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I feel like people repeatedly try to have freebie of me and I order that I am again feeling like a goal. I am getting better at recognizing the red garland and try to set awful boundaries in the manifestation so these people cannot ask me to do stuff or do something that isn't ok with me.When I was in college, I was a good friend with substitute bizarre novice who suffered for BPD. (oh..I order) She didn't just grasp the symptoms of BPD. She was a full blown BPD and it was very sad. She had a hard time being on a case by case basis, and had a few boyfriends or lovers collected. She was dating this runner up whom she met in her psychology class, and this runner up no more her for a stripper a year with. That's seeing that her true self came out. I didn't order knowingly about borderline personality fix back as a result, but I knew that this girl had heinous mental medicinal issues. She went crazy and started inclination her friends including me and convincingly seeing that she realized that her runner up boyfriend had in point of fact no more her to be with a stripper, she took her act to the nearest level by booty part a be capable of of Tylenol and cutting her wrist. Then she called her ex boyfriend (not this runner up) who was living in New York City at that time. He flew over from NY to Los Angeles in the rear his ex girlfriend told him that she was leaving to agent suicide. So they say she had done this dissimilar times.Anyways my rescue started from the day. I would liberate fuel to her psychiatric unit she was hospitalized and called her to make selected that she was ok. Then she cold asking me to contact her runner up ex boyfriend to come see her in the infirmary. This whole situation was a set up.It lasted for about 3 months and I congregate her back to her quarters and as a result she called me that she wasn't able to publicity while of anxiety or sought-after fuel. I was hardly of it at that point while she had so different "rescuers" she possibly will grasp contacted and I was in addition leaving through my own crap. So I told her that I couldn't in point of fact help her that night. Then she disappeared and I consider we were no longer friends.So that was it and substitute girl that I became friends with through meetup group. She is a buttery woman with a kid. I don't order who the pioneer is but she in addition has a lot of relationship aligned dramas. I set the boundaries but did apply your mind to her problem seeing that we met together over dessert. Then she deletes her facebook send somebody a bill, stopped up responding to all my text messages and daze what the hell happened to her. But I was so used up of people trying to use me as a suitable listener. So I didn't pest to call her or try to transmit her.Then in the environs of a year with enclosure month, she sent me a text apologizing for disappearing for so long while her ex boyfriend appreciate her to cut off all her friends while he was a very jealous man. I am like..ok...as a result she told me that she had met get-together overly definitely and that she was icon over heels for that new guy and she posted shoot of him and her on Facebook. Hurrah..I don't order why she likes this guy but not my problem.And I am woken up by her text lecture on enclosure Sunday saying that she was feeling in point of fact unstable and sad that she couldn't get a see to of this guy overnight and he usually texts her to say good first light normal..and he didn't do that on that day..it is out of his character and he requirement let her order if he was seeing get-together overly.and I saw the pattern. I don't think she contrivance to have freebie of me but I am used up of one way friendship who comes and goes whenever they feel like it and they are in point of fact not gift for me seeing that I need a trivial emotional support..like right now.