Love women. The good and the bad.
If you go out and do nothing but seek to get laid for the sake of your getting off, you won’t survive. And even if you do, you won’t survive well. If you’ve got any women-hating issues in your system, eliminate them now. Get them out of your system. A true seducer is a gentleman, and he adores women for who they are, not for who he wants them to be. Women have a nature. It’s like the fact that the sun shines, and water gets you wet. When you want it to be otherwise, you’re just asking for pain. Accept women the way they are and learn to work with their nature. You cannot seduce a woman if you’re trying to change her, or if you resent her because of what she is.
When I got to my early twenties, I even had a few of what some people call long-term relationships. Mixed in-between was a lot of seduction. Somewhere in my mid-twenties I started to slow down and think about what it was that had created this success I was having. When I started analyzing, I started having more gaps without sex, but much more insight as I figured out what the secret was to attracting and sleeping with women. From average to beautiful. Then, I had my epiphany, or great revelation. It came when I was dating women from the personal ads in Kansas City. I had met this cute art student who was doing creative landscaping for people’s homes in the area. We had gone out one night for some drinks and had a good time. We came back to my apartment, and we were drinking some beer and talking when I had this realization. It was an “a-ha!” moment that I’ll never forget. All this time I’d been working on what I was doing to attract and interest women, or how I was doing it. What I was failing to see was what my underlyingattitude was in these situations.
Invariably, I found that these things were consistent about the failures:
- Too “nice” – Made a lot of compliments, a lot of flattery
- Went on “dates” – Took women to movies and dinners
- Too needy – I acted like I wanted and needed their approval o Waited for signals from her before acting and moving forward (no risking on my part)
And this was what was consistent about the successes: o Used a lot of humor o Teasing and making fun of her – treating her like a pesky brat o Behaved like I didn’t need her – very independently o Moved in aggressively with every woman – regardless of what I thought her interest was o Acted very arrogant and cocky When I looked at Lori, the Art Cutie, I suddenly understood what to do. I put down my beer and asked her, point blank, “Are you attracted to me?” (And my tone said that I couldn’t care less what she said.)
She looked at me, a little shocked, and simply said, “Yes.” Right then and there, I had flipped the switch on to my understanding of how seduction really works with women, and it has nothing to do with being a wonderful man. It has everything with being a man who decides what he wants and goes after it. Without needing it. It was in the attitude. Later that night, Lori and I enjoyed some skinny-dipping at the pool in the courtyard of my apartments, as well as several hours of tear-up-the-sheets sex. Since then, (and this is not bragging, it’s to help you realize that I’ve got the background of understanding to give you the truth about seduction) I’ve slept with scores of women, and built on that fundamental understanding. I established a new belief system regarding women, and I’m about to share with you the understanding here, in great detail.
Also read this ebooks:
Honore De Balzac - Study Of WomanDavid Kyle - Love Highway
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