Online Dating Secrets

Where to meet people online:

There are a million places to meet people online. The current favorites are mainstream dating sites like Perfect Match, Lavalife, Match.com, Yahoo Personals, eHarmony, Date.com and PlentyOfFish. But dating sites aren't the only places to look for singles. Try social networking sites like Facebook and MySpace, rating sites, chat rooms, blogs, discussion and interest groups. The only thing stopping you from finding singles online is your own imagination.

Online basics:

Once you pick out the online dating company that best meets your needs, you will be expected to create a profile. This will often include choosing a name, picking a headline, writing a couple paragraphs about yourself, and uploading a photo. Creating an effective profile will take some time and effort to complete.

The main mistake online daters make is just slapping something together in a matter minutes and sending messages off to everyone they're interested in. Then, wondering why they don't get any replies. Invest some time into your profile. Pick the perfect name. Choose a snappy headline. Write a couple intriguing paragraphs. Upload an engaging photo. Send off a magical first message. And watch the responses pour in.

Name:

Not any name will do. Your online name should create intrigue, project confidence and catch the viewer's eye. Stop panicking. It's easier than it sounds. All you need to do is find a word that suits your personality and captures the imagination... and expand upon it. Adventure can be turned into ManOfAdventure or AdventureInc. Challenge can turned into UpForTheChallenge or twisted into BattleOfWits.

Avoid locking yourself into a single hobby or profession. These names are always too basic (Bikechick, Surfdude) to separate you from your online competition. Viewers will just assume you're a bland stereotype of whatever you list. An easy way to avoid this is to combine two contrasting attributes. A doctor who loves to bike can combine the two into Bikedoctor. An accountant who loves to surf can be Numbersurfer.

Be sure to never use your real name. Make them earn it. Keep yourself shrouded in mystery and intrigue for as long as possible. Also avoid picking a name that will impress your friends (Dominatrix, RonJeremy69247) but do nothing to impress the opposite sex. Anything overly sexual, threatening, or demeaning will land you in the garbage bin.

Recommended books (free to download):

Earl Nightingale - The Strangest Secret
David Deangelo - Double Your Dating Sex Secrets
Brian Caniglia - Online Dating Secrets

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