How To Attract Better Guys

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Beware Mr. Perfect. I say this because perfection doesn't exist. If he appears perfect, it should signal that there is definitely something amiss. I have known many girls who fall for what they think is 'the one.' He is handsome and charming, smart with the perfect words for every situation. But the thing is those girls never ended up actually knowing him. It was not him they were attracted to, it was their idealization. And by viewing him through this rose-tinted lens, they were unable to see that he didn't hold them in the same regard that they did him; that his charm was purely for self-gratification, his words practiced, and his genuineness completely absent. Be smart in your social life. A good general rule of thumb is if he seems too good to be true, he probably isn't. Stay clear from men who get very cozy on the first date, who become inappropriately touchy or who try to sell themselves to you by talking about romantic dates you will have in the future. These are telltale signs of fakers and you should try to stay away from and end these types of relationship as early as possible.

On a similar note, if you feel you are Mrs. Perfect, yet you are attracting losers, you need to subconsciously evaluate whether you are sending signals that they might be picking up on. It is important to be aware of the vibe you are sending out to men. Many jerks will go after women with low self-esteem and that can be easily persuaded to their tune. In order to attract respectful, kind, and faithful men, psych yourself up with a positive attitude before going out.

Now all you need is to find the right place to find the right guy. According to experts, philanthropic events usually attract the reliable, honest, and faithful types. Another good tip is to hang out with your friends, family, or coworkers because you're more likely meet someone who is more similar to and have the same core values than you would at a single's bar. Another great trick to use once you have been on a few dates is to check out his apartment. If his place is littered with alcohol, expensive televisions, and toys like video games and a pool table, this could be a telling sign that he is actually a player. By taking the proper steps of being well versed in your understanding of what type of person he is, it will allow you the peace and comfort of mind that he really is who he says he is and that version of him is the person that you love.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Debra Benton - How To Act Like A Ceo
Steve Carter - How To Attract Girls In 3 Important Steps
Reef Styles - How To Attract Online Women In Easy Way

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