Thursday, July 29, 2010

Sexual Attraction

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How do you learn how to pick up girls? What is the secret to picking up girls? These are some questions that I am going to try to answer in this article. I can't fit everything there is to know about how to pick up girls in this article, but I want to give you a few pointers that hopefully will help.

So let's talk about how to pick up girls. Picking up girls can be an easy and fun thing to do once you have learned how to do it. All it takes is the right information and a little practice. After that, you will be picking up girls without any problem. You will even start using the techniques without even knowing it and picking up girls accidentally.



To be able to pick up girls, you have to be able to find them in places where they are interested in talking to other people. You can always try bars but it can be difficult to compete with all the other men. Coffee shops, book stores and dog parks are great once you learn how to pick girls up, but they can be nerve racking if you are just starting out.

For beginners who are just learning how to pick up girls, the best way to start is to join clubs, organizations or co-ed sports teams. You can find tons of these right in your home town and they are packed with girls. The reason these are so good for beginners is because it takes away the cold approach and lets you start talking to the girls in a social environment. Through the groups you will naturally start to interact with the girls. After you start talking to them, it is up to your other pick up skills to seal the deal.


Learning to flirt is a keystone of knowing how to pick up girls. Once you have made contact with a girl, you attract her by knowing how to flirt. Flirting is the way a guy builds attraction in a girls mind and ultimately seduces her.

There is a lot of great information on flirting out there so I am not going to cover it all here. My favorite flirting course does an amazing job of teaching everything you need to know about flirting. When you really want to learn to flirt, check out Conversation Chemistry. Being able to flirt is the most important attraction skill. Knowing how to do it properly will turn you into a pick up artist.

A few tips I have about flirting are to keep it light and fun. If you are having fun, she is having fun. Try to smile, laugh and keep the conversation light and interesting. Also, if you can make her laugh during the conversation it will go a long way to building attraction. By doing this, you will be learning how to pick up girls.


One formula for how to pick up girls is the meet, greet, leave and comeback formula. For this formula to work, you first have to meet the girl. You can do this with any approaching method. See my other articles for more tips. After you have met her, introduce yourself. This is the greet part. The key to this part is to remember her name if she introduces herself back.

After the introductions are completed, kindly excuse yourself for some reason. You then need to wait a while before approaching her again. This shows her that you are not a needy guy. After a little while, re-approach her. By this point, you will have laid the foundation for great attraction. When you do re-approach her, use her name and start a conversation. When you talk to her, make sure to flirt so you build the attraction.

By doing these three things, you will have taken a big step toward learning how to pick up girls. Make sure you continue to learn how to pick up girls and practice what you learn in the real world. Soon you will be able to pick up almost any girl you want!


Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Dan Bacon - Attraction 101
Vin Dicarlo - The Attraction Code
Carlos Xuma - The Art Of Attraction


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