT SOMEONE #9

CREATE A SIGNIFICANT OTHER

It's clich'e but usually works. When they ask your name, just stop them in their tracks by telling them that you appreciate the gesture, but are taken or are married. Most people will respect that and leave you alone.

But there are a select few who don't care if you have a significant other, especially if that significant other is not at the club. It is at this point that you tell them that you're trying to have a baby together.

WAYS TO REJECT SOMEONE #8

THANK THEM

When they approach, answer their questions, but the moment they ask for anything like your information in the way of numbers, email and the like, it's time for you to thank them.

Before you blurt out the big "no", thank them and tell them that you're very flattered, but not interested.

WAYS TO REJECT SOMEONE #7

PLAY FOR THE OTHER TEAM

They approach and tell you that they think you're absolutely gorgeous. You smile and tell them that your boy/girlfriend (point at one of the ladies or guys in your clique if you can) also thinks so.

The problem with this is that it might excite them, and they'll start asking about threesomes and such. Cut them off quickly by telling them that you haven't been with the opposite sex since you were 14 and hopefully they'll get the message loud and clear.

WAYS TO REJECT SOMEONE #6

ACT ANNOYING

There's nothing men and women dislike more than annoying people. And if you're willing, you can take annoying to a whole new level.

After the initial introduction, chew gum loudly and blow bubbles, talk nonstop and use a really annoying voice, and laugh like a snorting pig.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Gregory Godek - 1001 Ways To Be Romantic
Christian Godefroy - How To Overcome Shyness
Fj Shark - How To Be The Jerk Women Love

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