How To Be An Alpha Male

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I admit that I used to all but crap my pants when a hot chick came around, and I thought I would never be able to approach a beautiful woman without peeing a little. Man, how I longed to be AN ALPHA MALE.

But then, one day, it hit me. Beautiful women are people just like the rest of us. Their sh*t smells too, and picturing a beautiful woman on the crapper changed everything for me.

Now I'm an alpha male and have no problems approaching beautiful women all day long, thanks to the following measures I took.

HOW TO BE AN ALPHA MALE

1- GET PHYSICALLY FIT

If you want to feel the part, you have to look the part, and looking physical fit will get the eyes on you - even if your face looks like a dog chewed on it.

A guy who takes care of his body by eating right and working out is a guy that women want to be around. And touch.

HOW TO BE AN ALPHA MALE

2- DOMINATE IN SOMETHING

Choose something you're already good at and become the best at it. Whether it's giving financial advice, playing soccer, or fixing cars, your objective is to become the go-to guy in the genre you dominate.

Women are turned on by men who are the best at something. And this also feeds your alpha male instincts. Rule in some facet of your life and your ego will thank you for it.

HOW TO BE AN ALPHA MALE

3- FORGET ABOUT IMPRESSING ANYONE

When you spend all your time trying to please those around you, you start to look like a "nice guy" who has no backbone.

Now I'm not suggesting that you tell anyone who asks you for a favor to go f*ck themselves, but a little bit of backbone and no regard for everyone else's opinion can take you far in life and with the beautiful women.

This, in turn, will build upon your alpha male status. Of course, impressing them just by being who you are will come with the territory.

HOW TO BE AN ALPHA MALE

4- DONT LET OTHERS AFFECT YOU

At least in public. It's not easy to be affected by what others say or do to you, but if you start sulking like a chick, that's exactly the way you'll be treated. And I have yet to meet a man who wants to be treated like a 12-year-old kid.

Whether you get rejected or some guy lights your date's cigarette, just brush it off like it's nothing and move on without a hitch. You're the man, the alpha male.

HOW TO BE AN ALPHA MALE

5- LEARN TO ADAPT

Learning how to adapt to situations in which you are uncomfortable is probably the hardest part of becoming an alpha male. What I did was toss myself into situations where I was incredibly uncomfortable and learned to work the situation in my favor.

I would eat alone in swanky restaurants and engage in sports I've never played before. It wasn't just to see what happens; it was to learn what my initial reaction would be and what I would have to do to change that into a positive thing.

This way, when the beautiful woman you just approached invites you to a party at her sexy best friend's penthouse, you won't feel awkward going in because you'll know how to adapt yourself to it.

HOW TO BE AN ALPHA MALE

6- DEVELOP A CODE FOR WOMEN

There are certain rules that we all live by although we do not write them out on paper and put them up on the fridge. But in life, you must create a code for yourself and stick to it.

Too often, men tend to give in to beautiful women, even when they treat them like crap, but as an alpha male, you have to agree that there are things you will not put up with because you are better than that.

So if she calls to ask you for a lift, she's dismissed. If she insults you in front of other people dismissed. If she consistently orders the most expensive thing on the menu and never offers to pay... you get my point.

You are not a sucker, you are the alpha male, and you will not put up with any insulting behavior.

ALPHA MALE YET?

It's important to get comfortable in your own skin before you start making the moves on women. Once you learn how to be at ease with yourself, approaching the beautiful women you're interested in will be a cinch.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Halley Suitt - How To Become An Alpha Male In 18 Easy Lessons
Dr William Fitzgerald - How To Give A Hand Massage
John Alexander - How To Become Alpha Male

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