How To Flirt Over Msn And When To Make Your Move

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Flirting over MSN and making your move. When there's anytime where there's a back and forth going, and there's an actual stream of conversation, or you are busy, or she is busy. Pauses in conversation, quick little messages, and things like that in any online form can be confusing to pick up on signals of her interest or your interest. You don't want to be setting waiting an hour for a one word response. That's a pretty sure sign she just isn't into you, or at least not interested yet. You have to pull out some flirty comments, break the ice, give her a couple cute compliments, and see how she responds. There's no reason to put a lot of pressure on the situation until you can feel out her interest.

If she's just got a general sense of rapport, that's just a general sense that she's interested in what you have to say and she's being interesting to you, and you're interested, then that's a good sign. You can't take your time and move slow, finding dates online seem to move faster than meeting a girl face to face at a bar or a club. If you're still trying to get her attention or she's not really replying very often intimately or there's not much of a stream of back and forth conversation going on then that's probably a good sign that it's not going anywhere, and you can either cut your losses or try and make a move.

Now, if you want to make your move, you need to be more flirtatious and suggestive to show her what your intentions are without having to be too blunt. Then if you're interested in what she has to say, then that's going to really encourage her to get that back and forth going. So I would encourage getting a back and forth conversation flowing, and maybe that might be a way to get her attention. Say something that is a bit flirtatious, a bit more than just a friendly conversation talking about the weather; so it could be a compliment or it could be about some way you feel about her.

If you are ready to make that move then you are going to need something more interesting than, "hey what's happening," or "hey, what's going on," you say something to her or about her being hot or cute. You just want to be on a flirty level before making a move like asking her out on a date or asking her what her phone number is. Just remember in MSN, or in texting it's all about adding little things like smiley faces, and cute little comments that can be taken as anything from cute to sexy. It's about keeping the pressure off and getting that phone number, or face to face date. Keep things light, flirty and fun, and women will usually respond in kind. Then if you aren't interested or she isn't interested there's nobody getting hurt by a few minutes wasted on a short back and forth in MSN.

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Chris Jackson - How To Influence People And Win Them Over
Chris Jackson - How To Get Her To Make The First Move

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