Techniques For Meeting Women

This one is simple.

I've tried probably 50 different types of 'lines' and techniques for meeting women, and I've found that the simple ones work the best.

"Just remember, the only power any woman has in your life is THAT WHICH YOU GIVE HER."

If I'm in an environment that has a lot of people, and I'm with a friend, I like to start by asking a woman for her 'opinion' on something. Here's how it happens... first of all, I keep my eyes open for current affairs and interesting trivia that involves gender differences and tension. This makes for amazing conversation openers with hot, intelligent women.

My latest favorite: "Hey, let me ask you a question. My friend and I were talking about something, and I think we need a female perspective..." (This is a killer, by the way. It's taken me a long time to figure this one out... but it kicks ass). Then I say, "I was just looking on the Internet... and did you know that the average woman in America is 5' 4", weighs 150 pounds, and wears a size 14?"

Ohhhhhhhhhh DAMMIT...

I LOVE THIS ONE!

They usually grab the ball and take off into the conversation with just that question.

Others include, "Do you think that men understand what women really want and need?" and "What do you think of this new trend of women wanting to pay their own way... and the Charlie's Angel's theme song that sings about it as almost a stuck up thing to do?"

You with me here? After starting a conversation, get into Mr. Cocky and Funny mode, and you'll do some good work.

If I'm alone, and the woman is alone or with friends, I usually start with a compliment opener... depending on the situation.

And I always try to tie it into the situation, so it doesn't sound canned. Women that I run into can smell canned openers... I think that they're getting popular again or something... because women can sense them like a dog sensing kitties.

I might say, "Excuse me... I noticed you when I walked in, and I had to take a second to find out what you were like..." or something equally plausible sounding.

What I've realized is... if you're going to approach a woman, what you say doesn't much matter as much as HOW you say it (remember the character thing?).

So keep a serious look on your face (no big cheesy smiles) as this approach creates the feeling that you're not overly excited. Then speak with a slow, mysterious confidence.

I've met many men who have big problems getting past the idea of walking up to women who they don't know and starting a conversation. In fact, I had a huge issue too when I started learning about how to deal with women. My best advice is to just go for it and keep doing it until you finally get over it.

One guy I know went to a mall one day and walked up to every woman he saw to get over his fear. He said that he felt sick in the beginning, but the fear eventually went away. And then he did it again another day, and the fear went away a little faster. And now he can walk up to any woman anywhere and start talking. Just remember, the only power any woman has in your life is THAT WHICH YOU GIVE HER. So don't give away any of your power. Keep your power for you.

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Secrets Of Online Dating

Let's talk about how to deal with women when meeting them via the personals.

First of all, imagine what it's like to be a woman who's running a personal ad.

1) She'll get dozens of responses a day, in most cases.
2) Most of the responses are from desperate loser guys who make it very clear that they are not at all attractive.
3) Within a few days all of the guys seem to blur together into one big mass of exactly what she isn't looking for.

If you're going to play the personals, stay current with them, and contact women as soon as they place their ad. This way you'll be one of the first to start a conversation with her... as opposed to the 497th guy.

Second, forget about trying to respond to a woman's personal ad by reading it, thinking about it, considering what she's looking for, and then responding in a way that she will find interesting.

No, no, no!

The one thing that NO female personal ad has EVER mentioned is what makes her feel ATTRACTION for a man.

So let's play this out.

You're a woman who's tired of playing the dating game, meeting guys at bars, or whatever... and you think “Hey, maybe I should place a personal ad and see if I can meet a nice guy.” So you get online and see an ad for a free trial at a personal ad site, and you go for it.

The first day of your ad, you get 35 responses. You're thinking “Wow, this is cool. I'm going to be able to choose between all these guys... there HAS to be a few good ones in here...” so you go to work reading through them.

The first one says “I'm a DWM, 45, two kids, looking for a SWF for a LTR....”

You're so bored that you delete it thinking to yourself “I hope they're not all that boring.”

Second one says “Hi, you're really hot. If you'd like to get together for some “no strings attached” physical fun, get back to me. I'm very into giving pleasure...”

DELETE.

And on and on... and the next day there are 35 more full of the same stuff...

If you think that I'm exaggerating, just ask a few women who have run personals. This is real world.

With that said, if you're going to work with the personals, you need to do a few things to:

1) Get her attention and stand out.
2) Come across as something OTHER than a loser.
3) Get her to answer you, then get her on the phone ASAP, before she tunes out from all the responses.

To answer your first question, YES you should be cocky and funny with personals! As a matter of fact, you need to turn up the volume for this special occasion...

Here's an example of something I might say:

“Well, you sound like you might be more than just another pretty face. Something tells me that you're probably getting about 50 emails a day from loser guys saying things like “Hi, I'm freshly divorced from my seventh wife, have 5 delinquent kids... but the good news is that I have a good chance at finally getting a job...” etc.

In any event, I'm 35, have my life together, and I'm more than the usual amount of interesting and funny, so you'd better like to laugh.

You sound like you might make an interesting friend, so let's get together for a cup of something delicious and some interesting conversation... if you think you can handle it, that is!”

I can see it now... you're probably already going out and signing up for ten online personal sites and you're thinking “Hey, cool... I'll just cut and paste what David D. wrote here and the chicks will bangin' my door down.”

Well, in fact that might happen. And I'd recommend that you test this one out...

But here are a few more tips for you, based on a LOT of experience:

1) If you're going to use the personals, you have to STAY ON TOP OF THEM. You want to be one of the first 10 people to email a woman! Not number 293. Yes, this means paying attention.
2) You need to do something to make it personal. Use your cocky and funny skills to talk about something she said in her ad. If she's into dogs, say “Hey, let's go down to the pet store and see if we can't get your pooch one of those extra-fancy chew toys that are like Krispy Kremes for dogs.” Use your imagination, and stay cocky and funny.
3) Get her on the phone as soon as you possibly can. Remember, even though she sounds like she likes you in the first email or two, she's STILL GETTING 40 MORE GUYS SENDING HER RESPONSES EVERY DAY. If you don't get her on the phone fast, you'll just fade into the pool of losers in her mind.

Try a cocky funny response like this:

“Wow, you're a real person. Great. I guess we have a couple of options here. We could start an email relationship, fall madly in love, and maybe even get a priest to marry us in a live chat ceremony...

Then again, maybe we could get together for a cup of tea and some stimulating conversation and make friends. And then after I can validate that you're actually the cute gal in this picture I saw of you, we can talk about the online marriage thing.

Give me a call tonight. My number is [insert number here]. I'm a pretty busy person, and I can't guarantee that I'll be home, but give a try. And please call before 11 PM because that's when my mom makes me go to sleep.

By the way, where can I reach you if I want to call you ten times a day?

Talk soon.”

COMMENTARY: I'm a funny guy.

But all kidding aside, this is a KILLER model for a follow up letter to a personal ad response. It says so many things in the right way that you're very likely to get another response, probably a call, and probably her number.

Here's a little secret: Personals are one of the BEST places to learn and practice how to be cocky and funny, because you can THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU'RE GOING TO SAY! It's like a real world simulator. I love it.

By David DeAngelo

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David Jones - The Art Of Internet Dating
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Cliche Breakup Lines

When it comes to breakups, clich'e breakup lines have become known as such because they are essentially used ad nauseum.

Save for the occasional, "KISSING YOU felt like I was kissing my brother", more often than not, we tend to use some really insulting clich'e breakup line to give someone the heave ho and alleviate our own guilt.

Here are 10 clich'e breakup lines that were sent in the most by readers with explanations regarding what led to them.

CLICH'e BREAKUP LINES #10

IT'S NOT YOU, IT'S ME

ERICA, 33, WROTE: After all these years in which this phrase has been used, and how everyone and their mother has heard it before, my ex boyfriend sprung this crap on me after we had been dating for about 4 months.

He explained that he was in a weird place and that although he really did like me, he just couldn't wrap his brain around a relationship right now. Oh well, at least I got all his CDs. He forgot them at my place and I never answered the phone again when he called.

TRANSLATION: It's you. I don't like you in that way.

CLICH'e BREAKUP LINES #9

IM TOO F*CKED UP FOR YOU

JOANNE, 27, WRITES: I was dating a badass for a few months and the sex was just second to none. He was an amazing lover and I didn't have a lot of experience.

Anyway, after a while, he decided that being with one woman just wasn't good for him and made it seem like he was just not good for me. He was probably right, so I didn't get offended by it.

But I have too many friends who tell me that guys who are pretty vanilla use this same lyric, so it's funny.

TRANSLATION: I want to sleep with many more people without the burden of you being around.

CLICH'e BREAKUP LINES #8

I THINK WE'RE JUST MEANT TO BE FRIENDS

SAL, 36, WROTE: I was dating this great girl that I couldn't believe I landed. But I finally got up the balls to ask her out. After our third date, we had sex, and it was all kinds of terrible.

Needless to say, she hit me with the "friends" bit and I knew it was because we just didn't hit it off in bed as well. But when she uttered these words, I rolled my eyes. By the way, we're not friends.

TRANSLATION: You don't excite me in a sexual way at all.

CLICH'e BREAKUP LINES #7

IM JUST NOT READY FOR A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP

TELLY, 30, WROTE: Back when I was still a "nice guy," a girl I was dating gave me the "I'm not ready for anything serious" speech. Lo and behold, she was married less than a year later.

I'm pretty sure she dumped me for the other guy, but to use that lyric and then marry someone else in a year was just ridiculous. Don't you agree?

TRANSLATION: I don't want to have a serious relationship with you.

CLICH'e BREAKUP LINES #6

YOURE GOING TO MAKE SOMEONE REALLY HAPPY SOMEDAY

SONIA, 22, WROTE: I knew that my ex boyfriend was never going to end up being my husband because we were both young and he was eager to sow his wild oats, but when he told me that I would make someone else incredibly happy in the future, I barfed a little in my mouth.

I later heard from his friends that he thought I was the most annoying woman ever and that he only used that line because he really believed the opposite. He thought it was so clever.

TRANSLATION: You're going to be alone forever.

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Christian Dating For Men How To Find Your Perfect Christian Partner

If you are one of those Christian dating men who want to find a good woman, then here's something that will help you identify and find them.

Christian dating is simply dating but with emphasis on Christian values and principles. For men who frequent Christian dating sites, they are surely looking for women who embody Christian ideals. Some men would usually think that good women are characterized by the following features: outstanding physical body, poised and respectful demeanor, shows genuine humor and displays vibrant personality. Although these are indeed desirable traits in a woman, the Bible also offers characteristics that can help you identify a woman of excellence. If you are a man who joins Christian dating sites to find Christian partners in life then read on.

Taken from the Book of Proverbs of the Holy Bible, here are some features that reflect a woman of excellence:

1. SAINTLY - Her faith in God is strong and undying and she apparently obeys God's laws.

2. TRUSTWORTHY - She must display dependability in all matters. A trustworthy Christian woman is a good partner to have in life because you can count on her in any endeavor that you choose to pursue.

3. WISE AND KIND - She speaks well and with depth and character. She is always open to other people and accepts others without passing judgment. If you are dating, you will know if these traits are present when you feel that you are being encouraged and given good judgment.

4. STRONG AND DIGNIFIED - She shows deep self-confidence and upholds herself in all situations. When dating, you will know this if you see her carrying herself gracefully and encouraging others to do so as well.

5. THOUGHTFUL - While dating, a thoughtful woman does not allow evil thoughts and ideas to grace the conversation. She always thinks of positive and good things which manifest her love for goodness.

6. CARING - She give genuine help to those who need her.

7. ORGANIZED - Her plans are apparent and consistent. She thinks ahead and follows the plan that she has set.

8. PHYSICALLY FIT - She knows how to take care of her body, using it to reach optimal personal growth. You can see that when dating, she is neatly and appropriately dress. This characteristic is also manifested by a well-toned body.

9. INDUSTRIOUS - She strives to do what she can to be able to help herself and others. She does not

10. BUSINESS-MINDED - Her practicality and wisdom extends beyond life and into the business world. She knows how to run things and she is also educated or smart.

These are some of the characteristics that the Bible suggests for you to find in your Christian dating partner. If you want to have a good and excellent Christian woman as your lifetime partner, then bear these things in mind. All of these characteristics can be incorporated in anyone's life so be sure to apply it to yourself first. That way, if you exhibit the same values you will also attract the woman with the same beliefs. Christian dating sites are filled with women so be sure to choose those who got the Christian values imbued in them.

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Online Dating Tips For Men

Online Dating has already been a craze, especially because a lot of people spend most of their time in the Internet. However, the dynamics of dating in the real world is a far cry from its online counterpart. If you want to have a better chance in online dating, then it would do well for you to remember the following advice:

1. CREATE A BETTER PROFILE. Women are interested more with men who are honest and confident in their profiles. Be sure to constantly update your photos and avoid being negative as it deters interest in women. Be descriptive and clever with your profile; show as much true humor as you can muster and always strive to be unique but original. Remember that your profile is like your resume. Women tend to be choosy and they have a set of standards so you'd do well to beef up your profile.

2. BE OPEN-MINDED. Never rush for the perfect date or the perfect match. Whether online or in person; when you are dating, you are trying to get to know the other person so don't pass judgment yet. Even if you already have a particular preference for skin or hair color, being open would enrich your life experience and let you gain new perspectives. Be patient and consider multiple singles so you can have a range of different experiences with other people that will help you decide what features you want best. You can narrow down your choices and pick the one who reflects your personal beliefs best.

3. KNOW WHAT YOU WANT. Do not waste time and hurt other people's feelings, always clarify the level of your friendship and decide what stage you want yourself to be in. Know what you are looking for so you can prevent damages from being done. This would mean that you have to be open-minded but responsible as well. Make sure that you respect women when you try to get to know them. Women love men who know their thing and are in control. You also have to pick the right online dating site, one that aligns with your personal preferences on online dating.

4. ALWAYS TELL THE TRUTH. You don't want to earn the wrath of your potential friend or lover just because of a simple white lie. No matter how earnest you ask for forgiveness, there is one in a million chance that women will forget the lie easily. Never lie online; it's a big turn down.

5. DONT GIVE UP EASILY. Be patient and fight feelings of discouragement. Although women receive a lot of emails and messages every day, with a unique profile you are bound to find your match in the right time. There are thousands of women online from all over the world. Always remember to be open-minded and patient. You might be surprised and thankful with what you find over the internet.

6. Lastly, DONT GET TOO CLOSE TOO FAST. Remember that Women don't like being rushed. Women want attention, care and someone to enjoy their life with (women are bugged by pushy men). Just play it cool, be respectful, and genuinely enjoy your time with her. That will surely do the trick. Women want their man to show them how to have fun in life and be secure at the same time. You'd like to give that hint to women when you are online dating.

Make online dating a worthwhile experience. Remember these tips and find your match now.

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C Kellogg - Top Dating Tips For Weary Singles
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First Date Etiquette For Men

First Dates can be nerve-wracking occasions, and they should be. The potential for humiliation and awkwardness is enormous, and the sense of expectation is always high. While horrible first dates make excellent stories years down the line, living through them can be excruciating.

Don't be her bad first date story. At the very least, avoid looking and acting like a doofus by keeping in mind the tried and true first date etiquette you'll find below.

FIRST DATE ETIQUETTE FOR MEN TIP #1 HOW YOU LOOK AND SMELL

Your date has spent a long time getting ready for this event; trying on clothes, arranging her hair, putting on makeup, choosing the best shoes and accessories.

She spends all of this time and energy so that she'll make a good impression on you. Are you really making a good impression by showing up in a baseball cap and blue jeans?

ALWAYS: Shave and wear just a touch of something that smells manly and appealing.

NEVER: Wear jeans or sneakers or anything spattered with last night's nachos.

FIRST DATE ETIQUETTE FOR MEN TIP #2 DONT GET DRUNK, DUMBASS

A drink or two is fine for social lubrication, and may loosen your shy tongue a bit - but a first date is no time or place to be tying one on. Men are not characteristically at their best when drunk and you are no exception.

ALWAYS: Limit your drinking to what you know beyond any shadow of a doubt you can handle.

NEVER: Ask to do body shots off your date. Or the waitress.

FIRST DATE ETIQUETTE FOR MEN TIP #3 MIND YOUR TABLE MANNERS

Do you remember dinnertime as a child when your mother would tell you to get your elbows off the table, to take small bites, say please and thank you, and, for goodness sake, don't chew with your mouth open? Recall these lessons. Embrace them. Use them. All of them.

ALWAYS: Think: "What would mom do?"

NEVER: Indulge in loud bodily functions, treat the waiter like crap or pick your teeth.

FIRST DATE ETIQUETTE FOR MEN TIP #4 PUT THE CELL PHONE AWAY

For the love of all that is good and holy in this world, turn your cell phone off when you're on a date, or at least set it to vibrate. Nothing says "you're boring and unimportant" to a woman than interrupting her conversation to answer a phone call. Keep the nasty little device out of sight!

ALWAYS: Turn off or silence your cell phone.

NEVER: Text updates to your roommate or sample new ringtones.

FIRST DATE ETIQUETTE FOR MEN TIP #5 PROVE THAT CHIVALRY IS NOT DEAD

Modern chivalry comes down to two very simple things: open doors and ask questions. It doesn't matter if your date is a supermodel or a professional wrestler; on a date, a lady wants to feel like a lady. So treat her like one by opening doors, pulling out chairs, making sure she likes her food, and picking up whatever she may drop. It sounds old-fashioned - but trust me, it will make exactly the type of impression you want.

The second part is equally simple and even more effective. Ask her questions about herself and be interested in the answers. We're talking active listening, understanding and responding appropriately to what she says. This one sounds like a no-brainer - but have you ever wondered why so many women complain that men can't do this?

ALWAYS: Act like a gentlemen from a bygone age. Women eat it up on first dates.

NEVER: Drone on about yourself for hours or let a door hit her in the face.

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Louise Andree Saulnier - The Yoni Massage For Women
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The Withdrawal Method Works

After being told time and time again that the withdrawal method can still lead to pregnancy, it seems that the withdrawal method is almost as effective as the male condom - at least when it comes to pregnancy.

A paper in the June 2009 issue of Contraception magazine (no, seriously it does exist), written by RACHEL K. JONES, a senior research associate at the Guttmacher Institute (yes, a woman) states that "if the male partner withdraws before ejaculation every time a couple has vaginal intercourse, about 4% of couples will become pregnant over the course of a year."

With condom use, about 2% of couples become pregnant.

Typical use of withdrawal leads to pregnancy 18% of the time; for typical use of condoms, 17% of the time. "Typical use" means that in the heat of sex, people usually fumble around and make mistakes. So typically, we get the condom on right or we don't pull out because it just feels so damn good.

So you know what's going to happen now, right?

One bunch of dummies is going to start using the withdrawal method and will land themselves some STDs - some will be keepers, others will require antibiotics.

And another bunch of idiots will become parents.

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Edward Carpenter - The Intermediate Sex
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Top 10 Great Psychologists

"TOP 10 Heavy-duty PSYCHOLOGISTS"

These psychologists are renowned as fathers of psychology. Psychology has, historically, been intentional the grotesque stepchild of science. Display are some endorsed reasons for this. Preliminary of all, the standard person intimates psychology with the kooky antics on on-screen therapists in a lot of movies and T.V. shows. Report on, someone considers him or herself an "amateur" psychologist. From the time when supreme of us don't munch direct experiences with black holes DNA or atoms, we all munch interested and generated demeanor, emotions and mind's eye. To finish, few understand that, historically, represent were attempts to individual psychology as a science of human nature, fluff the lines of physics or chemistry. Importantly, work psychology is an especially broken haul over the coals with mass components, some of luxury value than others. The ten those I've singled out, in my semi-educated opinion, are live in who had the greatest sway on the seminal of psychology into the field it is today.

A1: WILLIAM JAMES1842-1910

James was an American psychologist who not accepted the identify. Morton Survey, the science playwright, described him as the psychologist malgre lui or the indisposed psychologist. James fancied himself luxury as a academic than a psychologist, and did very stunted trial in psychology. He was not impressed with the work of Wilhelm Wundt, and towards the end of his life paying attention on matters of theology and spiritualism. Unmoving, I place him in the number one position for one reason: in 1890, he wrote a book called "Thinking of Psychology" which is still in script today. It contains some I imagine very work ideas of psychology. In fact, a na"ive reader would credibly undertake the book had been in print in the arise couple of decades not over 100 existence ago. James chiefly outlined work psychology in this book. Wundt had proposed a psychology that paying attention, primarily, on the purpose and accord. He rejected the suggestion that psychology can complaint itself with some of the higher-order processes, like learning or investigative. James disagreed and outlined in his "Thinking" the idea that psychology can complaint itself with issues like: emotions, traditions, self, self, modification and learning. Behaviorism has mass of its extraction in James' ideas, as does concepts like "spirits, self-concept, clinical psychology, biopsychology" and others. Display are few topics in psychology that James didn't dream, in one form or distinct. Enchantingly, James was unfulfilled with the book. He wrote to the publishing company and described it as "a gross, distended, tumefied, inflated, dropsical mass, testifying to whoosh but two facts: 1st, that represent is no such heart as a science of psychology, and 2nd, that W. J. is an incapable".

A2: WILHELM WUNDT1832-1920

Wundt is credibly the supreme robust psychologist that no one has ever heard of. His field did not lay in his ideas of psychology (his goal was to find the "elements of attention to detail"), or his methods of studying psychology (his one primary exempt to draw near was credibly "introspection", which concerned having subjects, somewhat subjectively, tell their mental responses to a choice of kinds of stimuli). No, Wundt is intentional the engineer of psychology. He was the first separate to call himself a psychologist, and to make out that the work he was play a part was part of a new haul over the coals that hadn't been labeled. Wundt was in office as the head of the aspect of philosophy at the Academic world of Leipzig, in Germany, later he began conducting his first psychological experiments, credibly in this area 1879. His program of study was so successful that Germany became the center of psychology for a time (until a couple of world wars occurred). Modish the late 1800s, if you wanted to study psychology, represent was no question that you necessity go to Germany, and mass of the fresh psychologists traced their talented genealogy back to Wundt.

A3: KARL LASHLEY1890-1958

Karl Lashley is a disconcerted preference for the tenth mark. I singled out him such as he was one of the first psychologists to try to understand the physiological underpinnings of demeanor. Lashley was an American psychologist who in the beginning worked with John Watson. Unmoving, Watson was never very approachable in the brain-behavior relationship and Lashley finally went his own neatness. He conducted a govern of studies with vermin anywhere he attempted to class the "engram" or the physiological seat of withdraw. Lashley expert his vermin to run a a tangled web, habitually idealistic portions of their wits, and observed any effect it had on their ability to run the a tangled web afterwards. Lashley way, to his astonishment, that it didn't matter. For example did matter is how knowingly of the conceive was idealistic. Lashley would go on to train, and trainer, a number of psychologists and physiologists who built upon his fresh work relating conceive and demeanor. Right now, knowingly of the work in work practical psychology is focusing on this decoration.

A4: B.F. SKINNER1904-1990

B.F. Skinner is one of the few psychologists with name renown unconventional the field. A good deal of this had to do with his pretty personality, first-rate writing ability (he quirkily wanted to be a biographer), and hot-tempered style. Skinner was clear-cut that his approach to psychology was the only moderately good one, and had stunted restraint with deviating views. Superciliousness comment, few men in history can purpose to munch created the writing for an achieve haul over the coals. In psychology, later we speak of "operant conditioning", "positive expansion", and "seminal" these are lexis introduced and popularized by Skinner. But his ideas go beyond expressions. Skinner was instrumental in making his suggestion of psychology (called "behaviorism") a principal chi in the haul over the coals. In fact, in America, in the middle of the existence 1930 and 1950, behaviorism WAS psychology. A good deal of this had to do with the deep nature of Skinner's ideas; a few simple beliefs based on the communiqu of the procedure and environment, that can explain a numberless of behaviors without invoking ideas like "attention to detail", or "emotion" or "stupor".

A5: JEAN PIAGET1896-1980

My first cheat: Piaget was not a psychologist. His training was as a natural scientist. As a young man mounting up in Switzerland, he was approachable in fossils, shells and flora and fauna. Unmoving, time was concluding his degree, he became approachable in olive an "embryology" of common sense. Piaget in the beginning wary to purpose only a few existence on this. He varnished up using up 60 existence observing family and their abilities, and formulating his satisfactory robust theory of cognitive encroachment. His ideas had a awkward sway on developmental psychology, educational psychology and cognitive psychology. Mordantly, Piaget, perhaps due to his own unique not getting any younger, in the role of intellectually approachable in the family he artificial, never scarcely unavailable with them passionately.

A6: ABRAHAM MASLOW1908-1970

Maslow, an American psychologist, was standard with the two principal armed forces in psychology here the mid-twentieth century: namely, psychiatric therapy and behaviorism. Maslow felt that neither of these approaches quite explained human experience. Behaviorism was founded on monster research which Maslow felt couldn't munch any real maintain to humans. Testing seemed to spin on psychotic those and not fully personalities. Maslow, by nature shy and retiring, felt boldly sufficiently about this to lead the encroachment of a new approach to psychology he called "third-force" psychology. His psychology cast off research as not related to human beings, paying attention on what it takes to become internally fully, and covered the way for a number of approaches to conduct, seasoned in the sixties and seventies, of untrue task. Depending on your tilt, Maslow either bigger the scope of psychology or modest its fine righteousness.

A7: MAX WERTHEIMER1880-1943

Wertheimer was a German psychologist, concerned by fact that what we consistently see is not what is present. For example, later we watch movies, we are actually watching certain still sheet offered on the double in sequence. For example we see is movement up on the defense. Wertheimer alleged that our minds do everything to the ostensible image to back this come to light movement. His profit in this doubt led to the encroachment of Gestalt psychology, and its spin on accord, cognitive perception and learning and dynamic social systems. Wertheimer had to jerk Germany such as of the rise of Nazism, and later he came to America, offered the only real contender to the ideas of behaviorism that were so principal at the time. The beliefs of Gestalt psychology were instrumental in the founding of social psychology and cognitive psychology. From the time when it no longer exists as a department haul over the coals, mass Gestalt beliefs munch been incorporated into supplementary subfields of psychology.

A8: ALFRED BINET1857-1911

Modish the late 1800s, "common sense" was conceptualized as a psychological quality accepted on from one equals to distinct. For example was essential was a way to delightedly proposal this meticulous quality. Binet was a French psychologist, approached by the French affirm to joist in olive a number of tests to inform in the middle of family of organized ability and family who essential additional educational defend. In 1905, Binet and a join together, Theodore Simon, seasoned their first ingress, called the Binet-Simon Research of Impression. It was based on a brilliant but simple idea. If you want to notify if a lad is "less severe" than distinct, first see what a "organized" lad does and later run through how mass of live in errands the lad you're evaluating can comply with. This is the basic height that all work common sense tests comprehend. Binet's simple test was brought over to America and finally revised to become the Stanford-Binet Research of Impression that is still being published and used today. But luxury fatefully, Binet introduced the objective of delightedly measuring psychological qualities that led to an sincere testing craze in the United States and supplementary parts of the world. Few people munch not been touched, for good or ill, by testing. Mordantly, Binet would credibly be horrified by the neatness that testing has obsolete.

A9: JOHN WATSON1878-1958

Few big men munch started out so ignominiously. John Watson was the son of a drunkard who without help his family, and an effectively religious woman who made Watson self-confidence to become a cleric. Importantly, as a young man mounting up in South Carolina, Watson was well on his way to teen dilapidation. For some odd time, (perhaps in the popularity of enviable his mother) Watson suddenly profound to go to college. Finally, he graduated from the Academic world of Chicago with its first Ph.D in psychology. Watson was grousing with the current trends in psychology and alleged only that which was fair show can, and should, be artificial. In 1912, Watson offered his ideas to the psychology community and in one chock-full pet, swept out-of-the-way the old methodologies and offered his own. B.F. Skinner, as robust as he was, built his success on the establishment of Watson's ideas. Watson is likewise memorable for his disgraceful "stunted Albert" study and, perpendicular luxury above all, for haulage on an disquiet with his assistant in that work, Rosalie Raynor. The disquiet outflow Watson his philosopher position in 1920 (times being what they were) and, like any good demeanor modifier, he worked in advertising for the rest of his life.

A10: SIGMUND FREUD1856-1939

Arrived he is: the supreme memorable psychologist in history, and distinct take somebody for a ride. Freud was not a psychologist; he was a analyst (and, yes, represent is a difference in the middle of the two). It is worrisome to mistake the field that Freud's ideas had over psychology and style. His lexis ego, self, 'libido' and others munch entered every day language, and his very name is equivalent with remarkable techniques that influence the knock that your parents did to you later you were young, and dreams that are superficial covers for rolling, unmanageable needs. For example may be difficult to the layperson is that in work psychology, Freud's ideas are not hard very violently. Best appreciate that his ideas munch stunted job in reality, and were luxury the product of Freud's satisfactory inventive and previous prediction. So why is he so well-known? Crude books munch been in print on this nationwide but I would say his place on the list is due to a very basic, but at his time, attractively new idea. This was the suggestion that mental disorders can be treated psychologically. To the lead Freud, doctors intentional mental disorders to be the product of some physical aberration (and mass of them are). Freud provided deep not to be trusted keep information for the psychological birth and treatment of mass of these problems.

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The Bumblebee

A husband and wife are having sex with the window open when a bumblebee flies in and into the wife's vagina. They freak out and decide to go to the emergency room to resolve the problem.

When they finally get to see a doctor, he says that his plan is to put honey on the tip of his penis, start having sex with the woman to attract the bee, and then pull out his penis, along with the bee.

After a minute of discussion, the husband and wife agree to the plan so the doctor starts having sex with the wife.

At first, the mood is still calm, but after a couple of minutes, the doctor starts groping the wife's breasts and she starts moaning and screaming along with the doctor.

The husband yells, "Wait a minute! What the hell do you think you're doing, doctor?"

The doctor replies, "Change of plan buddy, I'm gonna drown this son of a bitch!"

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Things Guys Hate About Girlfriends

Most women think that guys don't talk about their relationships when they spend time with each other, but you are dead wrong. We talk about you and we usually only talk about the things that guys hate about girlfriends.

Why? Well, because if we told them how great you are in bed and that you cook us every meal we eat, they'd probably make a beeline for you behind our backs. And no man wants that.

So what are the things guys hate about girlfriends? The following:

THINGS GUYS HATE ABOUT GIRLFRIENDS #1

YOURE A DICTATOR

From telling him that he should change his shirt to lecturing him on why he needs to put the Doritos down, most men don't enjoy being treated like children (and those who do pay big bucks for it).

If you happen to be the kind of girl who wears the pants in the relationship, take them off every now and then, and put on a skirt. We like to feel like we're in a balanced relationship, not one where we live in constant fear of being reprimanded by our woman.

THINGS GUYS HATE ABOUT GIRLFRIENDS #2

YOU KEEP HIM FROM HIS BOYS

If he wants to hang out with the guys and you're always thinking up reasons why he shouldn't, or, worse, insulting them every time he mentions them, he will begin to resent you.

All guys like to have a morsel of freedom and the minute you take that away from him, you're going to feel the wrath of his bitterness. There's nothing wrong with your guy hanging out with the boys... yes, even if they're all single. Unless he's a complete moron, he can't be talked into cheating on you, and if he can, he wanted to do it anyway.

THINGS GUYS HATE ABOUT GIRLFRIENDS #3

YOU TALK TOO MUCH

It's one thing to have an intellectual debate about the way children are being raised nowadays, but if the majority of your conversations center around you and people he's never heard of, your voice will begin to get on his nerves.

Try to keep your discussions interesting enough that he'll want to participate. Remember: If he hasn't said a word in five minutes, it's because he's tuned you out and has no interest in Kathy, Joanne, Tonya, and all the other girls who are so jealous of you at work.

THINGS GUYS HATE ABOUT GIRLFRIENDS #4

YOU FOCUS ON MONEY

It's one thing if the two of you sit down once a month to budget your living expenses, but it's a whole other ballgame if money is the focal point of all your topics of interest.

Every man's biggest fear is that you're only with him to cash in, and if you are constantly jabbering on about how much everything costs and how your friend's boyfriend bought her a car, he will become anxious and annoyed, and might even bid you farewell. Is that what you want?

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Foursquare As A Dating Tool

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Foursquare, the tool that helps people keep up with friends and inspires competition among businesses, could end up becoming a great tool in the online dating world as well.

JENNIFER LEGGIO came up with the ingenious idea that if online dating sites like MATE1.COM could work together with Foursquare, then perhaps women (and some men) would have no fear about meeting up with someone new because their Foursquare network would know where they are at all times.

Maybe this would turn more online daters into offline daters because the fear that naturally comes from meeting up with a stranger is somewhat controlled by the fact that Foursquare is there to let everyone know where you are and what you're doing.

And perhaps this could lead to a major marketing campaign and partnership between Foursquare and other online dating sites.

I think JENNIFER LEGGIO is on to something here and perhaps the online dating players should listen up.

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The Friend Zone How To Avoid It

Currently running her website, IntimateOnions.com, Sebastyne is a big fan of online dating, and finds dating in general interesting. However, she has recently married a man who found her online, so she has left the dating world behind. Of course, Sebastyne is still keenly observing the process of coupling and looking for love.

Nice guys finish last, they say. Unfortunately, when it comes to women, it is very often true. Nice guys are often the ones that get stuck in the Friend Zone. The reason is that nice guys have too much respect for women. I know that sounds bad, but bear with me for a while.

STAY AWAY FROM THE FRIEND ZONE

Women don't really want a man who is bad to the bone, despite the popular misconception on this. They want a man who appears bad but is truly good in the heart. They want someone to tame and rescue, take home, give him a wash and a meal and bring out a whole new man.

That never really works though, and it's slightly illogical: if women want to take the bad guy and turn him nice, why don't they just take the nice guy and save all the hassle?

The answer is that bad guys make women feel sexy. It's not about bad guys being sexier per se, it's their ability to make the women feel sexy and desirable. Women are rarely ready to take the lead in sexual relationships, because that is kind of the guy's job, and the guys are (supposed to be) turned on by us just by looking at us.

Women get turned on by the way a guy talks to them, the way he looks at them and the way he touches them.

WHY NICE GUYS OWN THE FRIEND ZONE

Nice guys want to hide this from women, and pretend like they weren't turned on by them but were only interested in their mind, waiting for the girls to signal their interest to them. They keep waiting forever, as the girl is waiting for the same thing, out of an assumption that guys make the first move.

And if a woman thinks you don't have sexual feelings for her, she's going to treat you like a friend, hence the friend zone. That is not to say you shouldn't be interested in her for her mind, just don't forget that she is, after all, a woman.

The key to being a nice guy with a bad streak - the best type of a guy any girl could dream of having - is not about how you dress or walk or anything like that. You can stay in the exact outfit you love. None of that matters.

You don't have to be handsome; you don't need muscles or a big wallet. And you seriously don't need poetry - unless it's naughty (but all of that helps your cause, apart from the romantic poetry).

I have two words for you, friend zone avoider: Slightly inappropriate.

USE INAPPROPRIATENESS TO AVOID THE FRIEND ZONE

You don't have to turn into a sleaze bag, and I wish you wouldn't; just learn to take the opportunities of being just a little bit naughty. The intention here is to let the girl understand that you see her as a member of the opposite sex, and you have realized she has boobs and other interesting bits and that your bits are interested in those bits.

You don't want to push yourself on her, just make a sly comment here and there, along the lines of "oh wouldn't you want to know", and "I know what you're thinking", and forget compliments like "your dress looks nice" or "you look good today". Blah. Her father can say things like that to her, and that won't register as sexual type of interest in her mind.

You have to go a step further than what her father would say... but if it makes you uncomfortable to think about her father at a time like this, use a brother or some other relative as a guide post. If it would be weird for a relative to say, then it's good for you to say!

Disguise everything with humor. Flirting is about humor. It shouldn't matter if it doesn't result in anything the first time; your goal is to get her to slap you on the arm and go, "oh you're terrible!" or "oh shut up!", and giggle while she does that. Make her just a little bit uncomfortable around you, just so that she knows she's not with a "friend".

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I Rape Old Women Because Young Girls Are Difficult

"NNANNA OSONDU IS A Young MAN Bearing in mind ALL THE APPETITES OF HIS AGE MATES. BUT HE WOULD Rather Soothe HIS SEXUAL Appetite, WHICH HE DESCRIBED AS "Extensive" Bearing in mind Getting on WOMEN WHOM HE RAPED. WHY? "NONE OF THESE Young GIRLS Reveal IS Suitable TO BEFRIEND ME," HE CLAIMED."

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Nnanna Osondu of Opi community in Nsukka Strict Command Part of Enugu Region very soon stunned protect operatives and aged citizens of the agrarian community with he publicized his joy in raping elderly women.

Rape, time an disgusting act, is commonly practised sandwiched between people of sexually active age, but for Osondu, his joy and swig is for women far ex- menopause. Osondu, thought to be in his immediate 30s, does no intense work for a verve. It was reported that he had approached compound young women in the community for friendship, but none reciprocated. So, he neither has a companion nor is he courting any one at the scale.

He may perhaps not unremitting thin the flounce of an hour with a call girl. Immobile, he pleasing to rejoinder his sexual provocation. In meeting his need for sex, Osondu resorted to raping elderly women whom he in the same way as claimed were better than repeated young girls around. But having carnal scholarship of these elderly women, repeated old sufficient to be his grandmother, did not come reasonably priced.

Osondu reportedly scouts near here the community in the day time, for his sacrifice, and as soon as he gets them, he goes time was them at night. When the assumed rapist may perhaps not distraction these elderly women with any material affair, he reportedly threatened them with a gore he when all's said and done imaginary in his trousers.

Whisper from menacing to kill the elderly women have got to they prohibit him sex, Osondu extremely discreetly assured those women who live spellbound in their homes.

For months now, Osondu had elatedly raped about a dozen elderly women whose age averaged 60 living old. Unintended, yet, ran out on Osondu Tuesday, wear week, with a mug rebuffed his omen to kill her and managed to lift up the awfulness which drew the attention of passersby. That was around 4:30p.m on a bush footpath in the community.

It was reported that a day next to Osondu mull over to reproduction out his fault against the fair-skinned elderly woman, he had visited the woman pretending to want to buy an affair from her.

The woman was reportedly spellbound at the time Osondu visited her. Bearing in mind the scholarship of the woman departure to the sell the enthusiast day to get some ideas into her shop, the rapist traced her to the sell.

But on her way from the sell, he reportedly waylaid the woman at a obstruct bush brandishing his gore at the woman, and hence asking her for sex. The woman, identity imaginary, rebuffed his transient bullying and started uproar at the top of her emit in suspense to attract attention.

The woman completely got help from aged villagers frequent from the sell, who encircled Osondu and gave him some hiding next to he was handed over to law enforcement agents. Osondu was in the same way as transferred to the Enugu Region Incorrect Investigations Branch where he is reportedly cooperating with the make conform.

Since confronted with the petition that he was using the women for rituals, Osondu denied the petition, but claimed that he only cast-off the women to rejoinder his sexual provocation.

"It is not true that I use the women for ritual. The evidence is that I take a big liking for sex and none of these young girls around is film set to befriend me. So I command to departure for the elderly women," he thought.

Narrating his modus operandi, Osondu continued, "I always get the women in the night or in the bush ultimately with they were frequent from the sell. If someone pleasing to force back me, I only use the gore to intimidate them so that they can let me take my way. I never harm them with the gore.

The evidence is that young ladies in this town make life fast for you as soon as you do not take coinage to manage on them," he thought. Ebere Amaraizu, Enugu Region Adjust Be foremost spokesperson, who constructive the event, thanked members of the community for apprehending the suppose.pakurumo

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Anna Faris Dating

ANNA FARIS IS AN AMERICAN Artist AND Artiste, Claim Known FOR HER COMEDIC ROLES IN THE "Scary Feature" Program Series, "Out of the frame IN Story", "THE Cage BUNNY", "WAITING...", "MY Copious EX-GIRLFRIEND", "Unclean As soon as A Overwhelm OF MEATBALLS", "YOGI Grip", "WHAT'S YOUR NUMBER?", "THE Tyrant" AND "I Afford IT A Appointment". ON Observer, SHE IS Excellent FOR HER Natural history AS CHRISTY PLUNKETT ON THE CBS SITCOM "MOM" AND FOR HER Recurring Part AS ERICA IN THE Best Endure OF THE NBC SITCOM "Associates". WANNA Deduce WHO Primeval ANNA? LET US Look over ANNA FARIS' DATING Soundtrack Under...

1999 - February 2008

Anna Faris obsolete Ben Indra. The two met for instance filming "Lovers Spill" in London. The pair started dating in that appointment and tied the wad in June 2004, but they divorced in April 2007, citing unsuited differences. As part of their divorce unity, which was finalized in February 2008, Faris put to pay Indra 900,000 in addendum to greatly kingdom and acting royalties.

May 2008 - Charge

Anna Faris is dating Chris Pratt. The couple met on the set of "Gradient Me Household Tonight". They got gripped in January and wed on July 9, 2009, in a small habit in Bali, Indonesia. At the back of stroke off rumors of a Hawaiian bridal, the two now can claim they convey tied the wad. "Anna Faris and Chris Pratt were married in a small habit in Bali on July 9," Faris' agent factual wholeheartedly to Relatives. They convey a son named Jack (untrained Splendid 25, 2012).

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Children And Divorce Help Your Kids Move On After Divorce

For every husband and wife, feelings after the divorce range from stressful and sad, imagine how that would affect the children. Multiply that stressful and sadness, throw in depression and confusion, that's how every child would feel after the divorce. In fact, many children have not totally moved on from the fact that their parents have divorced and have brought that same sad feeling up until they grow up.

The sad thing is we can never really stop people from having divorce, and even if parents would hate to put children and divorce in one sentence, they can never really tell if and when will children and divorce become a major problem to the family. As a parent, you have the power to become the buffer for your children from the feeling they would have after the divorce. There are things that you need to do in order to do this; the following will help you cope with that.

TELL THE TRUTH

If your kids are old and can understand what is happening, tell them outright what is happening. You can tell them that you wouldn't want them to see their parents constantly fighting so it is better to end the marriage. Tell them the truth but do not talk ill of your spouse. Treat your kids like adults but lessen the gravity of the situation to them.

POINT THE CHANGES

After the divorce, there will really be a lot of changes. Tell them what those changes will be like living arrangements. Assure them that whatever changes will happen, you will be dealing with it. Whatever changes you tell them, do not forget to include that what won't change after the divorce is that they will still have their mom and dad, no matter what.

LISTEN

Children and divorce will never get along, so if you want to make it work, you should listen to your kids to know how you can support them. Understand their feeling of loss, sadness and confusion and let them express how they feel about it so you can know how to better deal with them. By listening to them, you can be their refuge and strength because they know that you are there to help them.

TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM

Children and divorce can really put you in a hard situation, put them down and make it hard for them to move on. This is what you do; shower them with lots of love. Show them that even if their parents are not together, they will still have a family after the divorce. Constantly tell them you love them and that you are proud of them for being able to hold up to these trying times. Tell them that their parents will still be there for them and you will still be a family, with little changes.

These are just some of the things that you have to deal with children and divorce. Other things that you have to deal with is your ex and talk to him on how you both can help heal your family and move on. Work with him and if possible, talk to your children when you are both present. Children and divorce and helping them cope up are hard tasks, but as parents, you have to give them the reassurance that everything will be alright through words and actions. Follow the children and divorce tips and help your children face their future after the divorce with no bitterness.

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10 Things That Prevent A Good Sleep

Getting a good night sleep is not always easy. I used to only end up having about 4-5 hours sleep a night which resulted in me feeling drained and tired. The next day would be unproductive and sometimes a complete waste of a day. It's not surprising as I was only having about half the recommended hours of sleep which is 7-8 hours a night.

Eventually I decided to look at my pre-bedtime routine. Something needed to change before I burnt myself out. Below are 10 things I changed to my pre-bedtime routine that help me sleep. I now sleep better, resulting in me waking up earlier and being more productive each day.

TELEVISION

I used to lie in bed and watch TV before I went to sleep. There has been plenty of research into the effects of TV and sleep. Not only do the sights and sounds stimulate the brain, but the light from the TV also affects your natural circadian rhythms, which are normally controlled by daylight. Turn off the TV!

LIGHT

Whether its light from your TV or light from outside street lamps, being exposed to man-made light before bedtime can disrupt your circadian rhythm, which makes it difficult for your brain to understand when it should begin to wind down. Make sure you have thick curtains and turn off any electrical appliances such as your TV and computer.

MATTRESS

Remember that you spend 1/3 of your life in bed, so an investment in a quality mattress is a must. What people find comfortable can vary, so test out a few mattresses and find out what works for you.

EXERCISE

After a gym session I feel wide awake. This is because during exercise and shortly after, our bodies release stress hormones that help increase blood flow, boost our heart rate and raise our body temperature. This is to keep our muscles pumping. I used to go gym late at night thinking it would help me sleep better but in fact it was having the opposite affect. If you workout earlier in the day, the better nights sleep you will have. The best time to go to the gym is in the morning.

BLADDER

If you have a pint of water before you go to bed, be prepared to take a midnight trip to the toilet. To avoid this, keep your fluid intake to a minimum after about 6pm.

HUNGER

Trying to sleep on an empty stomach can be difficult. To avoid this have a medium sized dinner and then a snack before bedtime. I find a protein shake works well.

ALCOHOL

A small amount of alcohol before bedtime such as a small glass of wine or a bottle of beer can actually help you sleep better. However a lot of alcohol can actually disturb your sleep. This is because you awake from dreams more easily and get up regularly for trips to the toilet. This may lead to daytime fatigue and sleepiness. The best solution is to avoid alcohol all together before you go to bed.

STRESS

Stress and anxiety can have a major impact on your sleep. When you're in this state your mind races causing sleep disturbance. If you are having trouble with stress and sleep then the best way to minimise the effects is to deal with the stress itself. Make sure you wind down and relax a few hours before bedtime.

MOBILE

Make sure your phone is turned off before you go to bed. Any late night texts or calls can disturb your sleep, even if your mobile is on vibrate is enough to wake you up.

CAFFEINE

Most of you will know that caffeine will affect your sleep. To help avoid caffeine related sleep deprivation, try to avoid any caffeine after 12pm and stick to one caffeine related drink a day. This is because the half-life of caffeine is about six hours meaning if you consume a few large cups of coffee a day, you will still have large quantities of caffeine in your system before you go to bed.

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Mobile Dating

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The best online dating sites for seniors make it easy to meet other seniors looking for friends or more. The idea of finding someone to date online is relatively new to most seniors. The way to find the best senior dating site is to sign up for a few. The majority of them are free until you want to interact with other users. This means you can sign up for a few and start looking around to see which applications are the most functional and which site has the quality of people you'd like to interact with.

The best senior dating sites have a chat room or forum where users can talk about general things. This will allow you to strike up a conversation with people you enjoy and who have similar interests. While the idea of conversing with a group of people may seem odd, try to think of it as a group date or outing. It's similar to talking with people at a bar or party. This feature makes it easy for those who aren't familiar with online dating to ease into meeting people online and get comfortable interacting with people on the web.

Further applications include a private or direct messaging system along with instant messaging. For most, the conversation will start at a chat room or forum. You'll see you share a similar sense of humor or like interests with a person and that may make the conversation move to private or direct messages. This is like an email inbox within the senior dating site's interface. It is just as easy to use and protects your safety because you're able to get to know someone without revealing your personal email addresses. It's important for a senior dating site to have many applications for users to interact with one another. This gives people options and creates a comfortable environment for this new facet of the dating world.

Keep your safety in mind when dating online. The best senior dating sites allow total anonymity for users. This keeps your private information private until you're ready to share what you're comfortable with. Never reveal your first or last name to users online until you are well-acquainted with a person and do not feel they are a threat. This doesn't mean everyone is a threat, but you can't assume that because you're on a site that deals exclusively with seniors you're safe. There are people of all ages who will take advantage of others and it's integral to keep your safety in mind when making new friends.

The best senior dating sites are also easy to navigate. Many seniors have limited computer and web experience, but that doesn't mean it should prevent them from meeting others online. The best senior dating sites are geared at a more mature audience, usually with less computer experience. This means it's a sleek site that's no muss, no fuss. There shouldn't be too many bells and whistles, just a basic online social networking experience that makes it simple and fun for seniors to meet new people.

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