How To Get The Perfect Boyfriend Tips During Dates

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Blame the movies, the books and the sappy music that has given us the idea that someday, someone out there will be the perfect person for us; and that someone is wondering where you are too. The thing is, if people will just take a look around, they will realize that those "perfect couples" do exist, and they are all ready to sign their divorce papers. Before you even make another problem on how to keep a relationship burning, the first thing you need to do is to get a date in order to get a boyfriend. Here's how.

* ME! ME! ME! Sure, you have lots of funny, witty, cute stories that you think that your prospective boyfriend will like. However, stop making everything on the date to be about you. There will be other dates when you can talk about your stories. Let him have his share of stories, too. Who knows? This exchange may even spark something beautiful.
* DITCH TALKING ABOUT THE EX. In any conversation with your prospective boyfriend, try to exercise talking about all your previous relationships with him. If you would tell how good your ex is, he will think that he can't measure up to the guy or that you are still hung up on him. On the other hand, when you bash your ex boyfriend in front of him, he will think what a bitter ex-girlfriend you are and that you may even do the same thing to him - bash him once you break up. Once you do this, it will be harder to get a boyfriend.
* SAY CHEESE! How to get a boyfriend tip number three: smile. As they have said, you may never know who falls for it, maybe your next boyfriend will. Aside from smiling, allow your date to see some warmth from you. Be nice, the guy you're with is nervous, too. Lower your guard and allow him to get a hug or a kiss on the cheek from you.
* BE TRADITIONAL GIRLY. To get a boyfriend, be feminine. This goes beyond wearing dresses on a date, allow the guy to be his own man. Do not debate on trivial things like in choosing food, drinks or during conversations. Its okay to give a piece of mind but don't try to castrate him this early. It's a date, not a competition.
* GO BEYOND THE LOOKS. This has been said over and over before you get a boyfriend. Don't be frazzled by how the man shows himself on the first date. Get to know him first before thinking about making him your boyfriend. Talk to him to get to know him.
* BE HIS PERSONAL CHALLENGE. To get a boyfriend and make a man take notice, become his own challenge. All men love a good challenge, especially in women that they are pursuing. Once you come to this stage, let him know that you like him, but do not throw yourself at him. Remember, easy girls often get rejected at the end. Be a bit hard to get, and at the end of the day, this man will be your boyfriend.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Real Social Dynamics - How To Get Her Chasing You
Joseph Matthews - The Boyfriend Is Not An Obstacle

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