Does He Want Me

I met a guy at a bar and we exchanged phone numbers and he called me the next day to set up a double date. That went well and then we spent some time together at my place a few days after that.

He then asked me out for lunch, and that was great. I really like this guy, but I'm wondering if he just wants to be friends. We kissed once, but it's only because I made the move.

It's been two weeks and I feel like he's not showing the interest I'm used to from men. Is it me, or am I onto something here?

CASSIE

It's possible that it's just you. Perhaps this guy isn't very sexually experienced and wants to make sure you like him before he takes you to bed.

When you kissed him, did he seem to like it? Or did he back away?

I recommend that you tell him what you're thinking. Tell him that you like him and want to take things to the next level. He will either tell you that he wants to move in the same direction or that you're better off just being friends.

Either way, you will have your answer and take it from there. There's no reason why you shouldn't ask him what he wants from you.

"THE LESBIAN AFFAIR

I am a straight guy and recently became friends with this girl who just moved into my neighborhood. She and I hung out and grabbed a few drinks couple of times. We seem to have a good connection and have a great time around each other.

However, I spotted her holding hands and being overly affectionate with her female friends. I want to have a relationship with her but I am afraid that she is a lesbian (I really hope not!). I want us to be more intimate but I don't wish to risk my friendship either.

What should I do?

TY

Hmm, the thing is that many women are affectionate with their girlfriends without being lesbians, so the fact that she's touchy with her girls really means nothing.

The next time you go out for drinks with her, ask her if she's dating anyone else. If she says no, go in for the kiss (but please make sure you're in an appropriate setting). She will either kiss you back or back away and say that that's not how she rolls.

It's also quite possible that she likes both men and women. If that's the case, you will have to decide if that's acceptable for you.

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Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Tyler Durden - Girls Who Want To Be Forced
Nicholas Hill - Don Juan Boot Camp
Dr Peter Davies - Hopes And Fears

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