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Dating Q: I went on a third date with this guy, and we really seemed to be hitting it off. We like a lot of the same things and are close enough in age that when we talk about when we were kids, we can relate. Romantically, kissing is as far as we've gone, but each kiss is fantastic.

But then he drops this on me: "I never want to get married." Is he saying this for my ears only, or does this guy really never want to get married?

ANN

Whether he means it or the statement is for your ears only, the point is he doesn't want to marry you. So if you want to hang around and have some fun with this guy, more power to you, but if you think you're going to change his mind, you've got another thing coming.

If marriage is your end goal, then walk away now, before you get too involved. I know you want to be the girl who changes his mind, but this is one challenge you won't win.

"AMY"

CHEATING ON EXES

I was out with my girlfriend (well, she's been my girlfriend for a month now) and she told me that she cheated on her ex. Should I be worried that she'll cheat on me too? I asked her if she cheated on any men besides him and she said yes.

Am I screwed?

JOSHUA

Yes, you should be worried. This woman sounds like a serial cheater and there's a good chance that the moment she gets bored, you're going to taste another man's genitals when you kiss her lips.

If you are afraid that she's going to cheat on you, this will begin to consume you and doom your relationship, so you have to decide what you want to do. Should you stay or should you go? That's up to you. Personally, I would bolt.

"AMY"

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Emma Goldman - Marriage And Love
Ken Lingu - Learn Massage
Iris Macfarlane - India And Marriage

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