Flirting Techniques

FLIRTING MINUS THE PSYCHO

How can a man flirt with a woman without seeming like a psycho? I've read about eye contact and the like, but it all just seems too contrived. Can you recommend something?

Ian

Flirting is a whole lot easier for women than it is for men, that's for sure. But there are subtle things you can do to let a woman know you're interested. The eye contact thing is a good start. Now I'm not suggesting you stare her down; just look into her eyes and when she meets yours, smile and look down.

FOCUS ON THE CONVERSATION AT HAND, NOT ON PICKING HER UP. BUT DONT WAIT FOREVER TO ASK FOR HER NUMBER. GET IN WITHIN 5 MINUTES AND THEN LET HER GET ON WITH HER DAY (NIGHT).

PIQUE HER CURIOSITY BY SAYING SOMETHING THAT SHE WILL FOLLOW UP WITH A QUESTION; THERES SOMETHING ABOUT YOU THAT TELLS ME YOURE THE GOOD GIRL TYPE.

AMY

ALL THE SINGLE LADIES" AM OVER 40 AND STILL SINGLE. MY MOM HAS ALREADY TOLD ME TO GIVE UP BECAUSE MEN YOUNGER THAN ME JUST WANT A COUGAR TO TELL THEIR FRIENDS ABOUT AND MEN MY AGE WANT WOMEN YOUNGER THAN ME. DO I HAVE TO DATE AN 80-YEAR-OLD OR SHOULD I JUST RESOLVE TO BEING A SPINSTER?

RHEA

Ah, our mothers. We love them so much but there is the odd occasion when choking them sounds delightful. What you need right now are some words of encouragement.

BELIEVE IT OR NOT, THERE ARE MEN OUT THERE WHO ARE IN YOUR AGE BRACKET AND WANT TO DATE WOMEN WHO HAVE A TOUCH MORE SOPHISTICATION THAN YOUR AVERAGE 20-SOMETHING. OF COURSE, THEY ALSO WANT WOMEN WHO ARE FIT AND EXCITING; NO ONE LIKES A COMPLAINING FATTY WHO HATES ON THE WORLD.

YOU HAVE TO BE MORE PROACTIVE ABOUT THIS. CREATE SOME ONLINE DATING PROFILES, GO OUT FOR A NICE DINNER WITH THE GIRLS, CATCH A BASEBALL GAME, GO TO A WINE-TASTING EVENT. GET OUT THERE AND MEET YOUR MAN; HES NOT GOING TO FALL FROM THE SKY, NO MATTER WHAT THE WEATHER GIRLS SAY.

AMY

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

J Siverthorn - Advanced Hypnotic Techniques
Michael Webb - Dating Exercises
Linda Martz - Massage Techniques

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