A Week In The Life Of A Pua Trainer And Ceo Part 2

PUATraining

Thursday 1st Feb

I've just come off a few days of solid training so I have to catch up on other stuff. I'm writing my ebook, it's already long enough - 37,000 words, but I need to tweak it and tighten it up and make a few additions. I have a little bit more to do on it, probably around 10 hours. Positive feedback on the draft version, and I am trying to make it the best PU book there is. My USP is that I had to learn everything from scratch, my game is learned natural game, and I can break down stuff very well and answer pretty much any question. I read the material for 6 months before I started gaming and it didn't help me too much, I want this book to be the thing I needed when I had no game.

Something else that takes a long time is answering emails, booking people in to the events, and making website edits. I have a great guy who does web design and web marketing, he works hard on things, and I have an assistant who comes in for 30 or so hours a week and does various stuff - mainly admin but some more interesting stuff too. He's not so confident and wants more success with women, he's only 18 though and he is going to his first training events this weekend!

In the evening I have 4 hours 1on1 with an American guy. He's good, naturally cocky funny and comfortable in set. I identify the main problem for him will be smoothly leading into a kiss (because he needs to tone down his energy & C&F at some point) and also he has short attention span and doesn't seem to listen too well to the girls!

FRIDAY

Today I have to get ready for the bootcamp, the venue, the staff, etc. I also have a 2on1 in the evening. Kezia and I are working with an American guy who has been in London a few months. He came to a bootcamp and wants further fine-tuning. This is a great session. We spend two hours with him. We sit in the bar, I have an MP3 recorder on at all times, and I video some of the interaction. By watching and listening closely, I'm able to give minute adjustments to everything. Basic things - he wasn't holding eye contact so her attention wandered, he smiled too much for no reason - it comes across as approval seeking. Various other things. He's already improved loads from the bootcamp and during the two hour session we made further adjustments that made an immediate impact. Kezia also gives her feedback and we run through some conversational exercises. He can take away the MP3 and video on a DVD, he'll be surprised when he sees and hears himself and will be able to see exactly what he should be doing differently.

SATURDAY & SUNDAY - WEEKEND BOOTCAMP

Another bootcamp weekend, we have gotten these pretty tight by now. The venue is good, the staff know what they are doing, and things run almost like clockwork. I worked on the timetable and content whilst away on holiday and now the guys are much better prepared. The bootcamp is in a real bar - we hire out a section downstairs. We don't have a flipchart and we don't have loads of theory that you can read in books. No 93% of communication is non-verbal, or the 50-60 people tribe and being mercilessly rooted out of existence.

We spend about 5 mins introducing the company and staff, meet each of the attendees and then get straight into body language exercises. We have lots of practical exercises and it is as interactive as possible. We do 3 hours in the bar on pre-opening to the hook point (body language, opening, transitions, skills of the natural).

Then we do some day-game. When we come back, we work on mid-game (comfort, routines, rapport, connecting) and end-game: closing & kino escalation to physical closes and winging. 5 1/2 hours in, the girls come in, the bar is now somewhat full so it is very realistic and the guys practice various scenarios on the girls, this lasts 2 hours and is followed by the feedback session. We get to see here what we need to work on with each guy and can make adjustments. When the guys have been talking to our hot girls for 2 hours they are already "in the zone" when they go to the club.

We have a good group this week, all pretty easy to teach, pick it up quickly etc. The guys get multiple closes in the club, kisses and numbers. 2 guys nearly get ONSs. Only logistical problems stop them. I demo opening a 3-set, instant isolation, rapid escalation to k-close on hot blonde in front of 4 students. N-close & date arranged. After the bootcamp I leave to meet my girl and we go to my place and watch an episode of LOST and I unwind from the weekend.

Sunday we cover inner game, sex skills, fashion, day 2 system, text and phone game, NLP, cold reading, push-pull, frame control, state, and story-telling. We do more day-game and hit the club again in the night. It's more chilled out Sunday so interactions are longer. The guys get more closes, some good day-game closes too. Sunday night I demo a rapid escalation on hot, hot Russian. I touch her boobs, kiss her, and even touch her pussy by opening the zip on her jeans.

It's Sunday night after the bootcamp and I come back, the week ahead involves: a 2 on 1 with some guys coming over from Ireland for Monday, Tuesday & Wednesday. Thursday I have an 12 hour 1on1. Friday we have the Approach course, Saturday the 1-day bootcamp. After that, I've tried to keep my diary clear so that I can work on the ebook etc.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Robert Cialdini - Harnessing The Science Of Persuasion
Gordon Ray Parker - Fox Hunting The Art Of Dating And Seduction
James Friesen - The Fine Art Of Attraction And Seduction

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