The Fundamental Problem With Men

Guys have undergone a significant change in the last half of the twentiethcentury, and early into the 2000s. A significant part of the male population has grownup as children of single-parent families, and custody has been mostly left with themothers.As a result, men seek approval like never before. We either had mothers thatover-protected us, or were never there. And then we lacked good male role models. Wegrew up learning that our mothers were always there for us, and the way to get whatwe wanted was through female approval. We wanted mommy to approve of us, so wedid what she said we ought to. So, while on one hand we were being conditioned toseek approval from women as our sense of validation, on the other hand we believedthe fictitious nonsense they filled us with regarding how to treat women.

“Always respect a woman,” they would tell us, which is true, but they neverexplained that the best way to respect a woman is to show some backbone and grow aset of balls. “Be nice to girls,” they told us. Nice, huh? So men were left on their own tointerpret “nice” to mean: “bend over backwards and supplicate like a wimp.”We are entering a new age, where men are losing touch with their masculinity. Itis going to take an active education of the masses to get this message out to guyseverywhere, but in the age of the Internet, I’m hopeful that we can get there. You see,a hundred years ago, a book like this wasn’t necessary. Men assumed a leadership role,and while that age of society may not have respected feelings (as today’s society seemsso obsessed by), it did allow for a clearly defined gender role. Today’s men and womenseem so confused by what was once the easiest thing in the world to understand: whata man and woman’s roles are.Now, I’m not some kind of chauvinist that believes that women are only good ifthey’re barefoot and pregnant, or that they shouldn’t have an equal footing with men inauthority and earnings in the workplace.

What I have been witnessing in the last 30 orso years (especially in the workplace) is the feminization of men and themasculinization of women. Unfortunately, we haven’t been taking on the good traits ofeither gender. Men have been getting wimpy, passive, and approval-seeking. Womenhave been getting bossy and aggressive. (The unfortunate thing about America is thatour corporate pecking order has convinced women that they need to assume the worsttraits of men to make it in business.) Men are trying to be women; and women aretrying to be men. It’s no surprise that everyone is unhappy with the “single’s scene”today. Nobody knows who they are.This article is necessary today because men and women are losing their essentialsexuality. Seduction is a part of that sexuality that is necessary. It’s not a bad,manipulative act; it’s a validating and affirming act. As men, we owe it to women tobecome what we once were: strong, decisive, and confident.

Suggested reading (free books):

Steve Scott - Supreme Confidence With Women
David Deangelo - The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes You Probably Make With Women

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