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My girlfriend is awesome and I love her to death but she keeps hanging around with these loser girlfriends who plant stupid ideas into her head. Every time she comes home after being with them, we end up in a fight.

How can I get her to stop hanging out with these loser chicks but make it seem like it was her idea?

LEE

Lee, there is a way to make this work in your favor. To start, telling her to stop hanging out with them will only fuel her desire to be with them. So don't do that.

Instead, every time she plans to go out with them, disappear. Go out with the boys, or, if you don't live together, spend the night at your place that evening. The minute she tells you she's going to out with them, steer clear of her.

Eventually, her subconscious will conclude that whenever she's with them, it has a negative impact on your relationship. At this point, you'll realize if she's more into you than them. If she doesn't care about you disappearing, then you know it's time to go.

But if she starts ditching them to be with you, then my work here is done.

"CAN FRIENDS BE LOVERS?

There's this guy I've been friends with for years and I have recently developed a crush on him. I don't know what changed exactly, but I really want to ask him out. What are the signs that he might be interested in me too?

CAROL

If you've been friends for years, he probably doesn't look at you in any other way. So your objective should be to get him to notice you in a different light.

Perhaps if you're set to go out together, spend some more time gussying up so that he might notice you in a different light. But again, that might not work.

Your best bet, however, is to disappear from his life for a little while and return in a month or two; maybe then he'll look at you differently when you tell him you're interested.

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Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Tyler Durden - Girls Who Want To Be Forced
Rosa Nouchette Carey - Lover Or Friend

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