Pickup Etiquette For Women

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Although women usually leave it to the men to approach them, and they have the option of rejecting or accepting us into their bubbles, sometimes there comes along a man who is everything you will want in appearance, and yet he never seems to make the move.

So it's up to you to work your pickup etiquette and try to pick him up. Yes, I said it. You are going to put everything you've learned growing up aside and learn how to use your pickup etiquette to pick up a guy with tact, dignity and without breaking a sweat.

Men are so used to being the ones who constantly have to risk rejection that it would definitely be a welcome change if women made the move. Women do have to tread carefully though: Some guys aren't big fans of women making the moves, it makes them feel inadequate and they might mistake you for desperate, horny toads.

You can't just wait around for the perfect guy to fall from the sky; sometimes you need to nudge fate in your direction. Thanks to the following "pickup etiquette" rules, my success rate is 100% so far and I am here to help you make the move, should you ever feel the need or desire.

PICKUP ETIQUETTE TIP #1 AVOID CHEESY TACTICS

Asking him for the time, a light for your cigarette, or bumping into him "by accident" isn't the sexiest move you could make, although I have to admit, you probably won't fail if you try it. The problem with this technique is that you're starting things off under false pretenses and God knows you don't appreciate it when guys bullsh*t you, so shouldn't you pay them the same courtesy? Make your move like a grown up.

PICKUP ETIQUETTE TIP #2 MAKE EYE CONTACT

Before you approach your target, make eye contact so that you can read his positive signals. If his eyes indicate that making your way toward him is a great idea, and will garner you a name, a number and, hopefully, years filled with orgasmic sex, then it's time to make your move.

PICKUP ETIQUETTE TIP #3 INTRODUCE YOURSELF

Don't ask for his name off the bat. Tell him your name and stick out your hand for a firm handshake. If you happen to be in a loud nightclub, don't pull him in to you by placing your hand around his neck: Go towards his ear and, more likely than not, he'll come in to hear what you have to say.

Don't think that just because you're a woman, you have the right to touch him as you please. You don't know this guy and you're too-friendly behavior may rub him the wrong way.

PICKUP ETIQUETTE TIP #4 ASK HIS NAME

Pickup etiquette dictates that if you introduce yourself without asking for his name, it'll seem like the whole pickup scenario is about you and not him. And you're objective is to turn this introduction into a potential date, and perhaps even a relationship. So if you behave in a self-centered manner off the bat, where will that leave his opinion of you? In the forgotten pile, that's where.

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