Monday, June 18, 2012

Please I Need Advice Should I Tell

Please I Need Advice Should I Tell
Good morning Auty Eya, pls I have two issues I need my fellow readers and you to advice me on:

1. I have a close friend who recently started dating my husband's friend. My hub has told me stuffs about this guy that I feel my friend might get heartbroken in the end whether it ends in marriage or not. Now my dilemma is, U know how we women love, if I tell her and she tells this guy, he'll know it's from my hub and I dnt want to cause an issue between my hub and his friend. (Before they'll use me to confirm that women are the root of all

On the other hand, It would really kill me to see my friend heartbroken when I could have done something about it. Especially since she once told me when someone went around spreading lies and rumors about me. It's not like this my hub's friend is a serial killer or something but, the info I have on him is not nice. Should I mind my business? (Before they'll say cos I have married my own, I dnt want someone else to be happy).

2. This is the one that is really bugging me. One day, I saw our day gateman (we have a night one) kissing a little girl. The girl is about 5,6,7 and she is not a relative. She is one of the children of people living in a batcher(wood house) close to our house. It wasn't a french kiss and he was not hiding to do it but something in me dropped when I saw them. This is a man who should be in his 50s, who lives alone, with no wife or kids. Heard they are in the village while another report says he is not married.

I have heard too much of what is happening in our society so I can't say 'there's nothing there'. Should I track down the parents of the girl and inform them? Maybe subtly tell them to watch their kid well? Or should I talk to the gateman? Or is it nothing? Cos when I told my hub, he shrugged and said, there might be nothing there. Or should I again, mind my business? People have warned me about associating with people who live in batchers, that they can be very mean. But what if my info will save that girl from featuring in the news for the wrong reason?

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