Falling In Love Online

I have been speaking with a man I met about 3 weeks ago online at MATE1.COM and I am certain that I am falling in love with him. He is perfect. He is good-looking, charming, sensual, and a good man.

When I mentioned this to my friends, they told me that I was just infatuated and not falling in love with this man I met online.

Do you think it's possible to fall in love with someone just by chatting with them?

SYA

Sya, in a word, no. I get that you think this guy is perfect and that you and he have great conversations online every night, but the fact of the matter is that you won't know exactly what you feel until you meet in person.

And yes, it's quite possible that your love will get even stronger for him, but there's also a good chance it won't. So keep your eyes open and try to use your brain, not just your heart, to make the right decisions about where this relationship is going.

And before you accept his marriage proposal online, meet with him in person first. Head to a caf'e and talk over a latte before you make any hasty decisions.

AMY

FIRST DATE

I recently asked a girl out on a date and she accepted but then made a speech about all the clich'e places people go on first dates and thought that they were all so boring.

So now I want to come up with a FIRST DATE IDEA that will wow her. Any ideas?

F.

When it comes to first dates, the usual coffee or dinner and a movie work pretty well simple because you are not very familiar with what the person is really into.

What if I suggested a hike and picnic on a mountain and she's more of a city girl in Louboutins?

What if I suggest a wine-tasting and she hates wine?

What if I suggest a limo ride and you're broke?

What if I suggest a hot air balloon ride and she's afraid of heights?

The point is that, until you know more about her, being original on your dates will be a hit or miss.

I suggest you go with what you know for now and work on original date ideas later. And for the record, what kind of bitch goes on and on about boring first dates after you just asked her out on one? Just sayin'

AMY

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Olga Lebekova - Top 5 Tips For Meeting Russian Women Online
William Robinson - Woman Her Sex And Love Life
Scott Peck - Dating And Falling In Love

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