Landing Back With The Ex

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A break up is one of the most avoided situations of all relationships. It is hard to go through, hard to admit and hard to face. However, when you're already in the situation, you just want to think of the ways on to get back the happy moments you had with your boyfriend, right? That is why this article came, to help all women out there to get back with the ex. Yes, you may be asking if it's possible, but many people have tried doing this already and it worked. I had a girlfriend in the past that made it possible to get back with the ex of hers before we met. But it seems like they are not really meant for each other. I realized then that there is really a time and a reason for things. For you who's reading this, it's worth giving a try. Let your ex go back through the help of these tips.

TIP #1: STOP CRYING AND BEING EMOTIONAL

You may cry but not for long. Do not grumble and sob for all your life just because of the break up. If you do this, your ex might just think he was right to let you go because your whole world already surrounds him. Remember that many people had experience the pain of break ups too. Be calm and to get back with the ex, have a plan ready. Think of the reasons why you and your ex parted ways and reflect on what you can do to mend things.

TIP #2: DO NOT PUT PRESSURE ON YOUR GUY

Do not ever chase your ex. Do not mess him with lots of emails or text. He may avoid you and there's no chance of patching things up. Also, let him be the one to seek you out if he initiates reconciliation. A single apology is enough but do not keep on saying sorry just for you to get back with the ex, this will just make him think that it was your entire fault. Your ex should know that you can move on but he is still part of your life.

TIP #3: BE CASUAL WHEN YOU MEET HIM AGAIN

Yes, you have to meet again even if it hurts. If you want to get back with the ex, you'll find chance to meet your ex again for a group date or friendly date. When you do meet him, dress up in a nice way and be confident. To get back with the ex, do not speak again of the things why you broke up. Smile and speak with him like he is your friend. Your ex will surely be reminded of why he fell in love with you in the first place. Feel good about yourself and don't worry.

It would be helpful if you have something else to work with while doing 'the plan.' Do not stay too much focus on getting back with the ex. Consider reasons why the two of you broke up. Probably you are losing time for yourself and this is the only way for you to pamper yourself. Maybe you expect too much from your ex and this is the only way for him to feel free. Be open- minded and be positive.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Mc Croskey - Public Speaking Fact Sheet
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