I got started in pickup out of necessity.
She was going to school in Chicago and I lived in Austin. She admitted that she liked me before she left and kissed me. I thought I was in love, so I resolved to wait for her to get back to Austin.
We were meant for each other, right?
Wrong. After three years of never talking and her getting serious with her new Chicago boyfriend, I heard through a mutual friend that she was planning on going to grad school there after college.
Finally it hit me how stupid it was to wait for a girl who barely remembered that I existed. Being a huge nerd, I did the only thing I
could think of doing - I searched Google.
"Pick up girls"
I was fortunate enough to land on fastseduction.com where I began to absorb every last bit of information that I could find.
I knew that IF this stuff was real then I'd have to fully dedicate myself to it. I'd take off as much time as necessary, doing nothing but pickup, until I was good.
So I bought a plane ticket to a sold out DYD conference in Chicago that I didn't have a ticket to. Embarrassed about my new hobby, I lied to everyone and told them I was visiting a friend there. The truth was that I didn't know a single person there - I was just hoping I could run into them in the lobby and see a glimpse of this amazing skill called "pickup".
I got lucky. I made friends with one of the guys from RSD, and as the rest of the crew joined one by one, no one questioned me being part of the group. By the end of the first night, I was sitting in on a RSD workshop for free.
And I was blown away. I saw Tyler pick up Miss Indiana right in front of her boyfriend. As soon as I saw that, I knew what my life was going to look like for the next few years.
Three weeks later I had my important belongings packed into my car, and left my less important belongings in my house which I was abandoning. I was headed to LA to live in Project Hollywood with the best pickup artists in the world, most of whom I'd never met.
They all took me under their wings. For several months I became friends with and learned from the legends of the game : Mystery, Style, Tyler, Papa, Ross, Twentysix, and Sickboy.
When RSD and Mystery split I had become good enough to teach with Mystery. We toured the country teaching hundreds of guys in workshops all across the US.
Eventually we had our falling out that was chronicled in The Game and I headed back to Austin.
Life was good. Getting girlfriends was easy, and our relationships were rock solid. Strangely, all of the girls I knew in LA kept calling me, even years after I had left.
That's when I realized something. Most of my game was learned from the guys in Hollywood, but there was one thing I figured out for myself that I could do better than them - I could keep girls' interest indefinitely and they would LOVE me. When we broke up they'd invariably try to get back together with me, sometimes for years after.
It dawned on me that this wasn't just because of things I did AFTER we got together, but rather that elements of my pickup style from the very beginning were causing girls to become attached to me from day one.
So I wrote a book about everything I'd learned and everything I'd discovered. More than just a pickup manual, it was the bible of how I live a life that's happy, genuine, honest, and of course full of girls. The book is called "Make Her Chase You", because my style results in girls chasing and pursuing you, rather than the other way around.
MORE FROM HERBAL
For 2008 I've decided to become more disciplined. Part of that is going to be a weekly schedule where I write on my blogs :
BetterThanYourBoyfriend.com - my personal blog.
LifeNomadic.com - a blog about my world traveling adventures of 2008.
BestInTheLand.com - a blog about the best things in the world.
And of course this guest column on the best pickup blog out there, SEDUCTION CHRONICLES.
Before I got into pickup I used to read a column called Doc Love. Every week he'd answer someone's question about a problem they were having.
It was fascinating stuff and I waited to read it every week. Later, when I learned how to ACTUALLY meet women, I discovered that his advice wasn't all that great.
STARTING NEXT WEEK I'LL TAKE QUESTIONS FROM YOU GUYS.
Send me a short e-mail to WEEKLY@MAKEHERCHASEYOU.COM with the following:
1. 3-5 paragraphs describing your situation
2. What your question is.
I'll pick the best one every week to answer, and will send a copy of my book, my hidden microphone program, my book about wingmanship AND a membership to my 30 day interactive pickup course "The Pickup Lab" FREE to help out the person whose e-mail I pick.
Until next week,
"TYNAN A.K.A. HERBAL"
Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):
Derek Vitalio - Seduction Science Volume IiiKeanu Jagger - Nonverbal Sexual Cuing
Major Mark Cunningham - An Introduction To Stage Hypnosis Compact Edition
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