Since the dawn of time, women have been telling guys to just be themselves. But I don't think that guys really understand what that means. The truth of the matter is that women are very attracted to men who are comfortable in their own skin.
Now sometimes you might be shy or feel a little nervous. But if you are comfortable with sharing that, then a lot of the time you will come across as endearing and stand out from all the other guys who try too hard or try to be too impressive. A woman will know that those other guys are just compensating and trying to win her over, while you are being really honest and are sharing what you're feeling.
CAN YOU PROVIDE SOME EXAMPLES OF THIS? ARE YOU SAYING THAT IT IS OKAY FOR A GUY TO TELL A WOMAN THAT HE IS SHY OR THAT SHE MAKES HIM NERVOUS? IF HE STARTS DOING SOMETHING WITH HER THAT HE HASN'T DONE BEFORE, SHOULD HE TELL HER THAT?
I think that a man can do that as long as he earns the right to do so. What I mean by that is that he's not worried about what she is going to think. You need to be able to do it in a playful way where you are comfortable with being shy. That way you will clearly show that you are not ashamed of it. If you can communicate that in a playful way, then that can be very endearing and work much more effectively than any generic pick-up line that you might have read about.
I KNOW THAT YOU PREFER TO AVOID PICK-UP LINES SINCE THEY ARE ALMOST ALWAYS BAD, BUT DO YOU HAVE AN EXAMPLE OF WHAT A GUY COULD SAY IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS TO MAKE LIGHT OF IT? WHAT CAN HE SAY THAT WILL DEMONSTRATE HIS HONESTLY AND AUTHENTICITY ABOUT HIS SHYNESS, BUT IN A WAY THAT ALSO SHOWS THAT HE IS CONFIDENT?
I think that the best thing to do is to be playful with it. You have to remember that women enjoy being admired and desired by men. So you might approach a woman who you are attracted to and tell her that you feel a bit nervous about approaching her but you had to do it anyway because you think that she is so beautiful. After she has responded to that, you might tell her that you know that what you just said didn't come out right, but that she really is absolutely stunning.
By doing that in a playful way you will show that you can be charming as well as honest and comfortable about your shyness. That will be very appealing to many women since they greatly appreciate honestly.
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