Top 5 Places To Take Her On Your First Date

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So you have approached her, got her number, organised to meet up but not sure where to go? There are tons of places you can take her on your first date. I have created a list of 5 of the best places to take her which will hopefully lead to the second date.

TAKE HER TO A COFFEE SHOP

This is a great place to go to get to know her better. You can sit down with a nice cup of coffee and have a conversation in a relaxed atmosphere. In fact it is so laid back that she may not even consider it as the first date. This works in your favour as when women go on first dates they tend to put their barriers up. They consciously think, 'I can't have sex on the first date,' or 'got to play hard to get.' Go to a coffee shop that you know well. It works in your favour if you are a regular customer and know the staff. It will put her mind at ease if she can see that you know the people that work there and that you aren't some sort of weirdo.

Make sure you work on your conversation skills before trying a coffee shop for your first date as you will be talking a lot as that's all there is to do. Read my two posts below for further guidance.

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GO BOWLING

Bowling may seem like the type of date you would go on when you was in your teens, but it is also a good place to go for a first date. You can engage in friendly competition whilst having a bite to eat and drink. It has a fun, relaxed atmosphere that will make her feel comfortable which is important for getting that second date.

GO TO THE ZOO

Zoos may seem a bit cheesy and uncomfortable for a first date. However assuming that the weather is nice it can be one of the best first dates you can go on. It has a mixture of conversation and entertainment. Women also love animals. Most zoos also have somewhere you can get a bite to eat so you can continue to interact and have further conversation once you have finished having fun looking at the animals.

GO ICE SKATING

This is a great way to get to know each other whilst having fun. Even if she can't skate you can hold her hands to help her stay up. Holding hands is a great way of making her feel comfortable. It shows that you aren't afraid to touch each other. Keeping her from falling over also builds up trust. You can casually skate around the rink whilst in conversation and move onto another venue after you have finished.

COMEDY CLUB

This is a great place for a first date. You sit with your woman and just laugh your head off. Make sure that you pick a comedian that you know is funny, so look at the line up before hand. Most comedy clubs have bars in them so you can always go and grab a drink and engage in conversation if the comedian isn't funny. Also whenever she thinks about you she will remember how much of a good time she had and will want to relive the experience (assuming the comedian is funny of course).

For further ideas check out Michael Webbs 300 creative dating ideas eBook. It is packed with so many dating locations you will never have a problem of choosing a dating venue again. I read this when I was stuck for places to take my current girlfriend when we first started dating. So it obviously impressed!

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Hg Wells - Secret Places Of The Heart
Chris Jackson - How To Get Her To Take Her Clothes Off
Philip Redhead - Best Places For First Dates

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