Stumbled on this gem today:
"And, in my experience, there are plenty of "good quality" women (and men) out there waiting to be pursued. You have to put some effort into finding them, of course.
This is a great point. I did the whole online dating thing, reasonably steadily, for about a year and a half before my boyfriend and I met. The thing that struck me from the several dozen dates I went on was "how many" nice guys there were out there. Seriously, the good eggs easily outnumbered the jerks 10 to 1. So while it definitely took me some time to find my boyfriend, it "wasn't" because I was meeting bad people; it just meant that sometimes it takes awhile to find someone with whom you have mutual chemistry. "
I love the positive spin she tries to put on nice guys, and the little disclaimer "so while it definitely took me some time to find my boyfriend". Thats the whole point, you met A LOT of nice guys, in fact majority of guys are nice guys, i am applying 80/20 rule here. Nice guy is a brand now that very few want. Hmmm, question comes to mind, so why did she bypass so many nice guys before she met her boyfriend? ohh yeh, there was no chemistry. Nice guys = No Chemistry, this is very general formula, but it is true none the less, nice guys don't have much balls, they take shit from girls and not willing to walk away plus they hope that something will happen.
When i teach seminars for learning annex, i would say 90% are nice guys, and 10% is naturals who want some tips on specific points. Nice guy is a life style, a life style of pain, hope and not met expectations.
Predictions: Nice guy discover pickup/dating communities and are trying to change their conditioned behaviors.
Result: More women are happy that more guys have balls. Happier marriages, happier relationships. More men are happy that they actually feel good about dating, and not hopping for the best.Sign up for Pick up Future RSS feed.
Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):
Steve Cowan - No Drama Online DatingBrian Caniglia - Online Dating Secrets
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