10 Signs She Has Pms

1- Everyone around her has an attitude problem.

2- She's adding chocolate chips to her cheese omelet.

3- The dryer has shrunk every last pair of her jeans.

4- Her husband is suddenly agreeing to everything she says.

5- Your using your cellular phone to dial up every bumper sticker that says, "How's my driving?"

6- She thinks everyone's head looks like an invitation to batting practice.

7- She's convinced there's a God and he's male.

8- She's counting down the days until menopause.

9- She's sure that everyone is scheming to drive her crazy.

10- The ibuprofen bottle is empty and she bought it yesterday.

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Carlos Xuma - Secrets Of The Alpha Man
Tom Butler Bowdon - 50 Self Help Classics

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Words To Omit From Your Dating Profile

Online dating isn't easy, and sometimes writing an online dating profile makes things that much more difficult. But rather than just toss one together, you need to develop a dating profile that reveals the good things about you.

That said, here are some phrases and words that you should definitely omit from your dating profile.

WORDS TO OMIT FROM YOUR DATING PROFILE

10- MISSPELLS

If you still don't get the difference between "then" and "than", that's one thing, but if you throw together your profile without paying attention to any spelling errors, you may not attract the kind of people you;re searching for.

Why?

Well, to be perfectly honest (rather than be honest in a flawed way), correct spelling shows your attention to detail. Spelling correctly shows that you have taken the necessary time to proofread the information you're providing. It shows that you're willing to make the effort to get it right.

Bad spelling shows a lack of intelligence, lack of willingness to put any effort into even the smallest things, like, for example, writing an online dating profile. And hey, if you're not willing to pay attention to the small stuff, how fast do you run in the other direction when the big stuff rears its head?

WORDS TO OMIT FROM YOUR DATING PROFILE

9- NO DRAMA

In the world of clich'e online dating lyrics in profiles, this one lists pretty high. The worst part is that any time someone writes this, it's a pretty safe bet that there are drama events held nightly with an occasional matinee.

Even if you don't like drama, your best bet would be to meet the person, assess if they like drama and then make your decision. But writing that you don't want drama sounds like you've not only been involved in lots of drama, perhaps that's what you actually prefer.

WORDS TO OMIT FROM YOUR DATING PROFILE

8- I CANT BELIEVE IM DOING THIS

Or better, "I don't know what I'm doing." These phrases make you sound like an idiot. Why? Well, because if you can't believe it, or don't know what you're doing, then you must be stupid and have absolutely no confidence in your efforts.

Own it; you're on a dating site and your seeking a significant other - there's no shame in that. Get a grip, write up your profile and make no mention of any insecurity. It sounds amateur.

WORDS TO OMIT FROM YOUR DATING PROFILE

7- INTELLIGENT

If you are intelligent, then your dating profile would be evidence of that and you wouldn't have to clarify that you are smart. It boggles the mind how often people write that they're intelligent in their profiles as though the rest of their profile would indicate otherwise.

If you were really smart, you wouldn't have to drive that point home, now would you?

WORDS TO OMIT FROM YOUR DATING PROFILE

6- LOW MAINTENANCE

Ugh! What does this even mean? According to the Urban Dictionary, it is: "Someone who is easy to please, does not require constant pampering, attention or gifts or things done "their way or no way". One who is genuinely happy to enjoy the company of others. Easy-going, unselfish and usually a joy to be around." So is this really you, or do you just wish it were you?

And for the record, the "low maintenance" entry in any dating profile raises red flags for anyone who spots it because it is a clich'e and usually means that the person is the opposite.

WORDS TO OMIT FROM YOUR DATING PROFILE

5- ENJOYS FINER THINGS IN LIFE

To start, who wouldn't enjoy the finer things in life? I mean, it just goes without saying, but once you put that out there, it's going to tell others that you are an expensive person to be around and they're going to have to dish it out if they plan on being in your company.

So even if you prefer caviar to popcorn shrimp, you don't have to advertise it to the world, unless of course, you can afford to enjoy such things with your own money.

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Susan Dunn - The Top 10 Clues Youre Dating A Married Man
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Top 5 Places To Take Her On Your First Date

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So you have approached her, got her number, organised to meet up but not sure where to go? There are tons of places you can take her on your first date. I have created a list of 5 of the best places to take her which will hopefully lead to the second date.

TAKE HER TO A COFFEE SHOP

This is a great place to go to get to know her better. You can sit down with a nice cup of coffee and have a conversation in a relaxed atmosphere. In fact it is so laid back that she may not even consider it as the first date. This works in your favour as when women go on first dates they tend to put their barriers up. They consciously think, 'I can't have sex on the first date,' or 'got to play hard to get.' Go to a coffee shop that you know well. It works in your favour if you are a regular customer and know the staff. It will put her mind at ease if she can see that you know the people that work there and that you aren't some sort of weirdo.

Make sure you work on your conversation skills before trying a coffee shop for your first date as you will be talking a lot as that's all there is to do. Read my two posts below for further guidance.

=> 5 Great First Date Conversation Topics

=> 5 Awful First Date Conversation Topics

GO BOWLING

Bowling may seem like the type of date you would go on when you was in your teens, but it is also a good place to go for a first date. You can engage in friendly competition whilst having a bite to eat and drink. It has a fun, relaxed atmosphere that will make her feel comfortable which is important for getting that second date.

GO TO THE ZOO

Zoos may seem a bit cheesy and uncomfortable for a first date. However assuming that the weather is nice it can be one of the best first dates you can go on. It has a mixture of conversation and entertainment. Women also love animals. Most zoos also have somewhere you can get a bite to eat so you can continue to interact and have further conversation once you have finished having fun looking at the animals.

GO ICE SKATING

This is a great way to get to know each other whilst having fun. Even if she can't skate you can hold her hands to help her stay up. Holding hands is a great way of making her feel comfortable. It shows that you aren't afraid to touch each other. Keeping her from falling over also builds up trust. You can casually skate around the rink whilst in conversation and move onto another venue after you have finished.

COMEDY CLUB

This is a great place for a first date. You sit with your woman and just laugh your head off. Make sure that you pick a comedian that you know is funny, so look at the line up before hand. Most comedy clubs have bars in them so you can always go and grab a drink and engage in conversation if the comedian isn't funny. Also whenever she thinks about you she will remember how much of a good time she had and will want to relive the experience (assuming the comedian is funny of course).

For further ideas check out Michael Webbs 300 creative dating ideas eBook. It is packed with so many dating locations you will never have a problem of choosing a dating venue again. I read this when I was stuck for places to take my current girlfriend when we first started dating. So it obviously impressed!

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Hg Wells - Secret Places Of The Heart
Chris Jackson - How To Get Her To Take Her Clothes Off
Philip Redhead - Best Places For First Dates

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Best Of 2013 Giveaway Hop

It's time for the Standard of 2013 Free sample Hop, hosted by Mary from Address list Hounds and Kathy from I AM A READER.

One of my favorite reads of 2013 is "Fix You" by BECK ANDERSON. Board declare for my review, grilling with the author, and selfless giveaway!

Fix You by Beck Anderson

My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Fervent ON THIS STORY!

How does a woman move on some time ago the slapdash of her husband? Having two pleasant sons and faithful parents helps. But what solely does the trick is falling in love with a little known draw family name who needs some deception of his own.

So goes the romance of Kelly and Andrew, who meet one time Kelly breaks down howling on a run. Andrew's in town for a outer layer inferno, and he feels sad to learn it's the two year celebration of Kelly's husband's slapdash. They increasingly get to spill the beans each other. Can a fairy-tale actor and a unassuming widow make this long distance relationship work? It'll be remorseless, fact Kelly's attractive neuroticism, Andrew's doubtful later, and notice interactions like this:

He fishes his cell shout and sunglasses out of the car. "Can I get your number?"

"You don't want my number."

"Yes, I do."

"No, you don't." Severely, is he kidding?

"Do too." He shakes his start. "This is insane. Why not?"

"Hold at you. Flesh out on."

He stares at me with group very blue eyes. "Don't be impractical. Prize me your number."

I loved the characteristic setting of Boise (intended with an "s", not a "z"!) and the workable characters. But what I loved upper limit of all was the humor. Stern props for the vouch for of that Saturday Gloom Slat extravaganza "Master Thespian!" As well as these quotes:

Beginning the first day I get sad texts each day:

"Advance meeting in 90210. Peer of the realm across from me has full of activity 'bee stung' lips to a terrifying new level."

"You'll fly down here and there in. A hard tell. Now go, make the shout calls. Put up it so."

"I will see what I can do, Jean-Luc Picard. You're a luxurious bore."

"You're the one who knows the name of the captain."

The salesgirl is total giving me the up and down. "Standing six is the largest we go."

"I'm imperfect, I missed it. Did the sign larger than the hot air say Big Heads on a Toothpick R Us?"

If my life were a draw this'd be the part where the variety begins. You spill the beans, they'd play a kicky song like "Walking on Beam," and there'd be shots of Andrew and me getting ice liniment, riding bicycles miserable the park, lightheartedly do something masses of stuff as a happy couple.

Ha ha ha!

The only part of the story I didn't eat up was one time Kelly reveals everything about her delayed husband Peter just before the end of the novel. That part of the story didn't adequately loop to fit as essential, unless I'm vulnerable everything.

Kelly and Andrew be in awe of Ernest Hemingway, and it appears author Beck Anderson does as well, evidenced by her scarce sentences and fulfill swab writing.

Aid some time with Kelly and Andrew and you'll wear out them as a lot as I do!

Sense all my reviews

And now onto the grilling of BECK ANDERSON:

Jennifer Path (JL): Disclose to the blog, Beck, and good for you on the success of your first performance novel Fix You! How did you get started writing?

Beck Anderson (BA): Mercy for having me, my friend! I came to writing miserable my family. Past I was a kid, my dad was a magazine editor. I was past in his footsteps. I elevate one of my first attempts at a story was "The Monkey Olympics" in first scratch. Ugly gold.

JL: I undoubtedly loved "Fix You"...my favorite part of the story is the humor. So role does humor play in your life and your writing?

BA: So glad you liked it! Delight is the way I make my sorry to say awkward self feel choice stress-free in masses of weird situations. I'm besides a pleaser. I like to make people happy. Delight is an easy way to do that! Acquaint with are go to regularly times in real life where the old proverb "If I weren't pleased, I'd be in tears" rings true, and I'd desire chortle.

JL: Any experience with real life widows or draw stars?

BA: Despondently, I do comprise a good friend who cut off her husband very young. She had two boys, and it absolutely crossed my mind, "how does a person harmony with that?" I model I deliberation it world power be uncontrollable to play with the scheme that, well, best-case prospects, you'd meet part new that was rich and fairy-tale. But what would that solely be like?

As far as resistance elbows with draw stars, not so a lot. My brother lives down in LA, so he runs into people all the time and is very blase about it. The ride fairy-tale person I came close to was Bobby Defeat from the Nutritional Association. I saw him get into a cab in New York Municipality.

JL: Narrate us about your love of Ernest Hemingway. Who are your favorite authors? Where do you find inspiration?

BA: My key character Kelly and I comprise the love for Hemingway in societal. I am into him when all's said and done since I live in Idaho, and on the good fortune of what would comprise been his 100th centenary, I did get to go inside his protect, which was very gloomy. He was a grown-up personality, and he was very wrapped up with love and romance. His scarce stories sparkler.

Remote favorite authors? I love classic American authors like Fitzgerald and Ralph Ellison. But I besides love JK Rowling and Stephenie Meyer and Suzanne Collins since they are amazing story tellers and comprise brought so go to regularly people back to reading, which I think is extreme.

JL: What's next for you, Madame Author?

BA: I am implementation on the sequel to "Fix You", called "Difficulty Me". Confidently readers want to spill the beans what's next for Kelly and Andrew!

Mercy, Miss Jennifer, for having me! :)

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Girlfriend Wont Marry Me

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DATING ADVICE QUESTION #1: GIRLFRIEND WONT MARRY ME

I love my girlfriend to death and would do anything to spend my life with her, but whenever I bring up the subject of marriage, she gets nervous and starts going on and on about her education and career.

She's 22 and I'm 27, and she is currently working towards her Pharmaceutical degree in University. I am a plumber and sometimes get the feeling that she feels like that's not good enough for her.

We've been together for 2 years and have lived together for the last 6 months. Is this hopeless? Should I stop thinking about marrying her and just enjoy the time we share together?

Or do you think she's going to dump me the moment she gets her degree? I currently support her financially and we live pretty well on a plumber's salary, so money is not the issue.

COSTA

Dear Costa,

It certainly doesn't sound hopeless, at all. What it does sound like, however, is that you have some insecurities about your profession. As for the "not good enough" feelings, I'd get really clear whether they are coming from your girlfriend (for example, has she ever said anything about your profession? Or are you reading meaning into subtle signs and clues?), or if these feelings of inadequacy are coming from your own head.

I'd stop worrying about whether or not she's going to dump you. Instead, try to get to the bottom of what makes your girlfriend nervous about marriage.

Have you asked your girlfriend whether she wants to be on a career path before she gets married? Maybe she feels overwhelmed with school and can't think about marriage right now.

Or, perhaps, there is something about your relationship that's making her hesitant. But coming up with your story lines about not having a "good enough" profession and worrying that she is going to leave you is not going to help the relationship.

Also, keep in mind that she is only 22. Maybe she thinks she needs a few more years to develop herself before she gets married. Think of where you were at 22. Were you ready to get married?

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So Drunk

After a hard day at the office, three guys decide to go out for a cocktail to wind down. The bar becomes very crowded, a few drinks turns into many and soon everyone is tanked. All three lose track of each other and end up going home separately.

The next day at the office, the three gather by the water cooler to discuss the past evenings events.

The first guy says, "I got so drunk last night, that I went home and blew chunks."

The second guy pipes in, "That's nothing. I got so drunk that I got in my car and drove it right into a telephone pole. Totaled it. I didn't get hurt, but now I have no car."

The third guy says, "Well, I got so drunk that when I got home, I cussed my girlfriend out and knocked over a candle, which lit the apartment on fire. She dumped me, all my belongings are destroyed and the home insurance won't cover the damage."

The first guy motions the two to come closer and whispers, "I don't think you guys understand - Chunks is my dog."

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My Story Lately Exactly What You Wanted

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You guys wanted me to be more personal on this blog. So this past few weeks have been interesting for my pick up lifestyle. Doubts and confirmations are the name of this month.

My options with women have been going down hill. Actually, I'm not sure that's the correct way to word it. I've noticed the women that I have been dating are getting attached to me quicker and on a deeper level, but FEWER of them. Quality over quantity.

The problem is I'm not that into most of them. Don't get me wrong, they are beautiful and really fun to hang out with, but for some reason I just don't "feel" it with this one particular girl called Stephanie. Am I gay?! ha ha

Stephanie's from California. She's laid back, good looking, nice body, and has very witty sense of humor which I love. I just don't feel it on a gut level. Could I not be as attracted to her because she's been too easy for me?

We steadily moved up the physical levels on our first date. I usually call girls the next day, but she sent me a text that night saying how much of a great time she had.

Cool.

I text her back saying, "I had fun too, lets do something again"

The attraction started to die. This is totally unconscious, and on paper she's exactly what I'm looking for in a girlfriend.

Then a few days later, "How's life?"

Oh geez, is this what thought goes through her head when she's not interested in me?

I text back, because I'm a nice guy. Hell, I remember when I didn't have any options with women, now I have some, but I still don't want to be mean. I like to think that those old days made me appreciate what I do have, and there's no reason to act like a jerk.

Then I saw her today, this is about two weeks after our first date. She was flirty, touchy and playing it subtle. It was clear she was VERY attracted.

I felt my gut sink. Three years ago I would have literally given my left nut to be with a girl like this, and today I'm over it. I've learned a few things If a girl is texting you back with short text messages that are straight to the point and not flirty, she's probably over it, or you haven't done enough yet. That's what I do.

Clearly, "ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE" (David Deangelo)

WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME? HOW DO YOU GUYS LET DOWN GIRLS?

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Romantic Ringtones

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Technology weaves throughout our everyday lives to the point that even romance has gone high tech. Last year, we put up a feature on technology and romance with the top 10 ways to express your love online. Now we've added to that with 10 Tips for Mobile Love -- ideas for expressing your love via your cell phone.

One of the easiest ways to show your love via a cell phone is with a ringtone. If you've ever smelled cookies baking and immediately thought of summers in your grandmother's kitchen, then you know the powerful way smells affect us. Songs work in much the same way and just hearing a song often transports you back to that unforgettable moment in time. Take advantage of this by replacing your sweetie's ringtone with "your song" or other romantic tone that expresses the way you feel.

Here are the top 10 love song ringtones:

* My Love - Mercury Rev
* Ghetto Love Song - Sparks
* Love Her - Seether
* California Love - Tupac
* Ain't Nothin Like The real Thing - Marvin Gaye
* Baby Love - Supremes
* Love Me Tender - Elvis
* Lost in Love - Air Supply
* Stop in the Name of Love - Diana Ross and the Supremes
* All You Need is Love - The Beatles
* When a Man Loves a Woman - Michael Bolton
* My Love - Justin Timberlake
* Love at First Sight - Kylie Minogue
* Livin' on Love - Alan Jackson
* Baby I Love Your Way - Peter Frampton
* I Just Wanna Love You - Jay Z
* My Love is Your Love - Whitney Houston
* For Your Love - The Yardbirds
* Can't Help Falling in Love - Elvis
* Like I Love You - Justin Timberlake
* I'm Still in Love With You - Sean Paul feat Sasha
* Friday I'm in Love - The Cure
* Endless Love - Lionel Richie
* The Look of Love - ABC
* What You Won't Do for Love - Boyz II Men

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Joseph Plazo - Magnetic Attraction
Michael Webb - The Romantic Guide
Michael Webb - 101 Romantic Ideas

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Men Are Ageist In Online Dating

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OKCupid is at it again and here are the stats:

When it comes to online dating, men are repulsed by women who are older than they are, and MEN IN THEIR 30S SPEND AS MUCH TIME EMAILING TEENAGE GIRLS AS THEY DO WOMEN THEIR OWN AGE.

Women, on the other hand, besides wanting nothing to do with younger guys when they are young, are pretty open to dating men of all ages. Why is that? Because you never know what you're going to get with a man, no matter his age.

According to men who date online, A WOMANS DESIRABILITY PEAKS AT AGE 21, at which point it all goes downhill. AND AFTER AGE 31, A WOMAN IS WELL PAST HER PRIME FOR DATING.

What makes all of this so funny is that, AS WOMEN AGE, THEIR WILLINGNESS TO DELVE INTO SEXUAL DEPRAVITY INCREASES. They're more likely to perform oral sex, more likely to get involved in a threesome and are more likely to engage in casual sex.

So why the hell are all these men over 30 seeking women who are 18?

Of course, a woman's attractiveness tends to drop with age, but she doesn't just go from hot to hideous, so why are older men so hell-bent on finding younger women?

Something else of note from OKCupid's findings is that WOMEN ARE MORE SOUGHT AFTER THAN MEN UP UNTIL AGE 26, where women take a dip and men become the more pursued.

So OKCupid is essentially telling us what we already know and that it also applies to the online dating world as well. As women age, their value as useful human beings go down in the eyes of men.

But men, on the other hand, become more sought after and are hotter commodities once they get older.

Life is cruel, isn't it?

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Elena Petrova - The Golden Rules Of Online Dating
Brian Caniglia - Getting The Most From Online Dating

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Create A Memory As Unique As Your Love

This may be one of the most personalize romantic treats we've found. If you're sweetie loves their sweets, try creating your own personalized MM's!

The easy-to-use custom printing feature allows you to select your colors (22 different choices from black to white!), type in your messages, and then view your messages as they would appear on the MM's. You can then choose from several different packaging options including the standard custom bags, a variety of romantic bags and boxes, heart shaped baskets, heart coffee mugs, and other romantic gift packaging options.

If you're stumped on how to actually use these romantic sweet treats, here are a few ideas to get you started:

* Print your names and wedding dates on MM's in your wedding colors!
* Get a bag with the words 'Marry me' printed on each MM!
* Get an entire bag of green MM's and have a sexy message printed on them.
* Give her a bag of pink and red MM's with the words 'I Love You' printed on them.
* Get a bag of MM's printed with your wedding colors as an anniversary gift.
* Give her a bag of red and green MM's for the holidays with "I Love You" printed on the red ones and "I Want You" printed on the green ones.
* Order a bag of MM's in her favorite color and have it packaged in a romantic box.

Customize your MM's here.

If you order before 11/11/07, we found a discount code (OFFER26) that let's you get 1 free bonus bag. Simply enter the code at checkout and your bonus bag should be added. *Please note - we saw this discount code in a newspaper ad and can not guarantee that it will work.

If you're looking for a more indulgent treat or want to personalize with a longer message, myMMs.com also offers personalized decadent Dove chocolates. You can choose between premium milk and dark chocolate Dove candies, then customize your foil wrappers with a variety of romantic hearts and wedding images. The other advantage that customized Dove chocolates offer is the ability to add more messages. You can customize these chocolates with up to 4 messages, 3 lines to a message. Fill them with love quotes, love notes, or other romantic messages. These chocolates make a perfect romantic sweet treat or a great wedding favor.

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Saira Mohan - How To Seduce And Marry The Woman Of Your Dreams
John Cleland - Fanny Hill Memoirs Of A Woman Of Pleasure
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Tough Guys Hurt Bad After Breakups

Why do men suffer more after breakups?

A new poll conducted by Matchmaker.com, Amor.com and Date.com found that 85% of men get depressed and upset after a breakup and don't date for a long time thereafter. Only 8% of women felt the same way.

I could've told you that. For some reason, men are once bitten, twice shy, while women pick themselves up, dust themselves on, and get on with it.

Of course, online daters don't represent all daters in general; but men who gravitate towards online dating sites usually do so because they are more rejection sensitive than ever and their egos are frail after being dumped.

Dr. Keith Ablow says that men and women suffer equally when it comes to feeling alone, but women vent their frustrations and move on whilst men bottle up their emotions and harbor resentment and hurt.

This in no way suggests that women want men to start crying and talking about their feelings; what it might suggest is that perhaps men need to suck it up and move on. Have your moment, perhaps even start an anonymous blog to vent your feelings, but for Pete's sake, get on with it.

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Jennifer Love To Pen Dating Book

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Jennifer Love Hewitt

JENNIFER LOVE-HEWITT has dated myriad men in Hollywood, including JOHN MAYER, CARSON DALY, ROSS MCCALL, and presently, JAMIE KENNEDY.

Jennifer Love-Hewitt even made it clear on a radio station recently that if JAMIE KENNEDY didn't propose within the next year and with a massive diamond ring, she's gone.

Well now it seems JENNIFER LOVE-HEWITT thinks that she has become the authority on the dating scene and plans on writing a book about it entitled" Day I Shot "That's cute. Real cute.

Granted, she has some dating experience and even broke off an engagement with ROSS MCCALL (well, rumor has it he left her because she was too needy - ouch!), but why does that suddenly make JENNIFER LOVE-HEWITT a dating expert? I guess that after enough flopped relationships, we all become experts to some extent, huh?

Nevertheless, JENNIFER LOVE-HEWITT plans on addressing everything from text-flirting to how to move on after you get dumped" Day I Shot "is slated for a March 2010 release and JENNIFER LOVE-HEWITT is hoping that, in addition to getting a great laugh out of it, that women will learn a little something from her dating experiences. Bloody unlikely unless they're millionaires.

Personally I like JENNIFER LOVE-HEWITT so I'm looking forward to reading about her experiences. Of course, you know that she won't actually be writing it.

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Attracting Women Made Easy

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If you plan to become good at ATTRACTING WOMEN, there's one thing you need to know: women get turned off by so-called "nice guys". They might want them as friends, but not as lovers, because they often come off as needy and desperate. They don't want someone who acts as if he needs to gain approval at every step of the way and that gets very annoying fast: they want a strong, confident man they can rely on.

When you approach a woman that turns you on, you must resist the urge to become the kind of guy women don't want as their lover, an overly nice and needy guy. There are other ways to do it right when it comes to HOW TO APPROACH A GIRL, and I'm going to give you some useful advice on how to get a girl to like you.

First of all, I highly suggest you don't focus all your attention on just one woman, at least until things become very serious. I say this because your mindset is important: if that woman isn't the only one you care about, then you'll appear much less needy; not only will that make her more likely to be attracted to you, but in the event a relationship develops between the two of you, it will be much less one sided.

Stop thinking you need her approval for everything you do or say; instead, try to make HER seek your approval: try to give the impression that you're the kind of man that doesn't need the approval of a woman to feel confident, one who knows he can get a woman attracted with the force of his personality. Trust me, you'll have a much higher success rate if you can pull this off.

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Conversation Starters How To Start Talking To Women

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The hardest part of meeting new women is, knowing how to approach her. The problem is that most men don't put any thought into what they are going to say to her. By the time he has approached her, he freezes, unable to come up with anything to say. To avoid this, I have written some ways to start talking to women below.

SAY, 'HI'

This is a great way to start talking to a woman as its natural. Hot women are approached by men all the time, so they have heard pretty much every pick up line out there. Saying something original such as, 'Hi, How are you?' actually can work and is simple.

CURRENT EVENTS

Before you go out, read up on all the latest celebrity gossip and entertainment news. This is great material for conversations. Particularly pay attention to the latest celebrity bad behaviour. If you then see someone out who is overlay drunk, you can compare them to the latest celebrity that has been caught stumbling out of a nightclub. She will probably laugh and if shows that you are aware of what's going on in the world.

CHEERS

If you are in a bar, one of the easiest ways to start talking to a woman is to raise you glass to hers and say ' cheers!' It's simple and polite and can start off a few conversations.

PLAY A GAME

There are lots of little games you can play to get her attention. For example, if you're at a bar and you spot a woman over the other side, you could play noughts and crosses on a napkin, and have the barman deliver it to her. After you have won you can walk over and introduce yourself and console her on her defeat.

ASK FOR HER OPINION

This is a great way to start off a conversation, especially with groups of women. Keep the topic related to something that will interest women such as fashion, celebrity gossip, relationships etc. Make sure you seem genuinely interested in getting someone's opinion. Make the question engaging enough and women will respond.

COME UP WITH FUNNY AND INTERESTING STORIES

Think of a few interesting and unique stories before you go out so they are clear in your mind. They need to be easy conversation starters such as, ' you wouldn't believe what just happened to me.' Make the story seem so interesting that you needed to share it with someone. If you tell her it correctly you will leave her wanting more. Make sure the story makes you look good and come across as confident.

WATCH AND REVIEW THE LAST MAN TO CHAT HER UP

If you see a person trying to pick up a woman and fails, approach her after he has left. Ask her, ' How did he do?' She will find this funny. Then give her your review on what he was doing wrong in a playful way.

MAKE A BET WITH HER

The idea is to make the bet last all night so you continue to interact with her. For example, bet her that you will remember her name for the whole night and if you forget, you have to buy her a drink. The same rule applies for her if she forgets yours. You will find her calling your name out for the rest of the night.

MAKE HER OVERHEAR YOUR CONVERSATION

This method will make her approach you instead of the other way around. When she is nearby and within hearing distance make a comment to your friend so she happens to overhear you. Say something like,' keep it quite, but I think all women do it.' If she overhears you say this she will want to know what you're talking about and she'll want to ask. You can take the conversation from there.

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Wayne Ross - The Complete Guide To Attracting Women
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The Juice

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Dating Confessionals By Petunia Johnson

The Juice is a collection of true stories based on actual experiences I have had throughout my journey to find "The One." Names and details have been modified in order to protect the privacy of the individuals who have inspired these stories (and in order for me not to get shot). Petunia Johnson is obviously not my name. My oldest and dearest friend, who used to refer to her most sacred, female part as Petunia Johnson, has bestowed the name to me. I felt this would be a fitting pen-name, not only because it suggests a woman's valor, as it is also indicative of the tribute I would like to make to my wonderful friends - friends who have acted more like sisters to me through many ups and downs. Writing these stories has been a therapeutic experience for me. I hope that you enjoy reading them as much as I enjoyed writing them. Thank you to the men who have taught me so much. We had some good times. No hard feelings.

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Pauly Shore Teams Up With Mate1

AWKWARD DATES: THEY HAPPEN.

It's okay, you aren't the only one who has gone on a date that just wasn't meant to be.

Mate1 plans to expose a certain reality of dating: it can be awkward. Very Awkward.

So awkward, that Mate1 is offering $5,000 in prizes to the most awkward contestant, in hopes of helping that contestant to never have an awkward date again.

Mate1 is hosting an awkward date video contest with spokesman Pauly Shore judging all contestants. In this contest, people from everywhere will share their awkward experiences. From this we can all laugh, learn and move on, hopefully to better dates with less long, uncomfortable silences.

Check out Mate1s contest, where you can view and vote on video submissions. Upload your own awkward date testimonials or renditions and see how awkward other people view your dates!

Don't pass up on the chance to hear about Pauly Shore's most awkward date as well as his street interviews containing live awkward dating testimonials.

Check back in to see updates on the most awkward videos either on DateDaily's contest page, on Youtube, or at http://contest.mate1.com!

Enjoy!

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How To Flirt When Youre Shy And Need To Get Out Of Your Shell

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So many guys just can't or won't bring themselves to be more social and to really get outside of themselves. To get more comfortable with yourself and with other people, you have to put yourself in a position where you're interacting with people, number one; and second of all, go where women go. That could be going to a community group or volunteering or going to a dance class, or any social activity where you're forced to interact with people. That's one way to get more comfortable being around people.

The next step would be just flirting with everybody, not just girls who you want to have sex with. I like to break that down with guys who are new to this, and have them just flirt with everybody and redefine what flirting is. My definition is just making people feel good about themselves. It's coming from a place of giving. Guys think of flirting as, "well you flirt because you're trying to get a woman in bed," or "you flirt because you're trying to get her number," or "you can get a date," all these things that they're looking to get from women.

You can flip that around and define flirting as something you're giving people. If you remember with time, you're making them feel good, you're being the source of their joy. One thing that stops guys is thinking, "Oh, why would this person want to give me their number," or "why would this girl want to go out with me?" It immediately flips that on its head and lets his personality shine. That's very powerful.

So how do you figure out what you have to offer? Right up front, it's probably more than you think. One good way to learn is just to ask your friends. I know a guy is always going to have at least one friend; maybe if they don't have a friend just ask family members. Ask your friends, ask your family, what do they like about you, or what is good about you? What do they see as your good qualities? What do they enjoy about spending time with you?

Even then, write about yourself, asking, "what's good about me?" Write it on a piece of paper. Do it now. "Five things that I like about me," the first things that come to mind, and there you go, you've got five things. You're already one step ahead of where you were before, and that'll get you on the right foot, on the right path.

The next step is to share those good qualities with other people. I don't mean brag, but if you don't let those parts of you show, then what you're really doing is being selfish. That's a sure way to remain shy and remain very single and very lonely. Sharing yourself is one way to turn that around. You'll be surprised how easy it is to talk to anyone then.

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Is The Pua Dead

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Excerpt from a recent editorial from Askmen.com.

The recent trend toward men with androgynous characteristics may be due to women's subconscious rejection of the previously celebrated alpha males. Some PUAs already wear the Adam Lambert-manliner. Is the next logical step to blend more feminine attributes into their alpha to make it more easily digestible? Or possibly the same techniques may appear fresh again if presented in a bumbling Seth Rogen-esque manner? The bromantic comedy boom could inspire a new wave of PUAs that look like AFCs. You could be a Trojan Horse of seduction. The woman thinks she's gotten the gift of a new unintimidating male friend when suddenly a secret chamber bursts open and from it pours sublime seduction skills. Before she knows it, she's Katherine Heigl in Knocked Up (hopefully without the pregnancy part).

Can you predict the next generation of PUAs and their new bag of tricks? Or do you think the era described in The Game is still in full effect?

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Study Proves Men Dont Feel Guilty

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He cheated on you. He forgot your birthday. He even thinks about sleeping with your sister. The thing is, he's not sorry, nor will he ever be. No. Not even if you explain the way you feel and argue in way that doesn't hurt his feelings. He just doesn't feel guilty about it, and there's nothing you can do to change that" SPANISH JOURNAL OF "questioned almost 300 men and women between 15 and 50 about everyday things that make them feel guilty.

And the study showed that, when men do feel guilty, it's about things they do to themselves, not to others. Things like overeating or drinking too much booze.

Women, on the other hand, do their best to try not to hurt others and feel incredibly guilty whenever they do.

This is by no means trying to sell guilt as a rite of passage, but it would be nice if, when my boyfriend says sorry for forgetting to buy milk after I reminded him 7 times, he really means it and feels bad about forgetting. The bastard. He doesn't.

What this study proves is that women need to stop feeling like crap about every little thing they don't' do for everyone else and should start being a little more self-centered.

Life is too short to waste it on what everyone else wants. Women could take a serious lesson from men here.

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