Conversations With Your Boyfriend

It does not matter whether you have just gotten into a relationship or you are in a relationship already. You have to remember that having and keeping good and open relationships with your boyfriend through communication is very important to make it last long and happy. You might need to have some fresh conversational topics for you and your boyfriend. Perhaps you are fed up with the same topics that you have been talking about back then, such as his favorite sports team or the latest program on television. You could bring life to those boring conversations by finding some fun topics to talk about. A good topic in conversation is a way to know more about your boyfriend, as well as strengthening the bonds of relationships through open communication.

Even though you are not one of those couples who have enough money to go on deluxe vacation at awe-inspiring places, you can still talk about your dream vacation with your boyfriend. You can ask him about the place that he would want to visit with you, the reason why he want to take you there, and what things he wants to do at that place. By asking such, you could discover things that you wouldn't know if you have not asked, such as he might be fond of beaches and he is not telling you because he's does not know how to swim. Share your dream vacation with your boyfriend as well. Sharing is very important to relationships, as it will set a good mood of imagining things and setting goals to achieve your common dreams with each other. This kind of conversation can be used to create ideas on planning for honeymoons for relationships taken to the next level.

Even though conversations about the future can sometimes lead to fights, they could also be used in a positive way to strengthen the bonds of relationships. If you and your boyfriend are still attending school, ask him about his plans after he finishes his degree. Brainstorm about your future career paths and how you can express your support to each other's career. Consider more fun topics about your future as a couple as well. This is important in relationships, as these topics will allow you and your boyfriend look upon at the future in a positive way without pressuring yourselves.

If you do not want to take about your future as a couple just yet, you could switch to the past. Everyone within relationships will have fun time sharing funny stories of his or her childhood days, and so you will with your boyfriend. Try to ask him about his most embarrassing or most funny moment as a child or as a schoolboy. In return, share your unforgettable moments as a little girl as well. Through this lighthearted topic, you can know more about your boyfriend's past life, his past attitude, his dreams as a child, and his relationships with different family members and friends while enjoying the time together.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Leil Lowndes - Conversation Confidence Workbook
Rachel Davis - Conversation King

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