How To Make Love To A Woman Who Seems Out Of Your League

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If you are at the stage where you are about to make love with the girl that you think is out of your league, your mindset is completely in the wrong place because the girl obviously wants to have sex with you. If this sort question is popping up in your head, you may need to ask the question why the girl is probably out of your league. You may need to tackle a self esteem issue. Or it could be just a little jolt of nerves you are having, because you are with the girl that you think is fantastic.

I think that is a really good feeling to have, that you are with a girl that kind of makes you feel a little bit nervous, a little bit anxious, because she is such an amazing girl. If you are not getting this sort of feeling with the girl that you are with, then in my opinion, you are not really living. No matter how many girls I have been with before, every time I meet a new girl who really excites me and I think is really amazing, I always feel slightly nervous.

I get slight butterflies in the stomach. This lets me know that I l really like her and she is a really great girl. I do get the feeling all the time. So how do I overcome it particularly before sex? Well, I am very comfortable in my own shoes and very happy with who I am. Having a lot of sex in the past also makes it a lot easier. I think the main thing is realizing that this girl really likes me. Chances are, she is feeling a bit nervous too.

So, the more you can get outside of your own head, and stop asking internal questions to yourself, that your brain will answer with non-productive answers, the easier it becomes. Personally, I try to think more about the girl. I try to think more into her head, particularly through a conversation. Building more comfort with her, reminding myself what turns me on with her, why I am attracted to her, and complimenting her. This does build comfort for us quite easily. And when it does come to sex, it is no different than any other time I had sex, for the first time.

I am there to enjoy myself. Really enjoy having sex with her. Putting no big deal associated with it. And making her feel really comfortable. To me, that is all there is to it. If you are asking yourself a huge number of questions or trying to strategize how to hit it, then your mind is in the wrong place. Get out of your own mind logically; realize that if you are feeling a little bit nervous around the girl, then it is probably a good thing. It means she is an amazing girl. And she's with you.

Recommended books (downloadable pdfs):

Saira Mohan - How To Seduce And Marry The Woman Of Your Dreams
James Bradley - How To Be Irresistible To Woman 6 Part Mini Course
Dr Barbara Keesling - How To Make Love All Night And Drive A Woman Wild

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