How Men Fall In Love

Contrary to popular belief, men would much rather seek true love than meeting a girl once and never again. Good food, laughter, and a woman to love - this will satisfy the primal desires of any man. So how do they fall in love? At what point do you infiltrate their minds as you accompany them to sleep in their dreams? At what point do you become the face of their motivation as they ascend their goals?

PROTECTIVE INSTINCT

* Men are biologically programmed to desire to protect their mates just as women are programmed to seek a man capable of protecting them. Let yourself be open, let yourself be held. Allow him into your vulnerabilities and he will respond with intensity. Activate his male protective instinct and you will experience a side of him you've never felt before. The allure of being the prince in shining armor is irresistible and will draw out his sentimental side cultured by all those Disney movies he watched as a kid.
* Ask him to do things for you, do things to let him show his masculine side. Hold out your hand for him to grasp. Wear soft clothes to accentuate his firmness. In essence, let him be the man you always dreamed of and he will be exactly that.

FREEDOM:

* Men will gladly sacrifice themselves for you. They are happy to be "your" man. But at the same time, they have to be their own man. Nothing is more important to a man than his own self-confidence and identity. That is who he is. He will graciously play to your tune, but the moment he feels chained to that tune, he will start losing his sense of self. This compromises his confidence in himself, which subsequently comprises his feeling of power to be "your" man.
* So what can you do? Respect his idiosyncrasies and fears. In fact, show him your own! Reinvent yourself. Show him all the faucets of your personality. Give him the reassurance that the two of you are in the same boat. Let him be his own man. If that means, not touching his sacred watch, that's nothing against you, every guy is just weird in their own way. Let him love you. In his own way and love him for that.

COCKINESS

* It's his testosterone speaking. It makes him feel good. There's nothing like a good fight to get a guy's body running; and if that fight is over a girl, well that's even better because you are tapping into his protective instinct. If just by being around you increases his self-esteem both internally and in the eyes of other, you will be satisfying that aspect of his desire to one-up the guy next to him. By demonstrating high value, he will intrinsically desire to increase his own value for you.
* Make him happy. If his face is shining with a smile every time he sees you, good thoughts will always be associated with you. When he's stressed out, he will know you can make him happy and that is an indispensable quality. Make him feel happy. If he sees every other guy eyeing you, that will raise his cockiness through the roof because he sees how desirable you are, thus increasing ten-fold his own attraction for you.

To summarize, love as irrational as it is, is largely a chemical process. Falling love is simply a process of attachment. By allowing him to enter a state where he no longer thinks about the relationship, but rather simply enjoys it, that's when he truly begins to feel the pangs of love. Be yourself. Have fun with yourself. And love yourself. When he sees how comfortable and sexy you are with yourself, he will be innately attracted. Love is simply a state of mind and when you love yourself, he will be completely in love with you as well.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Scott Peck - Dating And Falling In Love
Leil Lowndes - How To Make Anyone Fall In Love With You
Dh Lawrence - Women In Love

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