Dealing With Jealousy In A Relationship

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Being Jealous is an unattractive trait to have and can rip relationships apart. If you find yourself getting angry every time she looks at another man and you can't bare to let her out of your site then you need to read on.

Dealing with jealousy can be difficult. Remember that her actions play a part in how you react. So keep this in mind when reading my tips on how to deal with jealousy below.

WHY AM I JEALOUS?

To get to the root of the problem you need to ask yourself why you are jealous. Your feelings are created due to past experiences that you have collected in your mind over time. This could be the following:

* Ex-girlfriends have cheated on you in the past
* You cheat on her so you feel that she must do the same
* You are not used to a woman that likes to socialise with both male and female friends
* You take drugs, which can make you paranoid
* Your insecure and feel that she is too good for you
* She has had lots of sexual partners which makes you uncomfortable
* She has a high sex drive and you feel if you are not around she will find someone else
* You feel your relationship is too good to be true and that it will end one day

TALK TO HER FRIENDS

Talk to those who know her best. Get to know more about her life and let them reassure you what a great woman you have. Becoming a part of her social world, (i.e. her world without you) you might begin to see that she isn't a cheat as you might once thought.

GO OUT WITH HER

If you think that every time she goes out on her own that she is looking for her next shag, then go out with her and find out how harmless her nights out really are. Meet all of her friends, especially her male friends and you will begin to realise that you have been letting your imagination run away with you.

BE FLATTERED

If you see a man checking your girl out from across the bar, then take it as a compliment. Remember that you are the one taking her home to bed tonight.

REMEMBER WHAT IT'S LIKE APPROACHING WOMEN

Think back to how hard you found it picking up women. It is likely other men find it hard too. Every time a man approaches your woman he will get rejected. Knowing others are struggling is a good way to get over jealousy.

SEEK PROFESSIONAL ADVICE

If you feel like your jealous feelings are out of control and you cant sort them out yourself then seek advice from a professional.

If you feel insecure and that you are not a match for your male competitors, then invest some of your time in self improvement. Get fit, read self help books and improve your appearance.

REMEMBER

If she wants to cheat then she will just go ahead and do it. So instead of worrying about her every move, and calling her a hundred times a day, live your life to the full and enjoy it. Don't let jealousy bring you down!

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

John Shore - Seven Reasons Women Stay In Abusive Relationships
Tyler Durden - Building Jealousy Into A Sarge

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